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She feels underappreciated, neglected, or ignored by her boyfriend/husband.
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She craves intimacy and connection that she’s not getting from her guy (kissing, cuddling, actual conversation.)
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She’s bored or lonely or depressed in her current situation.
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She doesn’t feel WANTED or APPRECIATED.
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She’s got all of her self worth and self esteem wrapped up in being sexually attractive to men.
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Originally Posted by
bondage
One should be comfortable with himself.
Jealousy is what ppl have but you don’t want them to have.
Envy is what ppl have you also want to have.
Generally the first is a negative destructive energy.
The second can be a positive energy.
Tks, bro.
Yes, you’re right.
However, I’m not sure about the differences between jealousy and envy in the context of a romantic or marital relationship.
Would you like to elaborate?
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Originally Posted by
yellowpostbox
Excellent thread bro warbird, many things to learn from you!
Bro, tks.
Cheers to all samsters,
Bro WB
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From another thread:
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Originally Posted by
Banaber
this struck me hard. jealousy ate me up for a couple of girls i had. skimmed through this thread and took notes haaa. thank you sensei!
Bro, tks.
It has happened to me before.
Some scientists believe ‘contempt’ is the kiss of death for a relationship. Perhaps…
But jealousy is certainly not far behind.
Would a man who believes he is the prize be jealous? Of course not. If a lao po leaves him, it’s her big loss. That is the mental frame of a real MAN.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
bondage
One should be comfortable with himself.
Jealousy is what ppl have but you don’t want them to have.
Envy is what ppl have you also want to have.
Generally the first is a negative destructive energy.
The second can be a positive energy.
Tks, bro.
Yes, you’re right.
However, I’m not sure about the differences between jealousy and envy in the context of a romantic or marital relationship.
Would you like to elaborate?
Quote:
Originally Posted by
yellowpostbox
Excellent thread bro warbird, many things to learn from you!
Bro, tks.
Cheers to all samsters,
Bro WB
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From another thread:
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Banaber
this struck me hard. jealousy ate me up for a couple of girls i had. skimmed through this thread and took notes haaa. thank you sensei!
Bro, tks.
It has happened to me before.
Some scientists believe ‘contempt’ is the kiss of death for a relationship. Perhaps…
But jealousy is certainly not far behind.
Would a man who believes he is the prize be jealous? Of course not. If a lao po leaves him, it’s her big loss. That is the mental frame of a real MAN.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
bondage
Bro WB,
Jealous ppl want things to themselves and if they can’t have, they make sure that others can’t have.
Envious ppl would not do that tho they would at least want those things.
In a ’love’ triangle relationship, a jealous man can end up killing the woman when he can’t have her and he doesn’t want the guy to have her.
Both jealousy and envy are related to covetousness and greed.
Bro, tks for sharing.
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
bondage
Bro WB,
Jealous ppl want things to themselves and if they can’t have, they make sure that others can’t have.
Envious ppl would not do that tho they would at least want those things.
In a ’love’ triangle relationship, a jealous man can end up killing the woman when he can’t have her and he doesn’t want the guy to have her.
Both jealousy and envy are related to covetousness and greed.
Bro, tks for sharing.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
sanoka
Yes, keeping fingers crossed.
Thanks for an excellent thread bro warbird
Thanks, bro.
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Good evening to all samsters,
I recently received the newsletter from an old friend on
Why Women Cheat….
Hey, it’s Mike Fiore…
And welcome to your weekly newsletter.
In this week’s issue, I’m going to talk about the psychological triggers that make women willing to cheat even on men they truly do love . . (yikes!)
Ernest asks:
“She’s someone else’s girlfriend. We’ve been hanging out for almost six months and I am so craving to fuck her. I told her how I FEEL about her but…She won’t give me SOME. WHAT DO I DO TO GET HER IN BED?” —Ernest
Hey Ernest… Man, I can practically SEE your blue balls through the computer screen. You should get those looked at.
More seriously though, I know where you’re coming from. We’ve all been in that situation where the unattainable women drive us to crazy frenzy and TYPING IN ALL CAPS to relationship experts online.
It’s MADDENING.
She’s with another guy (maybe even a buddy of yours) but when you see her she gives you those “bedroom eyes” and you feel like you’re about to burst through your pants.
And when she catches you looking . . . catches you NEEDING her she gets this coy smile on her face that feel from your nose to your balls and you just want to GRAB her and TAKE her right then and there.
But you don’t because . . .well, because that’s a really horrible, horrible idea.
Anyway, let’s talk about WHY women DO cheat in relationships, why she hasn’t (and probably won’t) ever hopped into bed with you, and what you should actually do about it.
So . . .
Why Women Cheat . . .
