- FEELING, NOT DOING
- CONNECT, SYNCHRONIZE, TALK…
- CREATE A SETTING
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Originally Posted by
besafe
I thot I shook her off…. but… she is back to “haunt” me.
She is the married PRC that I wrote about many posts ago.
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As advised by some bros here, I tried but could not shake her off. Why ?
Oh… anyway, I will be leaving for GZ/CP end of this month to meet XY. We talk nearly everyday on QQ. I hope things will work out well for both of us !
Cheers.
Hi bro besafe,
Your married GF is in love w/ u!!
Be careful though. Get rid of her asap.
I only shun 2 types of females: Married women n close relatives.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
lol….obviously you have reach the self mastery of manly charm….while I am fervently learning from bro WB’s teaching….hahahaah
Hi bro ME,
Bro besafe must be a very charming MAN.
No no, NOT my teachings. I hv merely posted all the sayings n doctrine of other RS gurus.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
besafe
She is not in love with me.
She just want companionship.
I suspect she is also seeing aother person too.
Actually many women/gals want n need sex more than most men. She may be one of them.
Just tell her to fxk off.
Be good,
Bro WB
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Good morning!
In the past yr, I hv upped a fair no of fujian gals. I’m most attracted to their sweet Fujian accent. Some of them r also very pretty. They r industrious n street-smart. Their service is below average w/ only a few noteworthy exceptions. GG remains the best Fujian gal I ever had.
They hv many negatives: Generally unrefined n poorly educated. Many r vulgar n crude. Some r very mercenary n cunning. Some r quite dumb bcos they keep telling egregious lies. Additionally, they usually hv darker complexion n smaller boobs (A/B).
Talking abt skin color n boob size. Many Hubei gals r much fairer n hv big natural boobs, at least the ones I hv met. I like their peculiar accent too. In the last 6 wks, I had the good fortune of meeting 2 of them, both were tall, very fair, pretty w/ natural C boobs n big, shapely butts. They were here on social pass n r trying to return to SIN. One of them has failed to get a WP n is now applying for singer permit.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
Bro Besafe / ME / Warbird,
You all are the charmers and masters lah…
Cheesebun all suddenly so humble! Hahaha.
When will be our next drinking session? Dun forget hor, me retired liaoz so anything goes. Kekeke.
Best
LDH
Hi bro LDH,
Long time no see.
Any outings? Some bros r going to LV hh tmr n a Hong Kong bro wants to go LV sh probably Thurs. Other frens want to go DC complex. Would u like to join us?
How is Chairman Austin? And bro marc5?
Regards,
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
Hi bro Warbird,
Long time no see… Mr Austin is now busy travelling. Not sure if he is back yet. I have also met bro Marc5 recently at LV for a drink with a cupled of esteemed bros.
Let me know lah… the venue.
Hi bro LDH,
Four bros are confirmed for tonite. Bro Ragging Bull will be there to sing for us, hehehe. Last lite, he n his sidekick asked me to join them for a SH session somewhere, but I just couldn’t make it.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Yeah my frens and I had many bad experiences with FJ girls….such that the moment we find out they are from FJ we would reject straight away….your descriptions are right….generally bad service and money minded…. although recently I had one who is not that bad and we wanted to try out a part time BY relationship….but in the end the tail will always wag out of the backside and you will get to see their true colours….so I will likely drop her as I feel her service to me has dropped….not point paying to be unhappy right?
The northern gals generally have better attitude and better complexion and nicer boobs….while ChongQing girls are the easiest to ST! hahahah
Unfortunately, I’m still attracted to their Fujian-accented Mandarin. Although this attraction has been much weakened over the past yr, I need to remove it completely n permanently by doing Psycanics exercises.
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Originally Posted by
besafe
Sigh… it is going to be difficult…. I enjoy sex with her.
She is quite beautiful… a 8/10 in my books…..
Sigh… maybe one last meeting this week….
There r many, many pretty pussies out there…
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Originally Posted by
bloody_vlahov
i agree with moral epitome in that we can see a girl’s true colours when we do part-time BY. i tried that for a couple of times. eventually, they will start asking for more money……………. full time BYing is not an option cos i’m often not in singapore …
or maybe i’m simply not savvy enough … contrary to what warbird claims, HE is the REAL alpha male … haha
Hi bro BV,
I hv the same problem as I’m often not in SIN.
