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Originally Posted by
ssd3469
Here is something interesting to share. Men want sex and women want commitment or attention. But forcefully taking sex is a crime while forcefully taking attention or commitment is not a crime lol.
Yes, quite interesting.
Forcing someone to commit to a relationship? Marriage? Both men and women may do that. It’s a criminal offense.
Don’t be intimidated.
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Originally Posted by
Dr4ke
Thanks for the insight, bro. Heard horror stories from other friends of how their girl demanded monetary benefits during the courtship/RS, in the end found out the girl has 4 ‘supporters’ doing the same thing. So whats your trick to filter out these and keep them as LT laopo or you just play along with them?
Bro, you’re welcome.
I have heard many horror stories too.
Good question. No tricks.
You must choose your girls wisely. Avoid a gold digger, even if she were prettier than Xi Shi. Read my earlier posts.
All plastic girls are gold diggers, but not all gold diggers are plastic.
I have reiterated the importance of qualifying a girl to be a lao po. If she is a night scene girl, she must quit working completely. Otherwise, how could you monitor her activities? BTW, it’s difficult and expensive for HFJ singers to quit.
If a girl is very young and attractive, focus on her character, trustworthiness, personality, temperament, educational level, and intelligence. How much does she like you? Why?
A man must believe he is the PRIZE at his subconscious level. If he tries to fake it, his body language, facial expressions, behavior, and voice tonality will betray him. He should have a strong mental frame, always take the lead, and make her live in his reality, not hers. Otherwise, the relationship will fail.
Lastly, trust but verify. If a girl violates your boundaries, just walk away asap.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Dr4ke
This sign off really swag, haha
Still figuring out the way, cannot cross the beauty hurdle
I’m still learning.
May I know what you mean by ‘can’t cross the beauty hurdle’?
Don’t have the confidence or believe that you’re the prize when courting a very attractive girl of your type?
You need to reprogram your subconscious mind to become the PRIZE. It will take time.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
soleisrough
Excellent thread. Have a lot to learn from bro warbird!
Bro, thank you!
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Originally Posted by
dropbox
this is absolutely true. If she violates even a little, don’t tolerate it. because that’s who she really is
Bro, you’re right. Just walk away.
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Good evening,
I like to share a few short paragraphs on THE most vital masculine trait which naturally attracts women. It’s written by guru Mark Raymond.
See Yourself As A Man Women Naturally Desire….
Success with women is a state of mind and nothing else, because
what is in your mind will reflect in your actions. Which is why, when a
great majority of men don’t even feel they deserve the company of an
attractive woman, they don’t get any.
The Most important statement you must remember is- “She feels
what you feel.”
Women will never judge you based on your looks, words or even how
much money you have. They will always judge you based on what
sort of feelings is circulating inside of you.
What you feel will reflect on your personality, and this is the reason
why when you are nervous you have a very high chance of being
rejected, because the girl senses that you aren’t confident enough
around her.
But, at the same time, if you were to make your approach seeming
very confident, calm, and relaxed she will respond to you more
positively.
Your comments?
Cheers,
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
SirLance
Thanks bro WB for sharing.
Bro, my pleasure.
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Good evening to all samsters,
I lIke to share an interesting ’law’ by Tim Denning.
The Jeff Bezos Bikini Babe Law
Making hard decisions is exhausting.
You can do all the pros and cons lists you like, but often you’re no closer to a decision. Jeff Bezos founded Amazon, then left his wife for some random bikini babes (hence the rather serious name of his law for life).
His law says this: “If unsure what action to pick, let your 90-year-old self on a deathbed choose it.”
This lens through which to view life makes decisions easier to make. If you don’t give a f*ck about the outcome of a decision when you’re 90, what’s the point of caring right now?
How to apply it:
Choose a big decision. Teleport to your deathbed at 90.
What decision do you make at that late stage of life? Now make that decision today while you’re comparatively young. Life decisions are simpler at 90.
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Your comments?
What top regrets might you have on your deathbed? Hopefully, you should be 100 by then.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
ghostcow
Thx bro for words of wisdom
Bro, thanks for your kind words.
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Good afternoon,
I have another brief article to share.
Women With Baggage
by Marlimus
Be extremely careful when dealing with a woman who grew up in a family where the father walked out at a tender age.
At an early age, the father, the dominant male figure in the house, is symbolic of his gender. Abandonment creates issues of guilt in the child, and does a number on the girl’s ability to trust men and her unconscious opinion of men on the whole.
If the mother shields the girl from the full impact of the blow by not being bitter and by being careful not to tarnish the father image, or if the girl simply gets over it, then so be it.
However, if the mother became bitter, then that bitterness tends to pass on to the daughter.
The daughter, in turn, later goes on to test men rigorously, trying to make them jump through burning hoops before she lets down her guard, because at a young age, her trust in men was shaken.
