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Originally Posted by
sing11235813
Dear Bro Warbird,
…………………….I hope to elicit some response from yourself, and bro DYBJ …..But of course, all other bros are most welcomed to pen their thoughts.
Quick background: I’m in my early 50’s, with the usual trappings of OC, post-adolescent kids, etc. Started to eat out only recently (escort, some higher-end fl) but find it quite unsatisfying and unenjoyable…….So, am on the lookout for something more….
Constraint: Time. On most days, I need to be home after office hours……..
Budget: Am willing to go up to 50K per month. More if it is really necessary and worth it.
Appeal: Need some ideas to get some really feel-good moments. I’m talking GFE, looks, body, yet with class and must be non-wl/fl/ktv…………
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Originally Posted by
sing11235813
Dear Bro DYBJ,
Many thanks for your suggestion……………………………….
I’m thinking of regular (student/OL) gal, ie. non-WL/FL/KTV, but of course with the usual paying-customer characteristics: no-strings, no-false promises, limited-duration. Sort of like indecent proposal BUT younger, hotter, wilder, cheaper (can’t pay $1m per bonk!), and longer (perhaps 1 month).
Bro Warbird: looking forward to your response!
Hi bro sing11235813,
I sense that you’re dissatisfied doing ST w/ FLs/escorts/models n want to experience more GFE n companionship…I suggest u BY a gal on a longer term basis, say from 1 to several months. With ur generous budget, u will be spoilt for choice. The difficulty is finding the right gal n the danger is KC trap. You hv to KC her w/o getting KC-ed!
To be honest, I hv had very limited experience in “eating out” as I BAO-ed my 1st gal just over a yr ago. Hv encountered many problems n failures, as detailed in this thread.
Time constraint is a severe handicap in BY-ing. I hv faced the same problem.
It’s difficult to KC a gal if ur time is limited. If I dun spend enough time w/ a BAO-ee, such as eating meals together several times a wk, taking her to outings n staying at her place n eating her home cook dinner at least occasionally, etc., n only meeting her n fxking her in a hotel rm, she will complain that it’s an outright transaction.
BTW, u must convince ur OC why u hv to go out at nite. Take up nighttime hobbies or join clubs such as Toastmasters…
My previous BYs hv lasted from 1 wk to 2 months, due partly to time constraint n partly to various unforeseen circumstances. Nowadays if I like a gal after 1 wk, I’ll definitely move her to a flat close to my residence so that I can stay w/ her n get her to cook, etc. It’s like a 2nd home, ya?
I suggest that u PM bro DUBJ n seek his advice. You will benefit greatly from his wisdom n vast experience in BY-ing. BTW, he is successful in many areas of life n nurturing multiple RS w/ high quality women is only his minor interest…
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Bro sing11235813, i think bro warbird would be a better person to advise you.
I am more of flexi time program whereas bro warbird is also limited wif time constraint.
But have you not heard of happy hour?
KTVs open at 3pm!!!!!!
Hi my esteemed Mr. Austin,
Bro sing11235813 certainly needs ur help, hehehe.
It was my honor to hv met u again recently. I’m most impressed w/ ur vision n ur zest for living…
Cheers!
Bro WB
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A few words abt multiple RS (w/ women).
BTW, bro DUBJ n his young associate hv successfully maintained multiple RS under one roof! They hv acheived wat most men only dream abt n hv left all those Ang Mo gurus in the dust.
Recently, I emailed a top Ang Mo guru:
Hi Mr. Guru,
I have learned a lot from you.
My mistress A will get jealous if I date other women. She doesn’t know about my other mistress B n if she knows she may leave me. Whereas B knows about A and really doesn’t mind. B actually wants to live w/ A to save money and to have threesome!
What should I do?
Thanks so much,
Bro WB
His reply:
Hey Bro WB,
Quality problem ;-)
From experience: Keep ’em seperate.
No other move here.
Mr. Guru
Ths for reading n hv a great day!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Yeah are you an angel investor in NY?….I just find that having a day job will not enable to reach my goal in time……that’s why I believing in investing…I have my long term long strategies in equities doing dollar cost averaging…generally this has done pretty all right……….however I am thinking of trading some instructions for short term gains and passive income….this I had not done well and lost some money as trading is very dynamic and markets can move very fast…but I feel that if I can master this well………do give some tips and advice on these too so us bros can have more money to enjoy life!
Hi bro EP,
I think you must be doing really well…
No, I’m no angel, just a lao chi ko pek, hehehe.
Joking aside, investing in start up co is very speculative…I’m basically a value investor who enjoys swing trading for fun. My MO is to estimate the intrinsic value of a listed company w/ good potential n then wait patiently to buy at half price.