You’re the MAN, bro. I’m still learning n improving…
Hv a great trip!
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
errr…..if there are multiples ST…can it be considered as almost part time BY leow?….last thursday I was feeling quite down and decided to RTF this WL which I had to tried very hard to convince her to do ST with me previously….knn….first thing she said when she saw me is….can I ask you a favour…I am having trouble paying the rent….can you give me $xxx…………………but no way will I be KCed into paying her rent! she’s quite skillful, I don’t believe I am the only guy she ever STed with…hehehee
No, multiple n sequential STs r not part-time BY-ing. There is no exclusivity of her pussy.
Cheers!
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Good morning to all samsters! What an auspicious day!
I like to discuss BY-ing or 包养 of PRC gals as I understand it.
In full-time BY-ing, the gal’s pussy is exclusively yours for a specified period in return for certain mutually agreed monetary compensation or damage n she doesn’t work, although she may attend school. In my personal experience, it’s quite easy to monitor her daily activities in this case.
In part-time BY-ing, which I do sometimes, the gal’s pussy is still exclusively yours, but she may continue to work. It’s much more difficult to ensure her compliance n faithfulness.
In BY-ing, it’s a good idea to put ur gal in a studio or master bedrm close to u. You can spend more time w/ her n enjoy her home cooking, etc. Better GFE, companionship n much better Fxk…
I’m aware of the fact that in China, damage for full-time BY-ing of pretty/classy current uni student (aged 18-22) from a major university ranges from 20k to 50K RMB a month. I’m paying the higher range here, but BY-ing mostly poorly educated gals who r only so-so.
After carefully calculating the risk: reward ratio, it’s obvious that I must move to PRC soon. But I’m here now n hv to do the best I can.
Your feedback is always welcome!
Be good,
Bro WB
Good day to all samsters!
Woke up early this morning, thankful to be alive! Feel really well, fully rested n energized n no pain anywhere. What more can a lao ah pek wish for?
There has been much discussions as to what is a real MAN.
IMHO, Shakespeare’s protagonist in fictional Julius Caesar fits the bill. We could witness his dominance, leadership, courage n self mastery/self control, and above all, his fearlessness n acceptance of death as NECESSARY for himself n for all humans. Death to him is Not inevitable, but NECESSARY, indeed a blessing, hehehe. Now, that is the mindset of a real MAN.
Julius Caesar | Act II, Scene II
CAESAR:
What can be avoided
Whose end is purposed by the mighty gods?
Yet Caesar shall go forth, for these predictions
Are to the world in general as to Caesar.(30)
CALPURNIA:
When beggars die, there are no comets seen;
The heavens themselves blaze forth the death of princes.
CAESAR:
Cowards die many times before their deaths;
The valiant never taste of death but once.
Of all the wonders that I yet have heard,(35)
It seems to me most strange that men should fear
Seeing that death, a necessary end,
Will come when it will come.
Modern translation:
(Cowards die many times before their deaths;
The valiant only taste of death once.
Of all the wonders that I yet have heard,
It seems most strange to me that men should fear death,
Seeing that death, a necessary end,
Will come when it will come.—)
[Re-]enter Servant.]
What say the augurers?
SERVANT:
They would not have you to stir forth today.(40)
Plucking the entrails of an offering forth,
They could not find a heart within the beast.
CAESAR:
The gods do this in shame of cowardice.
Caesar should be a beast without a heart
If he should stay at home today for fear.(45)
No, Caesar shall not. Danger knows full well
That Caesar is more dangerous than he.
We are two lions litter’d in one day,
And I the elder and more terrible.
And Caesar shall go forth.(50)
The question for me n for all bros is:
Am I a coward or a valiant? If I’m already a valiant, GREAT!
If I’m still a coward, what could I do to become a valiant?
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
I meant if she only do exclusive STs with you does it constitute as part time BYing? hehehe…
This is controversial, but let me give u my personal opinion.
If her pussy is exclusively yours, ur RS w/ her is sort of BF/GF type, but not BAO-er/BAO-ee. The crucial point is that she reserves the right to meet n hv sex w/ other men w/o ur consent.
