Good morning!
I like to express my gratitude to every bro who has posted in this thread over the last 1 yr. You hv made my day! I hv learned a lot from ur posts. It has been fun…pls keep them coming (no pun intended).
Actually, I hv only picked up a handful of gals outside KTV, whereas I hv picked up many gals, outside the rooms but INSIDE the joints, sometimes as they were exiting the lift, hehehe.
Ths again!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
No2 will be back early Sep10 or late Aug10.
She has went thru’ a lot to gain this status… i really meant the going over the last 8 months were really tough for her. She passed and passed it very well.
I have no strategies just very basic instincts of the primal past… women must always be submissive to their men. When my woman tries to lord over me, I dump her! ……….
Moden days women have too many an enpowerment; status, equality, job security (laws protection) etc etc but as each generation progresses, these women wanted more and more. Why are we men be allowed to be pushed to the corner when these women should be sucking our cocks and pleasing us? Bro WB, I do not want to trumpet anything or take away anything from the women of this pathetic generation, but you and many other bros have cheong with me - you have seen my treatment of my women around me. You have also seen bros Justime & DYBJ in action…………………….
Hi bro LDH,
Your women r submissive n docile in ur presence….just like women had been for >10,000 yrs, until recently…
We men must be dominant n our women submissive. It’s counter-intuitive but they r attracted to dominant men w/ formidable self mastery/self control.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
chenzong
Indeed it is, but the gap is closing. And I do agree - the women here are really prettier, even compared to the Chinese ones that 猛龙过江 over to Singapore.
Should be 天上人间, the club that was recently raided. Very expensive place, only for the really upper class, with girls to match.
Hahaha, you never give up on the primary school teachers, don’t you? How about pre-school teachers? I have a contact, ex-kindergarten teacher turned KTV girl (she earns in one night’s tips what she earned in a month as a teacher, poor thing), if you are interested. I have not kept in touch with her though and she is not your “body-type” too (she’s fleshy and not tall).
Hi bro chenzong,
Ths for the info…
It’s worth taking a look. I hv been attracted to gals who r not my usual body type if she has other good qualities…short n slightly fleshy ok if it’s proportionate.
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Originally Posted by
chenzong
Unlike you, I do not believe in hitting women. Maybe it is just me. But like you, I do not want to do a double-life thing with the women around me.
My wife knows me very well………………….
Ultimately, it is like what Bro LDH said, women has to be submissive to their men. I would rather let go of the relationship if my woman cannot take it.
You hv a very trusting RS w/ ur OC…
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Originally Posted by
yangguo
I strongly disagree with you.
No matter how unreasonable the women are, we should refrain from using violence on them.
If you are not unhappy with her, sort it out verbally. If she is still not willing to listen to you, just dump her.
I hv never hit anyone in my entire life. I prefer to use other measures to right a wrong, hehehe.
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Bro Yangguo, what you say is absolutely not right nor wrong.
Remember this, we r toking about WLs here.
1stly, it’s norm in PRC for men to hit women. It’s as good as culture from the cities to the rural dwellers.
Now, we in sillypore, have been termed as “NICE MEN” by many of there WLs, thus, how many have been lied outright to, duped and list goes on & on and they know, they’ll get away scott free!!!!!!!!!
I agree wif bro LDH’s approach but not as a free flowing wacker, only if the other party has crossed the line.
I do not advocate violence, but like i’ve posted in another thread before, some bitches do deserve a good whacking!
Hi Mr. Austin,
You’re spot on!
Sillypore has become westernized w/ “western values” n many men suffer from “Nice Guy Syndrome.” Many of us r “nice” even to WLs! That has been my no1 problem in the past.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
情感王子
We are nice to WL becoz we want to get free/budget farking session in return
There is no free lunch…
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Everyone have their point of view and approach….just respect each other….what works for a man may not work for another….for example bro bybj and ldh are more clinical in the way they approach women….and maybe myself and bro wb more softhearted…hahahaha
Hi Bro ME,
In dealing w/ WLs or any woman, being too softhearted is a fatal flaw.
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
Dear bro WB,
You are also a master BY king yourself. I have seen you in actions with your ladies and you are always so kind and gentlemanly. :P Wish I can be this nice … kekeke.
Well, lets meet this Friday at LV for SH. You know who will be there, LOLz. I am going to introduce to you my new singer GF, height 1.71m, natural c-cupper with flawless skin and a body to go with. Of course, not forgetting to get one of the singers in LV who was my ex-GF to join us in the room for some drinks.
