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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
My most heartiest congratulations to both YY and you my dear Master Rookie Rook.
It was a night i wouldnt forget, even my BY was having a ball, especially the kissing contest…hahahahahaha which we WON!!!!!!
Was really nice to see the Grand Master WarBird after such a long time wif his new lil toy, kudos & congrats Master Warbird, i can see you’ve got your hands FULL in many areas hahahahaha
Like i always preach bro, to win & understand them, you must 1st think like them!
My most esteemed Mr. Austin,
Ths for all ur advice n guidance.
Amazing! You hv accomplished in actual deeds what many gurus n mentors in Gotham r merely writing abt. If I had not read dozens n dozens of books n newsletters, I would not believe what u hv done is even possible. In fact, over 99% of men r clueless, hehehe.
Yes, we must 1st think like them if we ever hope to win n understand them.
As for KK, I presuppose that she will become sexually addicted to n fall deeply in love w/ me. If she doesn’t, I will consider it a temporary interruption. I just need to work harder to become a real October Man, hahaha.
Ths again!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
besafe
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After the COS you gave her… she is definitely fixated with you. Have a nice trip back to Gotham. Please come back soon and continue posting your salivating accounts of conquests……………
Hi bro besafe,
No, mere fixation or even severe addiction is not good enough anymore. I’m gunning for total domination of her body n heart, hehehe.
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besafe
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I am planning a trip to your Fav BY birth place.
Can you ask if she has any Chio Jie Meis to intro whilst there?
Are u talking abt Fuzhou area in Fujian? When will u be there? GG is a Fuzhou gal, but she is in Shanghai now.
You really dun need intro for ST. Just go to a high end KTV n u will be spoilt for choice.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
chenzong
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Waiting for you to come over! Remember to give me a call when you do!
And please, I do not have the tongue of a serpent, so do not ask me to be your 媒婆!
Hi bro chenzong,
I’ll come very soon!
Hahaha…it’s not derogatory when we refer to a certain person as having the tongue of a serpent. It could be used for a noble cause. It’s the same as gift of gab.
I wish u would continue narration of ur wonderful story…
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
besafe
Just a few days ago, I received a call from an ex-KTV girl who is married here.
She quit the scene when her BF proposed to her.
Despite the fact that her royal highness is in town, we met up and……
I was quite surprised when she told me that her husband is often tired and not want sex… how can he not want … she is tall and beautiful and have great breasts (D cup).
Kind of guilty that I bonked somebody’s wife !
Anyway, her royal highness will be leaving soon and BY will be back soon!!!
Ths for sharing ur experience. More details would be greatly appreciated. Did u bonk her FOC?
According to some newsletters, if a man can’t give his partner COS, she is likely to stray n put his life at risk! Therefore, the ability to give a woman COS is a matter of life n death!!
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Greetings to all esteemed samsters from Gotham city!
I always ask my BAO-ee when she will get a visit from her big auntie. Two main reasons. Firstly, I want to know when her pussy will not be available. Secondly, a good % of gals r most wet, most eager to hv sex n most easily orgasmic several days before n for a no of days following her ovulation (or shedding of an ovum or egg). Of course there r some gals who r easily orgasmic anytime anywhere, totally unrelated to ovulation.
Regardless of the length of a woman’s menstrual cycle, ovulation ALWAYS occurs 14 days before the onset of the next period.
The day before I left for Gotham, I had a session w/ KK. It was fortuitous that she had her ovulation either that very day or the day before. She was dripping wet! She didn’t just moan, but had screams of pleasure. She would scream every time I gave her a deep thrust…later even sucking on her nipple would cause her to scream n scream. I got very aroused n sexcited n kept pumping hard, trying to rock her bottom so to speak..for a good 25-30 min. I was sweating profusely, felt my heart racing n reluctantly shot my load. My heart rate was over 160! I literally couldn’t stand up for over 5 min.
What is curious is that she doesn’t remember her screams. She has denied that in the past as well. 我不叫床不表示我没有高潮, 我非常舒服. 我从来不叫床.