However, she is not necessarily attracted to the men who put up with her bullshit and stick to her even though she blows hot one minute, and cold air the next.
Women who have this problem have serious baggage, and you have to decide if she is worth it.
If you decide that she is, you have to walk a tightrope. Your behavior should subtly convey that you will not hurt her, but do not jump through her hoops.
Never be more than 5 minutes late for a date. But if she is late do not wait for her, and when she is acting coldly, do not tolerate her mood swings.
In other words, you have to still be a challenge, but be trustworthy.
It is a delicate balance, and few can master it.
Gentlemen, this is from personal experience with such women.
When you are talking to a girl and she tells you that her father walked out when she was little, proceed with extreme caution.
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Any comments?
Anyone here has had a successful relationship with a “woman with baggage” ?
It depnds more on the MAN. If he is good, he can overcome any difficulties.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good afternoon,
There is an interesting article written by Illimitable Man on choosing a good woman.
Will She Be A Good Mother?
A responsible man is always asking himself if a woman would make a good mother, and if the answer is no, then he doesn’t take her seriously no matter how much he may enjoy her company (or body), for she is quite literally ill-suited to the singular most important nonsexual thing a woman is valued for.
The tragedy of course is when a bad woman dupes a man into believing she’s a good woman, for in successfully fooling him a child is born that shouldn’t have been and wouldn’t have been were he acting in full knowledge, and that child is then forevermore deprived, disadvantaged and handicapped in that it will never know the purity of a good mother’s love, but must live the rest of its life in this world with a terrible woman for a mother, all because said child’s father was not discerning enough to learn her true nature through the smokescreen of her charms and thereby deprive her of the baby and subsequent motherhood she does not deserve and is not fit for.
You see when an insufferably cruel woman defrauds a man into reproducing with her, if he is willing to engage in extreme enough behaviour he can ultimately escape her, and wash his hands of the problem. But a child cannot escape its mother no matter how terrible or unfit she is, for it is fully reliant upon and needs that woman because it has nobody else to look after it - especially not its father, if the father left precisely because he regretted impregnating a woman who managed to fool him just long enough into believing she was pure of heart only to later discover the contrary.
And this is the side of single motherhood they never tell you about. You see, they always say that men are abandoning their children, but in truth most of the time they’re not abandoning their child, but the mother of their child - their mistake was having a child with the wrong woman, and their sin is making their child pay the price for that mistake, whilst the mother’s sin is going out of her way to defraud a man into enabling her to bring life into this world without any consideration for the child’s needs, because having a child is a superficial want of her own - an accessory for her ego rather than a sacrifice born from her purest love.
Your unborn children are relying on you to be a good judge of character, and ensure you don’t create life with a categorically terrible woman. If you fail in this objective, untold and irreparable metaphysical damage will be wrought, and yet another innocent soul will be brought into this world deprived of a good mother’s love. This is why be you man or woman, bitching out the opposite sex parent of your child reflects poorly on you, because whilst you may have come to resent them due to whatever shortcomings of theirs it is you see and are annoyed by, you chose them, and you not only chose them, but created life with them. You are, quite literally, their creators. It’s an important role, possibly one of the most important you will ever have, and so you can’t afford to mess it up. So be shrewd, become discerning, and learn how to vet well - or one day some poor child will lead a terrible life because you were insufficiently analytical.
Your comments?
The author is verbose. Sorry for his long sentences.
Cheers!
Bro WB
QUOTE=dragonheart;23435611]i agree with u bro[/QUOTE]
Bro,
Airwolf’s msg is 15 years old. He responded to my first post on picking up KTV girls outside KTVs. He was ’not successful.’ I hope he has improved and is now a girl whisperer.
Not a customer? Tell her you are waiting for a friend, or you will book her another time.
I was a newbie then. My initial results? It was hit-and-miss. I have come a long way since.
As they say, it’s not where you start, it’s where you finish that counts. Never be discouraged because anyone can improve.
I have chronicled my enjoyable journey since 2009 in this thread. I have learned so much from everyone and from SBF.
Thank you!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
JoesephGoh
Recall my first time in ktv, was so gan jiong when the girl unzipped my jeans …. but that was good memories!
Bro,
You must have improved a lot since then. Pls share your exploits with us.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good afternoon,
I want to thank everyone who has contributed to this thread since its inception in June 2009, even to the naysayers and those who ridiculed my writings and hypotheses.
The negative posts have helped me immensely. They kept me on my feet, and I had introspection and soul-searching about my methods and ‘success.’
The legendary Fan Li is my role model. Remember the story of King Fuchai, the beautiful Xi Shi, and slave Fan Li? How did the slave get the beautiful girl? Ponder on this for a while.
Your support and encouragement are the rocket fuel that enables me to improve and extend the life of this thread.
Cheers!
Bro WB