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Many people go though life wondering what if….I am also guilty of that..I will learn the ways of the force so that I can reach the levels of some of the esteem bros here…haha…glad that you woke up feeling great!
Julius Caesar was the quintessential Alpha male.
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Originally Posted by
besafe
To the unknown brother out there.
I am sorry but I had great sex with your wife again this afternoon.
Your neglect and lack of sex with her had resulted in her straying.
So ..dun blame her !
Anyway…just to offer some consolation to you.
I promise not to see her again … if I can.
Bro, u must hv given her many sessions of COS n she is addicted to u, hehehe.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
besafe
I practically have to french her all the time, otherwise she will be screaming her head off ! We spent 3 hours (shot 3 times) in the hotel room.
The bed was damn wet after that.
Well.. I will dump her soon.
Yes, u must hv given her repeated COS n she is now addicted to u!!
Dump her soon? Be prepared, bro, as she will not let go of u so easily. You may hv to go into hiding, hehehe.
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Good morning!
Let’s talk abt my favourite topic: Giving women COS. It has not been impossible to give all my BAO-ees COS. The reason is very complex. A safe n secure home environment could hv been helpful. I dun want to blame the gal n will admit that the fault is mine n mine alone.
I met up w/ a new bro from HK at TAM complex last nite. Bro Ragging Bull n his sidekick were there too.
The Hongkie bro is a big shot working for a MNC n a veteran BAO-er who keeps mistresses in SZ n elsewhere in PRC. He is in town for a few days n is looking for ST.
Bro Ragging Bull brought his stunningly beautiful “wife,” certainly one of the prettiest PRC gals I hv seen in SIN. He sang so well that, I jokingly told him I might fall in love w/ him if I continued to see him, hahaha…in front of all the gals.
I also brought one of my 2 current mistresses there, the older one who is going to be 24. I saw her in makeup n party dress only once before. Subsequently, she always meet me w/o makeup n always wear very plain clothing n flat shoes. Still quite pretty but not exciting. BTW, I hv failed to give her COS n was thinking of dumping her very soon despite her good sexual services.
But when I picked her up last nite, I almost couldn’t believe my eyes! She looked stunningly attractive n classy to me. Wow!! What a looker!! She had high heels on which accentuated her statuesque physique (she is 171 w/o shoes n weighs 53 kg) n wore hot pants revealing her shapely ass n fair long, straight legs. A leather jacket w/ blouse inside merely hinted at her cleavage. She did put on a light makeup…I hv decided to keep her for the time being.
Strangely, most of my BAO-ees hv been kinesthetic n my two current ones r no exceptions. Feelings n touching r very important to them…some of them hv criticized me for being too logical/boring/unemotional n not sensual n romantic enuff. But who cares? They r just bot meat to be fxked hard.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good afternoon!
I’m still a newbie in the art n science of giving COS to women. I’m willing to do whatever it takes to improve…
Got another interesting email from a sex guru a wk ago:
Scream-Inducing Female “Hot Button”
Of all the spots on a woman’s body that
you can stimulate to drive her crazy… which
one is the MOST powerful?
Care to guess?
As you probably know, I have an interview
series for men called “Interviews With
Sex Gurus” that I do every month.
So over the past years I’ve had the fun
and, frankly, the learning opportunity of
interviewing all sorts of TOP experts in the area
of sexuality… from tantra masters to clinical
sexologists.
It’s been great, and I wanted to share with
you something very fascinating that I’ve learned
from doing all of these interviews.
After doing many, many of these interviews I
noticed that every single one of these top experts
that I interrogated for their very best information
and their top secret sex tips…
Every one of them, at some point, thought it
was important to bring up this one particular
fact…
A fact that MOST men obviously don’t know…
and if they DO know, they simply don’t DO anything
about that knowledge or there would a LOT more
happy women out there–
Every one of these experts said that the MOST
SENSITIVE and IMPORTANT erotic organ on a woman’s
body… the one that, if properly stimulated,
would give her the most POWERFUL ORGASMS, is one
that most men completely ignore.
And, more surprisingly, they ALL agreed on
what that secret spot was.