Before the FJ, I gave her a massage. I told her to relax n breathe deeply so that her brain would be in the Alpha state. I then talked to her softly n slowly in 3rd person. You’re very relaxed, safe…u love X da ge deeply(me)…X da ge loves u too n will give u intense pleasures u hv never experienced before n will never experience w/ any other men…you will…
These NLP n covert hypnotic techniques can be very powerful in deepening her addiction to me.
BTW, I’m learning abt the secret “October Man Method” n will see how effective n powerful it is. I need more practice. KK is merely my 1st guinea pig. GG will be my 2nd. To my way of thinking, it’s a matter of life n death, I’ll leave no stone unturned…
Ths for reading n hv a great day!!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
besafe
Did u bonk her FOC?
Bro WB
Yes !
I did buy her a small gift though.
Hi bro besafe,
Good for u! You must be a Natural, hehehe. Now give her COS n make her addicted to u!
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Originally Posted by
aczeta76
well well.. this is interesting. I see you have ventured into the exotic realm..
The sequence is truly exciting on paper. I came across it 3 years back, only bothered about the pool pattern..
Guess I should put out the old file and explore further.. kekeke
Hi bro aczeta76,
Wow, u r really a veteran Cheongster!
Since it’s a matter of life n death, I’ll leave no stone unturned…
The October Man Method can be incredibly powerful for those who really master their Inner Game or Mindset. It also takes a lot of practice to perfect the Outer Game. It will take me many more months or yrs to master it.
Have u read the original Sequence n many of the related ebooks by his associates or just the patterns?
It’s only one of the many methods of NLP n covert hypnotic strategies…
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
I arrived in Gotham only 2 days ago n KK is now urging me to return!! She already misses me!! Unfortunately, I must take care of some business affairs before I could return. I’ll try to come back earlier though.
Presupposition is one of the tools of The October Man. I presupposed many things abt KK n our RS…I now know that this young gal is sexually addicted to me n is in love w/ me. She can’t wait to see me…but sometimes a period of separation is good for the RS.
Of course, The October Man has many worthy competitors. There is a simple method called The Cube, which is supposed to be a secret weapon of the PUAs.
The Little Red Dot has our own Mr. Austin who is accomplishing all the deeds of what these supposed gurus r writing abt. He has his own unique MO which is very powerful n actually quite similar to the other methods. I guess great minds think alike, hehehe.
In my 2 months w/ Kk, I hv deeply connected n disconnected w/ her several times. I hv intentionally made her very upset n cried a few times. Sorry, I had to do it bcos I wanted her to get addicted to me.
She criticizes me for being very selfish n very stubborn n aggressive in my demands n the fact that I always must hv everything done the way I want n dun take no for an answer. But then she praises me n says I hv too many good qualities (really??): Reliability, trustworthiness, compassion, frugality, persistence, industry, ambitions, etc. She forgets to mention that I hv also been a good provider. She also believes I love her deeply, although I wont say it.
Ths for reading n hv a great day!!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
aczeta76
hahaha… I have only scratch the surface of the orginal sequence. Now that I have more time, I shall go explore in depth and put to practice somewhere
You really should, bro. You’ll be invincible…
Dun forget to post ur conquests here, hahaha.
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Originally Posted by
chenzong
Getting creative juices going amidst all the things one has to do in life is harder than I thought. I can understand why so many manga would suddenly stop, as the author loses steam. Hopefully I can pick it up when I get more inspiration.
I still think you are playing dangerously, WB, when you get your girl KK addicted to you. I have seen too many cases of vindictive women, and I always advise my foreign friends here to be careful when emotions are involved. Of course, it is your life, and I guess I should not interfere with how you run your life. Just be careful, okay?
Take ur time, bro. I’ll patiently await ur juicy story.
Thank u for reiterating ur warning.
No, KK will not be vindictive if n when I say goodbye prematurely, a little sad n flustered yes, but she will get over it quickly. She is very resilient, goal-oriented n determined for such a teenage gal. I’m always very upfront n brutally honest w/ her. No deception. She wants me to keep her for her entire stay here in SIN, in return she will never work n be 100% faithful. I say OK, if she abides by the agreement n if I’m not disappointed w/ her for whatever reason…
The real danger is for me to lose control over my heart or ego or fall for her. I dun see that happening at this time, despite the fact that no one has treated me better or cared more abt my health n well-being than she. Yes, I’m fond of her n do hv some KC for her, but I’m not addicted to her nor her pussy.