As for trading n speculative investing, you need to do it on a full time basis, or else dun do it.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
sing11235813
Dear Bro Warbird:…………………………………… ……………………………….
I’ve distilled my problem to the following: I want to buy service, but only from those who don’t usually provide the service!
KC: I think, I hope, I wish that I won’t fall for it……………………. I don’t think I am looking to KC a girl. If she provides good service, and does what I tell her to do, that’s good enough for me. I have no big desire to hear sweet nothings from a SYT.
Going out at night: It’ll be really quite wierd for me to join toastmasters, at this age and this stage of my career……………………………………
Arranging housing for BY near my place, eating her cooking, etc… At this point, it seems like a little too much trouble for me……………….
Hi bro sing 11235813,
“I want to buy service, but only from those who don’t usually provide the service!”
“Usually” is not the same as “Never Before.”
Where to find a “Never Before” type of gal? Once u find her, by whatever means at ur disposal, it’s more cost effective n time-saving to pay generously to get her body. If she proves satisfactory (including but not limited to a very chio pussy), keep her on a longer term basis n then KC her at ur leisure. Your ability to give her regular COS w/ prolonged DIP will be decisive…
Your experience n sentiment struck a chord w/ me. Did ST w/ FLs, etc., but desired more GFE n companionship…started BY-ing…still not satisfied…now want to KC them. It’s fun as long as one doesn’t get KC-ed or become attached to the outcome.
C’mon, get her a studio apt close to u. You can afford it n it’s a lot of fun.
For over 2,000 yrs, the Chinese has a saying 金屋藏嬌. Believe me, u wont regret it.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
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Bro DYBJ is the guru in sizing up singers and holding them within their “human” traits… do wait for his reply - I have personally benefitted from his past experiences.
For me: Singers are easier to control because of their working hours………..
Even for fresh grads out to make some moolah and willing to be kept by you - its still transactional. Who knows when you are away, they may be spending the money you gave them on their “unknown” boyfriends……….No good women is willing to be BY and be a kept women for the purpose of the flesh. I’d still grade them as the softcore FL.
…………………………These are issues for you to ponder… get them right, and the gals will come flocking WITHOUT the need to invest too much.
H bro LDH,
Very wise words…
I really like the new term softcore FL, hahaha.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
marc5
Wise words, wise words. Now the new guru speaks. I can surely learn a thing or two from the gurus.
Hi bro marc5,
It was my pleasure to hv met u recently. You r a master in ur own right, very smooth n cool…
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning!
According to many gurus, ur success w/ women is a function of ur rapport w/ them. Approaching, meeting, dating n seducing them…depends largely on deepening ur rapport. The deeper the rapport, the better n stronger the RS. The final aim is to KC them n give them COS. Deepening rapport will greatly facilitate these goals.
A few days ago, I received an email from a guru on a quick tip to deepen rapport/attraction:
Bro WB,
I used to have a hard time finding women who wanted to be more
than friends with me. I had female “friends” coming out my ears -
and I was sick of it.
I HATED getting LJBF’d (Let’s Just Be Friends)…
It drove me CRAZY.
Having attraction with women is no longer a struggle for me, and
there’s one thing in particular I learned that made a real difference.
I’m gonna lay it on you now…
First of all, remember that women are like tuning forks and they
instantly pick up on what you are “resonating.” Therefore, one
of the most powerful ways to deepen your resonance (presence)
is to:
Retrain Your Breathing.
I used to be what I call a “chest-breather.” By that, I mean that
my inhalations went no lower than my chest - my ribcage.
A lot of guys who struggle with creating sexual attraction with
women are also “chest-breathers.”
How about you?
As you’re sitting here now, reading this, how deep is your breathing?
How far down into your body does your breath expand?
Try This Exercise:
RIGHT NOW, put a hand on your lower stomach, and draw air all the
way down past your ribs, and allow it to expand your diaphragm and
your belly. Your breath should literally PUSH THE HAND on your belly
UP with each inhale. Actually try this, and see what you notice.
Once you have that down (and for some guys, it takes a while to figure
out which muscles control this ability), practice breathing even lower,
into your genitals, as if you could breath right into your BALLS.
This may be a challenge for you, because you’re not accustomed to
that particular awareness.
You may even experience emotions, or sometimes feelings of shame,
as you start feeling into these areas of your body.
That’s a good thing-it means you’re going outside of comfort zone
and accessing stuck emotions.
Women Can Feel the Difference
In our XX Intensive weekend courses, we bring in super-aware,
brilliantly articulate women who offer moment-to-moment feedback
about what they’re feeling in their bodies as the men in the course
interact with them.