Hi Bro LDH,
Ths for ur encouragement.
Congrats to ur new conquest!
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Latest update…just finished the deed with my latest target…no mention about money…in fact…i sent her home to change and waited for her in the car so had many chances to run if I wanted to… she was also not in a rush to get it over it which meant chit chating for quite a while to get into the mood…and initially she was also a bit reluctant to do it which means she’s not the loose type… all in all…a good conquest…of cos in the end i definitely took good care of her but maybe will move on to the next challenging target…this bhj girl whom I know for the past 5 mths and apparently not been F or BY by any brudder in the past 5 mths….interesting target? how to get into her pants? hehe
Hi Bro EM,
How can u be sure that ur new target has not been BY-ed or fxked by any man in the past 5 months?
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Can’t be 100% sure….but a mixture of observation, tracking and gut feel….and though my brotherly contacts sometimes… I do know quite alot of girls at the DC/CJ/MC complex who have gone out before and is usually not interested by these easy fucks…I suppose it’s though my judgement of persons though years of experience in cheonging…but then again like you I had only about 3-4 years of experience so still lots to learn! But that’s the fun…life is a learning process!
You’re more experienced as I hv BY-ed gals for only one yr.
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Originally Posted by
chenzong
Just a thought I have - is it that important whether she has? Or does that change the value proposition?
Not tat important but I may be willing to pay a bit more if I know for sure. We men want gals who r hard to get. What is much more important is tat her pussy is exclusively mine during the BY-ing period.
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Originally Posted by
chenzong
Well, if she is still in the business when you are here, I’d introduce her to you. I have not kept in contact with her ever since that last KTV visit.
My relationship with my OC has gone through 15 years of ups and downs. It is grounded on the fact that I treat her well and pamper her, but at the same time made it clear that she cannot control me at all, due to my character and personality. I’m the type who’s 吃软不吃硬。
Ok, ths.
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Actually I don’t cheong with a huge budget….and just go for normal HH deals but even then I think over the past few years it does add up to a big sum…I often read of how many save up to have a million dollars….by not driving car…not wasting money on this and that… to me that’s not life… what’s the point of earning money if you do not live to enjoy it…but I make it a point to invest and set aside a few k a month…so that I can hopefully be as rich as bro WB at his age and just live off his divendends….Bro WB if you can share with me how’s your passive income and how you derive them it would be much appreciated.
You’re too modest, bro. From wat I hv read in ur posts, you’re getting all the pussies u need…wat more could a man want?
I only hv a little money, just enuff to BY some PRC gals. I hv had some winning streaks…for now they r generating enuff passive income for my very modest lifestyle.
“Some examples of passive income are:
* Earnings from a business that does not require direct involvement from the owner or merchant;
* Rent from property;
* Royalties from publishing a book or from licensing a patent or other form of intellectual property;
* Earnings from internet advertisements on websites;
* Residual income, repeated regular income earned by a sales person, generated from the payment of a product or service, that must be renewed on a regular basis in order to continue receiving its benefits;
* Dividend and interest income from owning securities, such as stocks and bonds, is usually referred to as portfolio income, which may or may not be considered a form of passive income.
* Pensions.”
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Always a delight to hear your points of view……….
Next…do you find that you get sick of the pussies rather fast? at most last 1 month?…is it only natural to change once you get sick of her… or do you dump her once you fucked her?…hahaha…. I find that once I fucked already… usually will get bored and find another one…
Thank u for bringing up the question of passive income. Actually there r many subjects more interesting than pussies, hehehe.
Yes, like many men, I get bored w/ most pussies rather quickly, after only a few sessions or 1 wk.
According to Mr. Austin the Great, the cardinal rule is to pay ur mistress weekly. This rule has saved me some money, although I might hv missed 3 pussies who hv refused to budge. I now tell them, weekly payment or no deal. I explain that I can’t move too much cash around w/o detection, not becos I dun trust them, hehehe.
Of the many BAO-ees I hv had, only 2 hv lasted more than 1 month. One for 2 1/2 months (she fell in love w/ a 20 yo fellow student from her hometown) n another for just over 1 month (she returned to PRC).