I’m in complete control n I hv allowed myself some KC, firstly, to add to my sexcitement n fun n, secondly, to make her fall for me.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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I spoke w/ the one n only Mr. Austin yesterday n learned more abt his unique methods w/ WLs. Amazing! He uses push-pull n connect-disconnect strategies n give them intense, gut-wrenching emotions to make them fall for him.
Some gurus advocate a more gentle n subtle approach. I’m hooked on covert hypnosis which I’m still learning. I did use a very crude form on KK on my last session w/ her.
A gal is most susceptible to covert hypnosis under 2 conditions. First, when she is very relaxed n feels very safe, in her Alpha state. Second, when she is in COS n having screams of pleasure. The day before I left for Gotham City, when she was in COS, I would whisper in her ears: You love X da ge (me) very much, X da ge also loves u very much…u r 100% faithful to X da ge, etc. You get the idea.
The single most important determinant of success w/ any methods is ur degree of confidence n ur inner game or mindset. What ur SUBCONSCIOUS MIND can conceive n believe, you can achieve. The trick is to convince ur subconscious mind n the easiest way to do so is by autosuggestion, NLP, meditation n self hypnosis. For that u must practice daily…forever. This is applicable in ALL areas of life.
I’ll be a completely different person when I return in May.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
2 days ago, AA asked me to let her go.
Well, in times like these, i have to play soft, asked her why, she kept saying she’s very mentally drained blah blah.
She said that she’s broken the number 1 golden rule that all WLs are suppose to be emotionless and that she’s failed.
She has fallen in love wif me very deeply and is now very confused.
I applied the very soft approach and sighed with alot of reassurances that she’s not the only one who has failed, for i too, have fallen for her hehehehehe
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I now need to reverse role from alpha to beta. Since the opportunity has presented itself in such a way that it’s too good to be missed.
Yes she made the 1st step, but always remember, more often than not, humans will tend to do things to themselves due to face value.
So i went in and apologised if i was too hard on her & that i was goin to DC later & if she wud give me the honour to bring her wif me…….a few moments of silence passed, and the answer was yes.
Next question was our status?????
Her reply was back together…..
Mission accomplished
Now, i maintain the beta and alpha posture, always switching as required.
Poor gal……she’s so fucked!
(BTW, I hv the good fortune of talking to Mr. Austin 2 days ago n hv a clearer picture of his mind game n strategies w/ WLs. FYI, AA is an Ang Pai singer at a new n popular HFJ/KTV. I met her briefly. She is a chio, elegant n sophisticated lady, but more mature type, a MILF. She is the type most middle-age n older towkays would love to fxk n possess like a trophy, hahaha. Fortunately, though a liao chi ko pek myself, I prefer taller 18-23 yo gals who r naive n inexperienced.)
My Dear Mr. Austin,
My sincerest ths to u for revealing some of ur methods on how to get n keep singers n make them fall deeply for u. Your MO is applicable to any gals/women. I see that u like to take on those who r the hardest to seduce n who r the most unlikely to fall in love w/ any man. Amazing!!
I hv pondered on what u hv told me n read ur post three times. Fxking brilliant!! You should get a Grammy, hehehe.
Most men r clueless on what really attracts women n makes them fall in love, n of the few who get it, very few can actually emulate ur methods. Maybe some aspects of it yes, but never the whole enchilada. I can’t act n dun cry easily, so my only hope is using covert NLP n hypnosis, and of course give them COS, again n again, hehehe.
You go for total domination n u want to own ur woman, body, heart n soul!
You hv left out a very important piece in the equation. Your ability to give women intense, multiple orgasms or COS, for hrs at times, something they hv never experienced before. I hv improved by leaps n bounds in this area, but I need to do a lot more n a lot longer.
I can’t wait to try it on KK n GG, hehehe. And on that bitch XW, my 1st BAO-ee, who has never been submissive enough.