Really quickly it’s important to understand that even though men have the reputation for being more unfaithful, men and women actually cheat at roughly the exact same ratio.
Women are just BETTER at cheating than men are, take more precautions, and get caught a LOT less often.
Now, when a guy cheats it’s USUALLY just blunt, crazy lust or the option to have a new woman after being in a monogamous thing for a while.
But women are more complicated (duh.)
When a woman cheats on a guy it’s because . . .
See what’s not in the top five? “Because she’s horny.”
That happens, but it’s actually pretty rare.
So Why Hasn’t this woman slept with YOU (and why is she probably NEVER going to sleep with you?)
Because she’s playing with you like a sexy cat with a ball of string. (Duh.)
From the sounds of things you’re giving her exactly what she wants . . . attention and a self-esteem boost and a feeling of POWER.
She’s getting off on being WANTED so badly by you (and why wouldn’t she?)
And if you’ve been doing this for 6 freaking months the likelihood of her ever-changing her mind and dragging you into a closet is pretty much nil.
In general, women make an unconscious decision about whether they would EVER sleep with a guy within about 15 seconds of meeting him.
And your 15 seconds were a LONG time ago.
And telling her how you FEEL was . . . well, it wasn’t smart.
So What Do You Do?
Well, I talk about this in “Make Her Beg To Be Your Girlfriend” but you flip the switch . . .
You STOP giving her compliments. You STOP staring at her like a tiger looking at steak.
You STOP hitting on her or coming on to her in any way. Without saying a damned word about it you put her FIRMLY in the “Friend Zone,” talk to her about the other girls you’re with (even ask for her advice), and move the hell on.
If she’s as low self-esteem as it sounds that’ll have a devastating effect on her.
But who cares about that . . . it’s mostly just good for YOU to stop obsessing about the unattainable woman and move on with your life.
And hell, even if she DOES show up at your door wearing nothing but a raincoat and a quivering “like me” smile, you’re better off turning her down.
Being “the other guy” is bad mojo and ethically a bad idea anyway.
Move on, man. Move on. She’s not worth it. (Even if she does have breasts like pointy, firm cakes.)
Best
Any comments?
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good evening,
I just received this interesting email from Allen:
Why Second Dates Are Usually a BAD Idea
The title is slightly misleading. Here is the email.
Don Juan,
When you go on a date with a woman…
Your PRIMARY goal is not to attract her and to impress her and to make her want you.
That is your secondary goal.
Your primary goal is to SCREEN and QUALIFY and ELIMINATE.
You want to find out (as soon as possible) if this particular girl is worth spending your valuable time with.
Now most girls are awesome. Most girls are fun. And most girls are beautiful (in their own particular way).
But…
If you date a lot, you will most likely discover that you are NOT all that compatible with most girls.
And you need to find this out ASAP so you can stop wasting time.
Sure, you can FORCE the attraction, you can force the chemistry, you can force the relationship. You can use all the tricks and tips and techniques you learn here to MAKE her want you, to make her chase you, to make her fall in love with you.
But if your goal is to find an amazing girl that you have great natural chemistry with… someone you might want to spend the rest of your life with…
Then you need to balance the process of ATTRACTING her with the process of SCREENING her.
So this means:
You should be meeting tons of women and going on a lot of FIRST dates… but not that many SECOND dates.
And not because the girl blows you off when you ask her out again.
But because you realize that you and she are not right for one another romantically.
In those cases, you should stick her in the your friendzone and use her to increase the size of your social circle.
The irony, of course, is that sticking her in your friendzone will most likely make her want you even more.
Good luck!
Allen
Yes, when you see a very cute girl of your type, you should qualify her to see if she is good enough for you.
Unfortunately, most men worry about whether they are good enough for such an attractive girl. Completely wrong mental frame!! No wonder they are perennial losers with very beautiful girls.
Yes, cute girls like in this video. I need to qualify them. Perhaps only one of them is good enough.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Cheesetouch
So can still screen via dates and still fuck right?
Sure, why not?
Good evening,
I have not been to a KTV or nightclub for almost two yrs now. The only exception was my brief visit to Dynasty in early 2021 to celebrate the business success of two friends.
I’m doing fine as I still have my two LPs in SG. My quality of life would be lower without them.
Some of my kaki still go to “bistro” or club to makan n drink. You could book a girl/woman to sit with you. The going rates are $300/500! The ‘standard’ ST rates are 1.5/2.0K.
The problem is that you have to prebook the “girls.” And almost all of them are plastic women or old aunties. Definitely not my type. It’s good for gerontophiles.
These outrageous prices are due to a severe imbalance between supply and demand. Too many hungry n sex-starved men and too few women.
Hopefully, this is going to change soon, with the opening up of our borders.
And I like to see a bevy of cute n natural SYTs lining up for me, just like the good old days, instead of the usual plastic women n old aunties.