Have you figured it out yet?
If you’ve been reading these newsletters for a
while I’m sure you got this one right…
If you haven’t been reading these newsletters
and you STILL get it right, then you probably
have a very happy woman in your life…
Did you guess “her brain”?
Because expert after expert that I interviewed
said that the most important and powerful sex
organ in a woman’s body was her “mind,” her
“imagination”, her “thoughts”, the “organ between
her ears”, and in all other ways of saying it:
Her Brain.
And if you have been reading my newsletters
for a while, then you know I’m not going to just
leave you hanging here… you know that I’m now
going to give you some straight up tips and
techniques on how to USE this information to
drive your woman wild.
In other words, I’m going to answer the
question: “How do I sexually stimulate her B-Spot?”
One of the reasons that couples begin to feel
like they are getting into a rut or that their
sex life is quickly getting less interesting over
time, is that they are so focused on what they
are DOING, rather than on what they are FEELING.
If you look at one of those books like 1001
sex positions, and you remove the ones that are
impossible, uncomfortable, generally silly, or
require 10 years of yoga or gymnastics to get in
to… what you are left with is just a bunch of
minor variations on about 4 basic positions.
Well obviously that’s not a ton of variety…
If you are focused on what you are DOING, of
course things can get dull.
And it’s so easy, especially after you’ve had
sex with a partner a dozen times, to just start
taking it for granted…
Clothing off, a little kissing, a little
breast stroking, a little oral, a little
intercourse.
But that is not going to be enough for a
woman to really get what she needs. Building
intimacy and connection is, on the other hand,
an endless source of sexual pleasure and interest.
Love making should never get boring.
And when you ARE in love– it has the potential
to ALWAYS be exciting.
Not every couple who are in love, though,
manage to translate that love to their sex life.
It takes confidence, courage, and intention to
bring those intimate emotions into your sexual
relationship.
Making the effort to CONNECT with each other,
and bring her emotional world into the erotic world
is hard. And it is not something that you see in
most media directed at men.
In other words, when men want to get turned on
and they look at pornography, or hot girls in
calendars or swimsuit magazines– the emphasis
is not exactly too focused on emotions.
But women work differently.
Just respecting that fact and making an effort
to connect with her in a loving way will do
ridiculously powerful things to your sex life.
But, like I said, it takes some courage.
You’ve got to have balls to play that emotional
card because it makes YOU vulnerable in a really
painful way if she rejects it.
The choice is yours– I think the risk is well
worth the rewards.
…or in some other way, make an effort to
communicate.
Women will tell you that most men are
completely silent in the bedroom. Some will make
an effort at “dirty talk”, but few really try to
make an effort at connecting in some real way.
“Dirty talk” is way better than nothing…
Many women LOVE dirty talk and say it’s a real
turn on… some don’t care for it… but IF you are
with a woman that likes it, then it’s a great way
to SYNCHRONIZE your feelings together…
First because you are directly stimulating her
brain and you will get powerful results in her pleasure.
More importantly, you are creating the
communication that LINKS YOU UP, so you are on the
same page during love-making… and not just both
locked in your own heads, DOING something together,
but not necessarily THINKING or FEELING it
together.
Speaking of your feelings or emotions, asking
about hers, telling her how she is making you
feel, describing what her skin feels like or
what she smells like, telling her what you want
her to do for you - these are all ways of
linking up your experiences.
All of these things are great ways to use your
words to really connect in with her brain and
make the sexual experience MUCH more intense for
both of you.
But if you don’t feel comfortable “chatting”
during sex– that’s fine– find other ways to
communicate without words… using touch, sighs,
sounds, and eye contact, aggressiveness, tenderness,
or anything else that connects you with each
other’s emotional state.
A romantic environment definitely stimulates
the “B-spot.”
The obvious way to go here is to light candles,
spread rose petals on the bed…
But the setting does not have to be romantic.
Not all men like that mushy sort of thing, and
BIG TIP here my friend: Not all women like it either.
Doing it someplace exciting is different things
to different people.
The danger of potentially getting caught can
make a parking garage better than rose petals for
more women than you might suspect…
And if you like sharing fantasy, you don’t
ever have to leave your bedroom…
If she is an exhibitionist, all you need to do
is TELL her to IMAGINE the place you’d like to
make love to her… Yes, that’s right, using your
words again… not necessarily during sex, but
before it… to set the scene.