Many gurus hv advocated the strategies of push-pull n connect-disconnect n strong emotional experiences to make women fall for them, but ur idea of switching from alpha to beta n back, depending on circumstances is original n unique. Ths for sharing this important insight. May I call u the Sun Zi of sexual n love mastery?
Most men suck up to women they adore n dare not confront or offend them. This wussy behaviour is very repulsive to women. Wake up! Give them shock n awe n they may fall for u.
I’ll try to come back earlier as I want to try out some new strategies on several pussies. I look forward to cheonging w/ u!
Best regards,
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Why do i always hunt for angpais?
Simple…it’s the mental warfare that excites more than the SEX
Sex is something that’s very over rated, and when is it difficult to get the meat if you got the $$$ to throw?
What are angpais?
They are women that men adore, bow to, give in to, allow to walked all over from and willingly be totally submissive to these women…………..but how many actually dare walk into that battlefield and actually go all out for like wat warbird say, total domination of heart, body & soul…………………….
The whole ploy of the game is actually very simple…for me that is…..
at bro warbirds special request, i’ll try my best to share.
Do note that as bros who knows me know, i only go for singers, everything else is childs play……..
When I go to a joint, the 1st time that is…………………………….
The Challenging type:
These are the Alpha’s of the nite scene.
They know their attributes and DO Ney walk,OT display any lack of confidence.
Everywhere th men turn to stare and salivate………
Because of this, you must follow the following:
Make an impression
Never show that you’re a push over
Never show that you’re desperate for her
Never lie to get your way, try to be as humble as possible
Carry yourself confidently
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Do not be too eager to please her, everything you do, must be platonic, do not promise her anything, just maintain that distance yet keep close, soon, you’ll start to earn her respect!…………………………………… ………………….
Once you feel that she’s very comfortable wif you, and feel totally at ease wif you, she’ll let her guard down, that’s wen you go for the kill…………………
We men are insensitive creatures, we just wanna get a hard on, fuck release and game over. Most if not all of us are guilty of this.
This is also wat women hate most about us.
Now turn the tables…….
The 1st time in the room, do not even ever insert you dicky into her, instead use your tongue and finger and keep her getting many many orgasms till you see her shivering like in convulsion…this can usually take almost an hour of more till she has a sore pussy….but damage is already done, cos she’ll be in 7th heaven all thanks to your hard work! Trust me, she’ll be addicted to you already. After that, go back or just hug her and sleep……you’ve achieved wat you set out to do liao…….
As time progresses, you MUST remember all the little details that has happened all these while, cos from there, you’ll know how many truths or lies she’s been feeding you.
On the day the word love is exposed, this is where the ULTIMATE MINDFUCKING will begin.
Why? Cos she’s totally into you by then.
Drop the bomb on her and tell her all the pieces of info that she has leaked and challenge her on her integrity, sincerity and morality………………….
After this incident, cuddle, dun FUCK, just cuddle to relieve the tension from the earlier battle.
Next few days, on & off, stir her emotions…..yes, she has fallen for you but you must be in control. Soon she’ll not be able to take it and just wanna call it quits.
By this time, $$$$ is already secondary to them liao cos they’ve been KC trapped so deeply, evewn alking out will be painful for them.
This is when you back down and start being apologetic & for the next few days of weeks, be the most forgiving and understanding mother fucker on this planet……this will engulf her even deeper in your KC trap
Soon, you wont even need to invest a single cent, cos she’ll know how to sucker some loosers for it and then, you’ll be having free fucks, free meals, free cigarettes free hotel stays, free holidays and gifts…….
Carry on this charade for as long as you desire but always be alert for he little lies or mistakes she does.
When you’ve decided you had your fun and wanna move on, wait for the rite moment she fucks up again & throw another bomb at her.
This will be the ULTIMATE one cos you can justify everything and she cant defend shit.
In the end, she can only blame herself for all the shit she screwed up on and you’ll be laughing to the next WLs bed…………..
Well, Warbird, I’ve revealed alot here but like wat was said, it’s easier said than done………………………………
Hi Mr. Austin,
I’m very thankful to u for accepting my invitation to post some of ur mind game n strategies of playing singers here, n for honoring that acceptance by promptly posting it, despite ur very busy schedule.