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Originally Posted by
roamersg
Ha ha, many bros are like that, fits very well with I think the dominant strategy of SBF bros: “fk and forget.” It doesn’t work well for me because I prefer a stronger GFE, so I tend to keep a mix of ONS and FB or BY. That said, after X months of a BY I do find the sex getting too familar so that’s the time to end it, also why I prefer FB relationships, but most of the more desirable TAM girls won’t accept that.
If you get bored easily, then I would skip the hassle and expense of BY and just seek those who are transactional. And I would defintely pass on singers!
I must be a very complex person. I like a variety of pussies n I get bored quickly w/ the same ones, but on the other hand, I enjoy the strong GFE, companionship n KC that r present in a longer term BYs. Of course KC is risky n must be controlled. I also want to improve my skills of giving some of them COS which may be meaningless if it’s ST.
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Yeah…feel abit tired of all these….time to retire….just go for transactional when i feel like it…focus on more impt things in life…or is this the most impt?
I often feel the same way. I want to hv a steady longer term mistress n eat outside occasionally.
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
do not persue on this target.
By ur comments, its exactly wat they use primarily to earn money.
That is 希望计 N by ur comments above, you already 拥抱希望 Already!
Big no no bro
move on to the next
Excellent advice from Mr. Austin the Great.
This gal is manipulative n playing hard to get. She may want to be BAO-ed at above market rate. Need to move on to the next target…sometimes it can be difficult if u are enamored w/ her.
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Good morning! What a wonderful day!!
A few days ago I saw a gal which reminded me of the following words from esteemed bro Marc5:
“Inside me I constantly feel that there are better ones available, somewhere, somehow. It is a strange response, I know. In many instances, my buddies were astonished by my rejection on the gal because they felt she was just perfect. The feeling of someone else is better is always present. “别人比较好” – sounds familiar?”
In addition to the above sentiment, I like to add that a gal who is very hard to get or who is beyond my reach is most desirable n attractive.
Back to the gal I saw. I first sighted her a couple of wks ago while she was walking w/ her female fren outside the DC complex. She disappeared quickly in the crowd…I had been to KTVs at DC complex a few times but never saw her inside. Nor outside again.
Then I saw her a few days ago. She was w/o make up, wearing a white blouse, jeans n flat shoes, abt 21-22, 170-171 n 53-54 kg, very chio n cute to me, w/ fair skin, proportionate body, beautiful shapely butt. And quite long n slender arms, OMG! She was carrying several plastic bags full of clothings n walking towards a car. She smiled at a middle-aged n very short man waiting beside a small nondescript car. She got inside the car…
I guess she was moving to a new place closer to the man who was obviously her BAO-er.
My frustration is that I never had a chance to meet her n make my offer. It’s OK if I pursued her n lost to a better man.
How attractive is she to ME, based solely on her looks n figure? I would gladly forget n give up ALL my former n current BAO-ees if I could keep her as my mistress. And I would keep her for as long as she wants…IMHO, she is worth 30K a month.
Of course, it’s entirely possible that she could turn out to be a disappointment if I really got to taste her pussy, for a no. of reasons. It has happened to me before.
It would make me feel much better if the man who picked her up was only a coolie who was taking her to a big towkay, hehehe.
Ths for reading n hv a great day!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
roamersg
have you run into the issue of say LV girls knowing of your ‘reputation’ of BY’ing a relatively short time, in a way that impedes your pursuit of targets?………… I have had some MMs describe other customers and say “oh he wants to be my bf but other girls tell me he’ll just say that and dump you after one night”, so I presume there is some amount of discussion going on amongst them.
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One advantage of a singer gf is that you can hunt at KTVs without her knowing. As I prefer TAM building when she’s from there, she basically knows and then one has to set the stage or just deal with the arguing. I know, I know, I need to be more cold-hearted!
Yes, I hv encountered such a problem. There is a certain mummy who has this erroneous impression that I change BAO-ees every 2 wks n that I like to BY 2-3 gals at the same time. Absolutely not true. I like to set the record straight.
Actually, I hv kept a 3rd gal for 1 full month. She wants to return on student visa n has posted her latest pics on qq to tempt me, hehehe. She is a 20 yo tall SYT w/ long n slender arms,
but I’m not sure I want her this visit bcos visa may take 1 month n I’m leaving…besides w/ student visa she can’t go back n forth so easily. Maybe get her on my next visit?
BTW, there is a gal finally coming next wk, after much delay, n I hv promised to keep her for 1 yr!! She will be in SIN only when I’m here. She is not young at 23 going on 24, but is 170-171 n 53 kg n yes, very long n slender arms. She has exquisite pussy which can rival my avatar’s.