Remember that creating the setting is even
more powerful when it does not involve a physical
setting– but rather an emotional one.
If you think about the sorts of things that
turn women on in the movies– forbidden love,
romantic destiny, wild passion… these are the
things that you can create in her brain before
you ever get to the bedroom.
It takes a bit of imagination, and a bit of
effort, but according to EVERY expert that I’ve
spoken with, it’s WORTH the effort… because the
“B-Spot” is far more powerful than the clitoris,
the g-spot, or any other sexual part on her body.
Try these 3 techniques out TONIGHT. You won’t
believe the results. If you’ve been together for
a while and you’re in a rut, just the fact that
you are making this effort my bring her to tears
of gratitude… and screams of passion.
Wishing you the best in love and life,
For Passion,
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Let the young panda-wan answer for the COS knight Bro WB….COS stands for Continuously Orgasmic State….hahahaah
COS, in contrast to garden variety multiple orgasms, is much more intense n prolonged…and may be accompanied by squirting, hehehe.
Here is a fairly good description:
“A woman’s orgasms are not always like ours. A man’s orgasms are individual and distinct — it is clear when they happen and they are easy to count. It is a buildup to a peak of pleasure, and then a quick slide down to a non-sexual state.
A woman’s orgasms, on the other hand, are different. Sometimes she may have individual, distinct orgasms…but especially if she’s already had a few orgasms, her orgasms tend to be much more indistinct and blended together.
This was something that amazed me when I first learned it. I thought that women could only cum like us, and then I would have to build them all the way back up to orgasmic levels of pleasure again before she could have another orgasm. But then, I learned that after cumming a few times, women don’t “come down” from their orgasms. Eventually, if you make them cum enough, women will reach a state where they continuously alternate between orgasmic levels of pleasure, and pleasure just below orgasm. I call it The Continuously Orgasmic State or COS.
The mind-blowing levels of pleasure you can achieve when your woman is in The Continuously Orgasmic State are amazing. You can keep her in this state for up to half an hour, where she is continuously cumming or on the verge of cumming. There is no interruption to the pleasure, and you lose yourself completely to each other. It is physically exhausting and as intense as getting hit by a truck, except it feels amazing and utterly fulfilling.”
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Originally Posted by
besafe
Hi Bro WB..
You are right !
Shit ! How to hide in Singapore?
She even knows where I live !
Shit ! I may need to go and see a plastic surgeon
Hi bro besafe,
Be very weary bcos if u deprive a woman of her regular COS, she might become very desperate n vindictive…
I hv an advantage here. I just tell the gal I hv to take care of a most urgent affair in Gotham city n hv to leave tmr morning, hehehe.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
besafe
Eh… Like Fatal Attraction ???
She will turn into a stalker! You may hv to get a restraining order from the police.
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Good morning!
Attraction, KC n faling in love r irrational n inexplicable. I’ll present a case study. The story is ongoing.
I hv a good fren who has fallen for a PRC WL/KTV gal! He is a tall, handsome businessman in his 40s. He has been a player all his life…
He used to advise me against BY-ing PRC gals. They r all whores n pathological liars, fxk n forget, my fren; dun waste money BY-ing them, they all cheat, he would often admonish me. Feelings for PRC whores, never. I just fxk them hard, hehehe, he would say.
He had fallen in love a couple times in his early 20s, followed by a long hiatus until a few wks ago.
The object of his fervent love n passion is a KTV WL, in her late 20s, who was not attractive to him, at least initially. She does ST. After meeting her a couple of times, he fell hard n fast for her! He confided that he has never fallen for a gal so fast n so deeply. He is obsessed w/ her. She is playing hot n cold w/ him n has all the power. He can’t help it n he doesn’t understand why!! He is in very big trouble!
His gal is unattractive to me, certainly not my type. One of my BAO-ees thinks he must be crazy in falling for such a gal. After witnessing what has happened to him, I guess no one is immune to KC n falling in love w/ the wrong person.
Fact is stranger than fiction!
Cheers!
Bro WB