What a revelation!
As I said before, ur MO is original n unique, although the general principles r universal: Being dominant, unemotional, playing hard to get, using connect-disconnect n push-pull tactics, displaying the attractive traits of both bad boy n a mature gentleman, evoking strong emotional experiences n, last but not least, the ability to give women intense multiple orgasms (or even better, COS). The most important determinant of ur success is of course ur Inner Game or Mindset. And then there is ur Outer Game…
You’re a consummate player!!
You hv the mojo of a Mr. Austin Powers, the cunning military strategies of a Sun Zi, the profound understanding of female psychology of a Sigmund Freud n the wherewithal of a successful towkay, hehehe.
Like u say, getting pussies n sex is too easy. The real challenge is total domination of a woman’s body, heart n soul, especially of Ang Pais.
I couldn’t agree w/ u more.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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besafe
Bro DYBJ
Brilliant !
Clap ! Clap ! Clap !
Hi bro besafe,
Now u know why I’m working very hard to improve myself, every hr, every day, in every way…using autosuggestion, NLP, meditation n self hypnosis, hahaha.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
besafe
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How is your KK doing without you around to give her COS?
I think she must be itching badly !
Oh.. I have some friends in town and may bring them to DC.
I may just ask for CD and see her in life………
Hi bro besafe,
She is pleading for me to return earlier…
I hv given her real COS only 3 times, 2 of them in the last 1 wk I was in SIN, despite the fact that both of us were sick w/ flu. But the COS only lasted 35 min or so. Not good enuff even though she already developed marked swelling of her R pussy lip which took 2 days to subside. I hv added some covert NLP n hypnosis which has helped. I must extend her screaming orgasms to more than 1 hr or longer!
She will be very sore down there, hehehe.
In my absence, I only pay her to cover her generous living expenses n school fees. I originally wanted her to go to work n even be BAO-ed by another man, as long as she returned to me on my return, bcos I wanted her to earn more money. But she said NO, she wont want to work or see another man in SIN n would wait for my return. She said, 我很爱你…I warned her that if that is the case, she should keep her promise or else I would just say goodbye. To test her, I had SMsed her, using my other SIN HP n a pseudonym, to try to book her, for twice the going rate, to go to a different KTV…she didn’t even reply. Next, I’ll get a trusted fren to seduce her n if he fails, I’ll get the mummies to tempt her, hahaha. I’m confident enuff that I actually want her to be fxked by others…
I plan to keep her for another 3-4 wks on my return n give her long COS n make her fall deeply for me. Then I can move on if I so choose…
Go n see CD. She makes a good KTV partner n she has slender upper arms too. If u need her HP no, PM me.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Greetings from Gotham City to all samsters!!
I like to thank Mr. Austin for sharing his pearls n wisdom on BY-ing singers w/ all of us. Isn’t he a sex/love grand master?
I wish that he could become a special contributor to this thread n update us regularly, if n when he can find the time of course, on his current n future conquests n elucidate some of the underlying strategies.
As I hv mentioned before, his methods r unique n original n he has formidable emotional control, very powerful Inner Game n Outer Game n, last but not least, the resources of a very successful towkay. Very rare combination of attributes. All we can hope for is to adopt some of his methods for our individualized approach. I know my own constraints n limitations n must therefore play the game very differently, although the fundamental principles r the same.
If ur goal is merely pussies n sex, dun play this complicated BY-ing game, just go to GL cat 150 gals or some FLs, or take a trip to CP, China. This mind games r for those of us who must hv total domination of a woman’s body, heart n soul, hehehe.
Cheers!
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When it comes to the type of women we men r attracted to, it’s more than one man’s meat is another man’s poison. There is the pervasive Rashomon Effect. I know a billionaire who is enamored w/ an old, fat n hideous woman. How abt Prince Charles’ lifelong mistress (who is his current wife) ? And men r supposed to be attracted primarily to a woman’s looks n body type.
My hypothesis is that these women possess some attributes, could be physical, behavioral or whatever, which trigger release of neuro-transmitters in their brains n make them fall in love.