I need to hv more dominant self mastery n learn from Mr. Austin the Great n the young bro LDH n be able to bring my 2 BAO-ees under one roof. It saves lots of time n money…maybe I can even give both of them COS simultaneously w/ one precious ejaculation!
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Good advice from Mr Austins and WB Bro…I must be more ruthless and clinical…afterall…i think end of the day…these girls are out to earn money…I have no met any who would be with you unconditionally….anyone had the experience? would be out of this world I think…
And yes…sometimes I would reject a girl but when I saw her sitting with my frens…suddenly I would wonder how come I rejected her…wasted chance…but sometimes my fren end up don’t like so i would fast hand fast leg cobroke over…hahahaha…the pussy is always tighter on the other side!
I’m greatly flattered by ur mentioning of Mr Austin n me in the same sentence. But I’m merely an apprentice doing my best to improve my game of BY, whereas Mr. Austin is an accomplished master w/o peers. He is Cao Cao of BY-ing singers, hehehe.
Yeah, the pasture always seems greener on the other side. It has happened to me…
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
wow….this 20 year old student looks nice…my type…hahaha
She is a Fujian gal, returning next month on student visa. She is 168 w/o shoes, weigh abt 48-49kg, cute n pretty. Natural B n nice butt. She is a light smoker though. A close fren thought she was the prettiest gal who ever sat w/ me in a KTV.
Want me to intro to u?
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
SH gals r reputed to be the most practical n calculating among all the PRCs. They ARE!
A little while ago I saw a gal in the hallway of a KTV n only had time to get her no. She was my type n in the subsequent 2 wks I had called several times to book her n she was either busy or didn’t want to work that day.
The other day I exchanged text msg w/ her. She thought I only wanted her pussy for ST n was blunt n stated that: 我不出街的，你不必在我身上浪费时间。。I replied that I was encouraged n pleased that she didn’t do ST, hinting that I wanted to BY her.
I called her yesterday n she was friendly.
Me: Are u XX?
She: Yes!
Me: Where r u from?
She: SH, China.
Me: You hv a BF taking care of u?
She: No, I dun hv a BF.
Me: I like to take care of u (even though we had not seen each other more than 30 secs). When I take care of a gal, she doesn’t work at all…
She: OK, how will u take care of me? How much will u give me?
Me: I like to know u first n then we can talk.
She: Good! Today I’m looking at several places to move to. Call me………………………………………… ………………………………………….
Will I BY her? Yes, if her terms r reasonable n if I can confirm that she is indeed my type after seeing her again, otherwise I’ll walk away.
Whatever the outcome in this case study, I enjoy negotiating w/ these PRC MMs as it’s a good learning experience n part of my training, hehehe.
BTW, this is a gal who rejected my booking her several times n told me not to waste time on her, n now she is willing to discuss being BY-ed!
Frankly, I only hv a vague idea how she looks like. She did appear to be a looker w/ good height, perhaps 168, fair w/ proportionate figure. Nice legs but can’t remember seeing her arms.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Sori, what does SH stands for? Pardon my ignorance.
To really know if a girl is worth it, have to meet in the afternoon where you can see clearly…i remembered long ago….I arranged to meet this girl for ST in the afternoon….when I saw her in the afternoon I was totally shocked as she did not look anything like what I saw the previous night…….not easy to find girls with good natural beauty nowadays…
There are many girls who do not want to reduce themselves to ST as they feel cheap about it….even if they are offered $500 they feel that they can earn it back in 1 or 2 days work…they prefer to be BY to feel better about themselves…but my advice to them is…man are fickle…BY often don’t last…but of course I don’t tell that to my targets….hahahaha
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Originally Posted by
AustinPowers
SH = Shanghai?
i dun think shanghai gals are very pretty.
most of the pretty gals in shanghai are not locals.
Hi Bros ME n AP,
Yes, SH = Shanghai
I always try to meet the gal in broad daylight before BY-ing her. But I still hv had my share of surprises as I dun hv X-ray vision, hehehe.
I suspect the prettier SH gals choose to work at other major cities. Your impression may be due to sampling bias.
Perhaps bro chenzong, an “old SH hand,” could tell us if SH gals r pretty or not.
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Originally Posted by
virtualman
bro MoralEpitome,
You are right. I used to have two SH girlfriends before, both are very practical type.