And when chest-breathers start belly-breathing, women who weren’t
attracted to them at all suddenly feel excited by the man’s new
sense of power.
And when guys breathe all the way into their balls, the women’s
responses are even more distinct - they often report getting turned
on, simply by being around guys as they breathe more deeply.
Practice It To Make It a Habit
I had to retrain myself from being a chest-breather to being a balls &
belly-breather… and it made a huge difference in feeling grounded,
centered and powerful with women (especially the ones that I’m
attracted to).
Practice this even when you’re NOT around women, until it becomes
second nature to you when you ARE with a woman - in the car,
walking down the street, while eating, in bed at night and in the
morning…
After a couple of weeks, you should find that you’re breathing into
your belly without thinking about it.
Now, you may find that when you’re with a woman you’re seriously
attracted to, your breathing reverts back to the old way.
Even though I typically breathe into my lower body, when I’m with
women I’m attracted to, I suddenly find that my breathing becomes
shallow. If this is the case for you as well, just notice this, and
practice breathing fully and deeply, into your belly and your balls.
We have all KINDS of practical, effective body exercises that will
make a REAL difference in your ability to create primal sexual
attraction and deep connection with women…
Your Guru
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
l…and thinks she fairly likes me using bro WB’s tactics modified with my own…
These are NOT my tactics.
I hv merely posted some strategies n techniques from various gurus, mostly Ang Mo from Gotham country. Need to modify them to suit one’s individual needs. The approach for WLs n non-WLs r somewhat different. Asian women n PRCs r again quite different.
Cheers!
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I’m an elementary student of man-woman attraction n RS. I’m searching for the truth n scientific facts…
IMHO, the “secret active ingredient or SAI” in a man that attracts all healthy n mentally normal women/gals, at their subconscious level, is the same for all races: Dominant self mastery/self control.
This trait is manifested in a man’s body language which includes his voice, tonality, facial expressions, posture, eye ctc, movements, gestures, animation, etc. This is the first impression that a gal will pick up instantly. Like one guru says, slowness, smoothness n steadiness in all movements n actions, including speech…think 007. His actual words r of minor significance. However, the true test of his self mastery will take time. All women, especially very beautiful ones who hv many suitors, r hard-wired to test n challenge (w/o their own awareness) a man to determine the real depth n width of his self mastery. How much of the SAI does he hv? Is he a real man or a fake? His character n personality r part of it n, most importantly, how he reacts n responds to adverse n stressful situations r decisive in whether he is the rare man w/ mega-ton SAI.
When a very beautiful woman knows that u hv more SAI than anyone else she has ever met, she will go to bed w/ u. Period. Everything else is of secondary importance. Next will be an equally big challenge, hehehe. To keep her, supposing she is really worth it, u still need to give her COS regularly…
The above is my personal opinion n I could be dead wrong.
Dissenting views n criticisms r welcome!
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Men are attracted by looks…Women are attracted by Power and Influence…as well as humour and charisma.
Hi Bro MP.
Ths for ur insight.
Cheers!
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Good morning!
I hv been to LV rarely these days bcos my several groups of young frens prefer CI n elsewhere. They dun like the rms there! But I care little for the rms or ambience as my sole interest is finding gals of my type…
Personally I like LV a lot n hv had good “luck” there.
Of the 6-7 gals I like very much in the last 1 1/2 yrs, 2 are from LV. And I spotted these 2 by myself in early Jan, all within a 15-min time span. I hv detailed my encounter w/ them in my other thread “How to pick up…” I kept one for 2 1 /2 months. She fell in love w/ a fellow 20 yo student from her hometown while I was in Gotham City. She turned 19 only recently. They hv my sincerest blessings. I hope they will get married n stay until 白头皆老。She is my new avatar. The other is a 23 yo ex-singer who will be coming shortly to be w/ me on a long term basis. I hv another gal I met elsewhere that I’ll “take care of” for at least a yr. I would like to dispel any notion that I keep gals for short-term only.
Nowadays it requires several outings for me just to pick up one gal whose outward appearance is mildly interesting. We men r most attracted to looks n therefore it’s the prerequisite for me before taking any action. Then I need to get to know her n deepen the rapport. Assuming that everything goes well for both of us n she is the right type of gal, I may then pop the question. If the terms r mutually acceptable, there may still be many surprises when she reveals her naked body…not the least of which is the appearance of her abalone n its tightness, wetness n responsiveness, etc.