When I first agreed to BY KK, I was planning to keep her for 1 wk, at the most 2 wks. Something happened n we r still lovers! After much introspection n self analysis n hypnosis, I know what that something is. I’m sharing it n I dun care what u all think.
It’s her unusually n disproportionately slender n long arms, especially the upper arms n shoulder areas. I hv alluded to my liking for long n slender arms in my post on 18 Aug last yr. But KK’s is exceptionally slender, not only in absolute terms, but also in proportion to her boobs n the rest of her body. The circumference of her wrist is abt 14cm n upper arm 18 cm! The arms r devoid of fat n muscle mass n covered w/ fair n smooth skin, like those of a gal of 13-14. But she is otherwise a voluptuous young woman, 170 cm w/o shoes, 55 kg, natural D boobs n quite big ass w/ long straight legs which r not too thick nor too thin.
When I saw her nude the 1st time, I was stunned by the contrast between her very slim deltoids n upper arms n her very big boobs. It’s like those of a Hantai gal. OMG! What a 级品尤物! My didi just couldn’t wait…
Why am I so obsessed w/ such an unique physical feature? When I was an infant, I must hv spent a lot of pleasurable time in the arms n bosoms of a 13-14 yo gal who had very long slender arms, who was a close relative, perhaps a cousin or even a maid. And she spoke a Fuzhou dialect!.
It’s fortunate that KK doesn’t hv a Fuzhou accent, otherwise I might really fall in love w/ her!!
If I can find another gal w/ big bosoms n even slimmer deltoids n arms, I’ll make an offer she can’t refuse. If she comes w/ a Fuzhou accent, I’ll double the offer! Anyone has such a gal to intro to me?? I’ll be eternally grateful! Of course she must be chio to ME n has the body type that I fancy, preferably 18-19 yo as it would be illegal for her to be any younger.
Ths for reading n hv a great day!
Bro WB
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besafe
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Thanks Bro WB,
I will bring my friends to see her.
Oh.. as mentioned to you, the married PRC asked me out for another session…………………………………
I must say that bonking somebody’s wife give you a sort of high!
But at the same time , I still have this funny naggy feeling !
I worried for you. If you have more than 1 BY in May, I hope you won’t tired yourself too much by trying to give them prolong COS.
Your tongue will be more sore than their pussy !………………………………………….
Hi bro besafe,
Pls tell me what u n frens think of CD. A few of my frens think she is very chio, some say not bad n some think she is very ordinary. To me, she appears to be a chio SYT…
Be very careful playing married women. I normally shun them.
Yeah, giving prolonged COS to gals is very hard work. It’s hard physical labor to a lao ah pek like me. On the other hand, I get a lot of pleasure n excitement n even euphoria myself. Plus I want to get them sexually addicted n fall deeply for me.
Dun worry, I’ll not BY more than 2 gals at any one time.
Cheers!!
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Greetings from Gotham City!
I believe I’m addicted to young pussies which r very attractive to ME, but fortunately not to any one particular pussy, n I’m also addicted to the game of BY n getting the gals sexually addicted, hahaha.
I hv had so much fun playing w/ KK. Now she calls me X da ge n says she loves me very much every time I call. We shall see. I hv assumed a 2nd ID n hv SMS-ed her, trying to book her for KTV sessions n outings. BTW, I brought several SIN HPs to Gotham. Thus far I hv failed as she has yet to reply. I dun give up easily…
I hv also contacted some of her flatmates n cousin. They hv provided some useful info. Not all gals r on her side as some r zealous of her n dun like her…
When she is ovulating in approx 2 1/2 wks, she will be as horny as a bitch on heat, I’ll get a trusted fren to seduce her, hehehe. I’ll pay all his expenses.
Isn’t life fun?!
Have a great day!
Bro WB
Good morning to all samsters!
Many gurus hv discussed the Holy Grail of attraction: What really makes a female want u (sexually). It applies to both WLs n non-WLs. I’ll summarize what a guru has emailed me in the last few days. It’s painfully obvious that most men r still clueless.