Always asked me to buy expensive gifts for them…
But, both are very pretty like supermodels and KC skills are super…
Yeah, SH gals r very practical. Very pretty like supermodels? Are they both local SH gals?
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Good evening!
I called the SH gal XX again yesterday PM. For the first time she called me X da ge right away. BTW, I hv not seen her again since I met her for perhaps less than 20 secs abt 2 wks ago.
We spoke for quite a while re how I could BY her.
Just like me, she is very practical n frank n calculating. I love negotiating BY w/ her!
She told me approx how much she is earning running KTVs. If she doesn’t work at all, she wants X $ a month to be BY-ed by me. She quickly added tat perhaps she should work occasionally n I could pay her less as it might be too much of a financial burden to me. The amt she is asking is the going rate…I actually thought tat she might request for 1.5X the amt, which I was mentally prepared to ante up. Currently her mom is in town. She would call me next wk to meet up to finalize the details.
BTW, she has been here for 2 months. She is trying to apply for a different visa as she intends to start a business in SIN. She wants to quit going to KTVs.
We hardly know each other. She remembers that I’m a white collar type, not a ruffian. All I know abt her is tat she is a looker w/ the type of body proportions that I like. I persisted bcos she is a challenge. She charges 50% higher fees for KTV sessions n I failed to book her several times. She politely asked me to get lost 1 wk ago, but I was undaunted n changed tactics…
Of course I need to do a final inspection of the meat before consummating the deal. Whatever the outcome, this is an interesting n useful learning experience for me.
The most crucial goal for me? Constantly improve my dominant self mastery/self control so that I become completely detached to life’s outcomes.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Your determination and perseverance is an inspiration to me bro WB…I have to say that you are one of the few persons in SBF that I look up to.
Hi Bro ME,
Wat to do? I’m a lao chi ko pek, who wont stand a chance w/o perseverance…n some money.
I’ll meet XX soon for a final inspection n to discuss details of BY-ing. Although to me she is one of the most attractive gals I hv seen inside KTVs n I hv every intention of keeping her LT, she could still turn out to be a big disappointment in broad daylight. The deal will also fall through if we can’t agree on a no of specific terms such as wkly payment, etc. But that is life…
Cheers!
Good morning!
I like to express my gratitude to so many esteemed bros who hv “weighed in” on cheonging n BY-ing here. Thank you all!!
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Originally Posted by
roamersg
Yes, it’s sampling bias. Don’t forget before the revolution the place famous for beauties in China was Suzhou, very close to Shanghai. There are alot of pretty Shanghainese women, known for their figures and skin, though more famous for their ‘practical’ personalities. While I tend to find many pretty northerners here, it’s partly because I prefer taller, leggy women, but also as much of Dongbei remains poor, they ship out alot more women to our island!
Many SH gals r tall n pretty. And smart n sophisticated.
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Originally Posted by
roamersg
Yup, was rejected recently by a LV girl who only wanted BY. We met many times and so feeling was there, but she stuck to her position all along–if I wanted the abalone, I had to buy the entire shell for a while!
She is a good candidate for BY-ing.
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Bro I think it’s because you are picky and only go for the best for you.. and these girls are unlikely to settle for less….but I conform with you…what’s the point of spending money even a small amount on girls you don’t fancy…so really cheers to your attitude!
My preference for gals is quirky n inexplicable to many of my frens/bros.
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
She just doesnt want to loose another source of income la……
Oldest trick in their book…..
Cos if you were her MAN, she wud have asked you 1st if you were coming then reject all bookings…….
Do you see the light already?????
Absolutely correct!
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Originally Posted by
chenzong
No wonder my spider senses are tingling. Someone has been calling for me.
Pretty Chinese girls can come from any province, but I find SH girls more sophisticated, more able to dress up, to look presentable and to look good. They can out-dress and “out-make-up” most Chinese girls, and any Singaporean any time of day.
Thank you!! SH gals r truly amazing.
Cheers!
Just a quick update on the SH gal XX whom I hv been “chasing” for over 2 wks.
Finally, she will meet me today at a KTV during HH. But I hv learned that she is recovering from a mild case of flu n she smokes (though trying to quit). I hardly remember her. My fervor for her has already cooled significantly!
Something strange is happening. This yr alone, several of my BAO-ees had flu just before or soon after BY-ing by me. I also became sick once.
Wat the fxk, I’m going to enjoy myself regardless…
Cheers!
Bro WB