Recently, I was at a high-end joint n I met a gal in the hallway n got her assigned no. She was already booked. The mummy was able to get her HP for me n I’ll see her soon. I only wanted her to sit w/ me that nite. Some bros were puzzled as there were many other gals there.
The reason is that I only desire a particular type of gal. Now facial beauty is very subjective n I shall not discuss it. But more importantly, I only want to make love to a gal w/ a particular head/body/limbs proportions. I often lower my standards if I merely want to fxk her.
I hv seen many PRC gals in SIN n my particular type of gal is getting harder to find. I guess I may hv to move to PRC sooner…
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
R u married bro WB….can share insights on how to BY girls and get away with it with OC? This would be interesting extention of your topic
Hi Bro MP,
I do hv a family but they spend most of their time in Gotham City which happens to be my legal domicile.
When my family is in town, my activities w/ my BAO-ees r greatly curtailed. This is very stressful n undesirable for my RS w/ them.
For example, although I kept KK for 2 nearly 2 1/2 months, my family was here during 70% of that time. Very unsatisfactory as my alternate-day sessions w/ her were more like quickies. She had to carry a box of 003 n took taxi all over the city to meet me, often during her school hrs. Sometimes we couldn’t even eat dinner together. She was displeased n often complained abt it. Of the remaining 30% of “free” time, I had to divide between her n my “niece” BB…
I may hv to take up a new hobby n/or join some clubs as alibis for spending lots of time outside, especially at night. Finding some part-time work is also a good idea.
I think my OC is suspicious of my unusual activities. But I think she is smart enuff to ignore it.
SIN is such a very small place. I hv seen my frens/relatives on several occasions in Bugis, Chinatown n along Orchard Rd while I was w/ a very young woman. Not sure if they hv seen me. I now never hold a gal’s hand in public n always walk behind her…
IMHO, the best thing to do is to be upfront ur OC n get her tacit approval. It could be easier for me as I’m already an ah pek n my OC is not young. But it could be more difficult for young bros who r in their 20s or 30s. Unless u hv dominant self mastery which may make it iimpossible for ur OC to leave u.
I hope married bros here could also enlighten us on how to “get away w/ it.”
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
chenzong
Shanghai beckons! Expensive city though.
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Originally Posted by
GoGoGo
And the minimum spending for room easily RMB5k…
Hi Bro chenzong,
SIN is still more expensive then SH. For the same money spent, I expect to get a higher quality gal of my type in SH.
I heard 天地人间 in Beijing hv the most beautiful gals. Any clubs in SH to compete w/ it?
Yes, I must visit u in SH. I’m thinking of finding some uni gals in PRC n bringing a couple back for 2 months at a time. My agent says it can be arranged easily. Primary school teachers would be great too, hehehe.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
GoGoGo
And the minimum spending for room easily RMB5k…
Hi Bro GoGoGo,
Long time no see. Are u currently in SIN?
Be good,
Bro WB
Good morning!
I like to make a confession. I used to be a perfectionist n I was neither satisfied w/ my self nor my own achievements. As for gals, they all hv many flaws n I hv NEVER fallen in love w/ anyone. Getting KC-ed yes, but never in love. I’m too rational, logical n calculating to fall for anyone. Not sure if it’s good or bad.
Even my KC for anyone has been quite feeble. All it takes is another pussy which is even closer to my particular type n I’ll forget abt the old one immediately.
I know pursuing my outer purpose will never give me real n sustained happiness. I do it for fun n adventure, completely detached to its outcomes. Only being my true self n having dominant self mastery/self control of my emotions will give me real n everlasting happiness. The only thing I can control r my own emotions, whereas external events n people r largely out of my control n it’s an exercise in futility to attempt to do so. Living in the eternal present moment is the way to go.
A guru wrote the following:
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Happiness is never the events, people, things, situations or circumstances in your life, but rather
how you feel, your emotions, during or in relation to those events.
This is good news! It means that you do not have to control events in order to be happy; you only
have to control your emotions.
This too is great news because you will never have much control over most of the events in your life;
while you can learn to control your emotions perfectly. You can learn to eliminate all negative
emotions and to maintain yourself in positive emotions all the time. That, remember, is precisely our
definition of Happiness: all the time, no matter what.
If you are letting your emotions be affected by what happens; if you are letting your happiness
depend on external events and circumstances; you will never experience much. You will never have
much control over what other people say and do, nor over many of the events that occur in the
“parade of events” that is Life.
I am not saying that this state of no negative emotions and positive emotion all the time is quick and
easy to achieve. It will require your effort, but it can be achieved. Controlling the external world
can not.
That you can learn to control your emotions perfectly means that the happiness you seek (remember
your happiness is the ultimate motivation of all that you do, of your entire life) is not only within
your reach; it is parked in your hands waiting for you to start it up.