What behaviors n attributes in YOU that are known to make the women that YOU DESIRE MOST want you? There is a big difference between LIKING and WANTING you.
A woman may like u, and still not be SEXUALLY ATTRACTED to u. She may like u if u behave like a nice guy or carrot head, praise her, suck up to her, buy stuff for her, never say no to her, dare not confront her…u get the picture.
If u feel u must do everything for a woman just to have her, she will SENSE IT and be repelled. If she is a KTV gal, u can buy her pussy, but never her attraction for u or her heart. If u become too needy n desperate, even a WL will run away from u!
So how do u make a woman want u?
Is it looks?
Is it wealth?
Is it confidence?
Is it power?
All those things are part of it, but they’re not THE SINGLE most important attribute.
Think about it…
What’s the one thing she HAS to have?
Here goes: the MOST important thing that a woman needs in order to WANT YOU is …
… that you are a REAL MAN.
Women are attracted to MEN, plain and simple.
A MAN is someone who’s different from her in every way.
A MAN is someone who has integrity, knows who he is, and knows where he’s going.
A MAN is someone that a woman can trust to guide her and lead her into a great future.
A MAN is someone who has the strength to let her be her most feminine self without ever making her feel that SHE’S the one who’s going to have to ‘carry’ them both. Who supports her EMOTIONALLY, not just MATERIALLY. Who validates HER instead of looking TO her for validation.
It’s about letting her know, tacitly, that YOU are DOMINANT, always in control, that you are someone she can RELY on, and that you can ‘handle it’, whatever ‘it’ is.
This is something that a lot of “modern men” struggle with. They’re AFRAID to be ‘men’ because they don’t want to SCARE anybody (like women). They’re scared to just be a man and be OK with it.
By trying to be less assertive, aggressive n masculine,, they’ve actually
NEUTERED themselves in terms of ATTRACTION!!
This is why so many women seem to prefer ‘jerks’. Not because they actually WANT a ‘jerk’,
but because, when faced with a choice between a ‘sensitive new-age guy’ and a JERK, they’d rather pick the jerk … because at least HE knows how to be a MAN.
(Sadly for many women, they literally are
unaware that there is a middle ground here - that
great men do exist who are neither SNAGs nor
jerks, who are EXCELLENT men who also know how to
BE MEN. This is why ‘jerks’ have such a ‘cachet’ for
many women … because they literally don’t know of
anything else that’s out there that’s still
capable of being a man. Fortunately for these
women, you will be able to convey this quality to
them soon.)
When you suppress your masculinity in order for women to ‘be OK’ with you, you actually just
guaranteed that a woman’s going to feel NOTHING around you.
Not aroused. NOTHING.
Many “modern men” have LOST the ability to be men … and, in the process, they’ve lost what it takes to attract women.
But u r not resigned to being the guy you are now for always. You can change!
CRASH COURSE IN MANHOOD
Tip #1: Get passionate about something other than women.
There’s nothing less attractive than a guy who’s OK with ‘settling’ for a life that he’s not
PASSIONATE about.
If you are living your life without energy and enthusiasm, then you are going to find it
difficult to EVER get a really excellent woman interested in you.
Tip #2: Don’t give when u don’t WANT to give.
Some guys find it too easy to become a ‘yes-man’. You know - the guy who agrees to do
things, give things, and say things when he doesn’t really want to and he doesn’t really mean
it.
For example: the kind of guy who’ll agree with a woman, EVEN WHEN he doesn’t ACTUALLY agree, just so she’ll ’like him more’.
Or the kind of guy who’ll inconvenience himself
massively for a woman because he’s afraid that, if
he doesn’t, he’ll ’lose his chance’.
Here’s the truth: it is THAT VERY ATTITUDE that will ’lose you your chance’, because a great woman will not stay attracted to someone who’s so petrified of ’losing her’ that he can’t even bring himself to be authentic.
Tip #3: Get validation from something in your life other than women.
If you are relying on success with females to validate u and make u feel worthwhile, then
your satisfaction with ur life and ur sense of confidence as a man is forever going to be
ephemeral and linked to external events that are, BY THEIR VERY NATURE, constantly shifting.