Bros, don’t we all deserve younger n prettier women?? Unless you’re a gerontophile.
The damage for booking and ST could also drop substantially.
However, this may take a while because the passport n customs officers in China dissuade all girls from going overseas. Definitely no tourism. Even those going to study and work are discouraged. Several girls have told me.
I can’t help but reflect on the good old days.
When I first started going to TAM/LV in 2009, ST was $300-500 for young women and SYTs. A little lower if you met the same girls at Dynasty. In contrast, now just booking a plastic woman or aunty to sit with u will cost the same as ST of a much prettier n younger SYT in 2009!!
I had met several $100 GL streetwalkers at TAM/LV in 2009. They increased their ST to $300-500!!
“Location, location, location” is not limited to real estate investing. THE location where u first meet your dream girl is just as important.
Another factor is TIMING.
Let me give u an example. If a man was lucky, he could hv met Norma Jeane Mortenson when she was 16. She would be thrilled to let him have her pussy for $10. If he had met her 10 yrs later, when she was known as Marilyn Monroe, he won’t be able to see the color of her panties even if he offered $10,000!
Likewise, many PRC “singers” who had made big bucks in SG were cheap hoes back home when they were much younger.
Yet, many local men would get into “flower war” to win their pussies. It’s inexplicable and really pathetic.
I suppose the winner of the ‘war" would get a rare boost to his fragile ego. In that sense it’s priceless…
But a man’s self-esteem and his masculine value shouldn’t be dependent on any external factors. It must come from within…
Your comments will be appreciated.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good evening!
Is anyone getting C positive? Get well soon!
I was in a doc chat grp n someone raised the question of sudden death after COVID infection. Many causes of sudden death. Any viral infections could cause it. But stress and/or unaccustomed n strenuous physical exertion could be a cause.
I then mentioned the tragic case of Godfrey Gao.
https://mustsharenews.com/godfrey-ga...orking-stress/
Godfrey was 35. Height 6'5" (1.95m). He was a handsome devil. Appeared very fit and healthy too.
In my younger yrs I thought I had to be very tall and very handsome to deserve the prettiest SYT. Looking like Godfrey Gao would have been a dream for me (well, not anymore).
It was a self-fulfilling prophecy. I was never able to get the type of girls I wanted until I knew what masculine attributes were really attractive to girls/women, in the primitive parts of their brains.
I was a failure with women. I was frustrated and desperate. I tried to improve every which way. I made the discovery after a lot of reading n research. But I had doubts initially. Knowing and doing are different. Doing and being are different too.
My preconceived bias and beliefs in my subconscious mind were sabotaging me. I knew I had to remove all the negativities which had been deeply ingrained in my brain.
Reprogramming my subconscious mind has been a slow and arduous journey. I’m making steady progress…
BTW, I don’t feel jealous or insecure if a guy like Godfrey or any other man becomes very attracted to a LP or a ‘dream girl.’
Why? I behave as if 100 very cute SYTs are calling me and wanting to fxxk me every day…
That is an extremely masculine mental frame and the only right mindset.
BTW, very tall people usually have a shorter life expectancy.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good evening!
Is anyone getting C positive? Get well soon!
I was in a doc chat grp n someone raised the question of sudden death after COVID infection. Many causes of sudden death. Any viral infections could cause it. But stress and/or unaccustomed n strenuous physical exertion could be a cause.
I then mentioned the tragic case of Godfrey Gao.
https://mustsharenews.com/godfrey-ga...orking-stress/
Godfrey was 35. Height 6'5" (1.95m). He was a handsome devil. Appeared very fit and healthy too.
In my younger yrs I thought I had to be very tall and very handsome to deserve the prettiest SYT. Looking like Godfrey Gao would have been a dream for me (well, not anymore).
It was a self-fulfilling prophecy. I was never able to get the type of girls I wanted until I knew what masculine attributes were really attractive to girls/women, in the primitive parts of their brains.
I was a failure with women. I was frustrated and desperate. I tried to improve every which way. I made the discovery after a lot of reading n research. But I had doubts initially. Knowing and doing are different. Doing and being are different too.
My preconceived bias and beliefs in my subconscious mind were sabotaging me. I knew I had to remove all the negativities which had been deeply ingrained in my brain.
Reprogramming my subconscious mind has been a slow and arduous journey. I’m making steady progress…
BTW, I don’t feel jealous or insecure if a guy like Godfrey or any other man becomes very attracted to a LP or a ‘dream girl.’
Why? I behave as if 100 very cute SYTs are calling me and wanting to fxxk me every day…
That is an extremely masculine mental frame and the only right mindset.
BTW, very tall people usually have a shorter life expectancy.
Cheers!
Bro WB