If you are seeking happiness by any other route other than learning to control your emotions, you are
wasting your time. Look at life. You will see a plethora of people who have achieved “fame and
fortune,” who “have it all,” and are intensely unhappy. The movie, the rock music and the sports
scenes are full of such people: high success, and high neurosis and unhappiness. Nothing outside of
you can ever assure your happiness.
Fortunately, you need nothing outside of your Self to achieve happiness. You were designed and
manufactured with everything necessary built in.
5 Events: in the future, I will use the word “event” to include any change in anything within your perception: any
occurrence, any arrival, departure, movement, or action of any person or thing in your life………………………………………. ……………………………….
Excellent advice!
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Lets get back to something more mundane, shall we? How abt body proportions? I’m buying prime USDA meat? Hahaha…
Yes, Despite my recent “discovery of my inner purpose” I’ll still keep searching for gals w/ my particular head/body/limbs proportions who r chio to ME. An example of the particular portions I like:
Same gal as my avatar. Notice her long legs n relatively long, slender arms, w/ small bony frame n small wrists. Here we get a hint of her natural D breasts n shapely, perky butt. Strangely, her legs n thighs r not as slender, although still acceptable. Her fingers r short for her height of 170cm n her pussy is also tight n short. Not sure if this relation of finger length to pussy size is consistent for most gals. Any comments?
Same gal. See how long n slender r her upper n forearms. Very tiny wrists too. I guess ancient Chinese crave tiny feet, whereas I crave long, slender arms.
Only the ex-LV singer has equally long n slender arms. Also more slender legs n thighs (a plus) but smaller boobs.
BTW, this particular physical trait is only one feature that turns me on. There r many others (a pink pussy is another), but I could NEVER find more than a few of them in the same gal. Even 3-4 would be sufficient. Life is never perfect, ya?
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
besafe
Wow.. Brother WB.. you really have an eye for women !
Your girl in the avatar have a mixture of looks - of HK actress Christy Chung and Taiwan Actress Lin Yi Cheng.
You are so fortunate to have chio girls and of course their juicy pussies.
Oh BTW, the 2 better Joints in SHA will be Tian Shang Ren Jian and Jing Chang Chang.
Take Care.
Hi bro besafe,
Ths for the info.
Me fortunate? Not really. Even though I’m certain they r exclusive to me when I keep them, they r all WLs.
The pic in my avatar is a studio shot n the gal looks less attractive, though much younger n more innocent when she goes to school w/ satchel on her back.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Thanks Bro WB for your insights….yup…i think it’s the smart thing to keep the money in your single name hor…that’s why recently I sold away some assets which I put her name but she did not come out any money with….I decided to sell it off becos I felt really insecure about it and the amount of money can easily BY a girl for 2 to 3 years… i think end of the day must protect yourself… it’s not that I don’t love my OC but she can be tempermental at times and it’s better to be in control than be controlled… but i am very careful nowadays as previously been caught before… lots of my frens keep two hps but i don’t… living dangerous… anyway reccomended for a good hp with a good password function?
Hi bro MP,
It’s prudent to keep some assets only in ur name. It’s also a good idea to hv a “secret” fund for BY-ing gals.
I hv 3 HPs n they r protected by password. I like Nokia phones.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
Nokia E71 or E72 … all good………
BTW, just dumped a singer recently… and days prior to the dumping, she has been calling my handphone or sms-ing multi times @ most jialat timing of the day. KNN - Siao Char bo!!! Heng ah, she only has my number that is specifically used for cheonging else sure die cock-standing. Hahaha…
Got 3 women in my life now, and my wife knows about my No2 women (officially open secret!), supports it but as for No3 (errr… ahem!), she not yet in the light manz, if that exposed now… me confirm tio hammered first for doing one too many lor… Lolz.
My official No2 knows my secretive No3 … so my link between all my women is No2 and she is a very smart woman. That’s my secret! Ask bros WB, Marc5 & DYBJ, they have met my official No2. Sad thing is that she is now back to China to take care of some family matters …
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
For me, my wife and I used to go through a very very bad patch, nearly the big D! Finally we stayed together for the sake of the family, assets, face-value and KIDS.
Now its working out very well, Wifey No1 knows about my offical No2 and they get along harmoniously…….
Bro WB - you have seen my No2 yar… and also witness how she manages my other out-of-the-lights women……..
Hi Bro LDH,
You’re amazing!
When will ur No2 woman be back? I think she is like an er nai to u…
Please share some of ur strategies w/ us here.
Cheers!
Bro WB