As a result, you’ll put way too much emphasis on the outcome of ANY situation with a woman.
This is where ‘creating and living a GREAT life’ comes in. When u have a full life that
interests u and from which u derive pleasure, suddenly ‘women’ are NOT SUCH A BIG DEAL. That’s not to say that u dun WANT a woman … but u no longer NEED ONE in order to feel ’normal’.
And as a result, women everywhere sense ur innate control and ability to create
SELF-SATISFACTION, and will immediately start showing up in ur life.
Ths for reading n hv a great day!
Bro WB
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ken li
EXCELLENT!
I do not often comment or post. But your points are very well put.
The truth is if a man does not know how to be a man and has no other form of validation but his success (
or more accurately his perception
of ‘success’) with women, he not only turns off women but probably many men as well.
In a nutshell - be a man, get a life!
cheers!
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Originally Posted by
jnewwit
Bro Warbird, excellent wisdom and knowledge sharing post! Thanks.
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Originally Posted by
uhoo
wad bro WB say is soooooOoo Farking true… i wanna cry when i see wad he type.
Hi bros ken li, jnewwit n uhoo,
Ths so much for ur positive feedback. You make my day!!
I’m in the process of becoming a MAN n I’m already enjoying results I could only dream or fantasize abt a yr ago, despite being a lao chi ko pek.
Well, one more thing. Dun forget to make love or fxk ur gal like a MAN n give her COS she has never experienced before.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
besafe
Hi Bro WB,
The scene is quite subdued without your tintillating accounts of your BYs.
The married PRC that I am involved with, is seeking a divorce !
I am going to stay away from her for a while and not get sucked into her domestic disputes.
Oh, I have yet to go and see your CD. Last week, she was not available.
My friends have left and I dun have an “excuse” to go KTV.
BY is back and I am in 7th Heaven !
Hi bro besafe,
If the married PRC has tasted the intense, mind-blowing pleasure of COS from u, she will not let u go so easily. Bro, you’re in big trouble!!
Just call CD n book her for the nite (she may decline bcos u r a total stranger). Take her to K-Box or Dragonfly…
I couldn’t, or rather didn’t want to, give her COS…
Unfortunately, I’m in Gotham n hv no new gals to report. See my updates below.
Cheers!
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My former BAO-ee GG has accepted my offer to take care of her. But her previous application for a work permit was rejected. She wants to come in May but is worried that her application for visit pass may fall thru.
Some of my frens n a few bros hv seen GG. She is the only gal that my young wingman n I both like. Compared w/ KK, she is older at 21 (born 1988), almost as tall (169) n fair, but has much smaller boobs (B) n her shoulders n arms, though quite slender, r not as slim as KK’s. Most importantly, her pussy is also very pink n beautiful. Nice ass. It was fortuitous that I made a great 1st impression bcos her ovulation came the day before I consummated the deal. She had intense orgasms…I still remember her screams n screams of pleasure when I licked her cunt. Unfortunately, I was ignorant at the time n didn’t persist long enuff nor fxk her long enuff to give her COS. I’ll get my 2nd chance.
BTW, GG is quite shy n very submissive. Last but not least, she has a Fujian accent! Just spoke w/ her. Same nice voice. She is a certified beautician but currently is idle at home near Fuzhou.
As for KK, I can sense that she is falling for me. In my entire life, no one has treated me better or cared more abt my health n well being as she. And no one has repeatedly say “I miss u, I love u” in person, by phone, by email n text msg…I guess this is mutual as she wrote that: …我长这么大还没有遇到你对我这么好的人,多谢你,希望你快快回来,我等着你.
My attempts to get her to go out using my 2nd ID has completely failed. She has not even replied to any of my text msg.
BTW, moolah is a must to BY-ing these PRC gals. I’m counting on continuation of my lucky streak…n next 30-40 days could be make or break for me as one of my start up investments will either be a big win or big loss. Since meeting KK on 6 Jan, my fortune has been very good n my odds of winning on my crucial investment are at least 9 to 1, hehehe. If it turns out to be a big loss, I may hv to drive taxi for the rest of my life…
Cheers!
Bro WB