Good evening,
My post tonight, in another thread.
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Originally Posted by
naan1974
As much as i agreed as i read alone, then again how to quantify this statement
“I believe that most women will only retain enough adhesive to sleep with between one to five men in their lives before irreparably damaging their ability to love any man” is this an opinion ? or are there empirical stats to quantify it?
Good evening,
“The Rule of Five’ was Mr. Roosh’s tenet based on his experiences n observations.
https://www.rooshv.com/contraception-prevents-love
I couldn’t agree with him more. I hv reached a very similar conclusion after analyzing ALL my sexual encounters n relationships, and those of everyone I hv ever known. I hv also pondered on the sexual relationships as described in all the publications n news I hv read since I was a teenager. And many stories I hv heard.
The number 5 is only a rule of thumb, a rough estimate, and it could be 3-4 for some n 6-7 for others. A girl loses more glue with every new man.
Every girl is different. Some heterosexual virgin may never love a man.
In fact, many believe that a woman ONLY truly loves her son, unconditionally. Just like your mom is the ONLY woman who truly n unconditionally loves you. A few moms don’t even love their sons.
I must admit that there are very rare exceptions. But how do you prove that a woman truly loves a man?
How do you quantify love?
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
bondage
Bro WB
Occurs to me - practice makes perfect, use it or lose it.
It’s all about skills and habits including the heart, mind and body, to achieve a decent level of internalizarion or mastery.
Bro,
I couldn’t agree with u more.
As they say, USE IT OR LOSE IT.
Love-making can be as strenuous as you want it to be. My HR has reached over 150/min during vigorous sex. Good cardio. My resting HR is around 58.
After every COVID jab, I had refrained from strenuous activities for 3 weeks. I just let my LPs be on top, both cowgirl and reverse cowgirl. It was very satisfying too.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
bondage
Bro WB
Occurs to me - practice makes perfect, use it or lose it.
It’s all about skills and habits including the heart, mind and body, to achieve a decent level of internalizarion or mastery.
Bro,
I couldn’t agree with u more.
As they say, USE IT OR LOSE IT.
Love-making can be as strenuous as you want it to be. My HR has reached over 150/min during vigorous sex. Good cardio. My resting HR is around 58.
After every COVID jab, I had refrained from strenuous activities for 3 weeks. I just let my LPs be on top, both cowgirl and reverse cowgirl. It was very satisfying too.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
bondage
You are like Frequent Flyer
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Originally Posted by
hare2023
With many air miles too
Bros, tks.
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Originally Posted by
thor1981
Dear Bro WB,
Did you notice any change in HR after the jabs? Or in performance?
And pls could you advise what is LP?
Roosh V and C Sledge, both great authors.
Cheers!
Thor
Dear bro Thor, tks.
I hv not had any changes in my HR or performance after my jabs.
LP = lao po 老婆
Roosh is a bit controversial. Charles Sledge is a friend
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Originally Posted by
naan1974
this part i agreed 100% . proven with affirmation.
All wives and GF love however intense are all conditional
which will disappear without the slightest trace once the
conditions all no longer in existence.
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Originally Posted by
Cowell
Very well said
Bros, tks.
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Good evening to all samsters,
I like to share this brief article.
Why You Should Never Marry a Woman That You Are “In Love” With
by Aristotle the Hun
My main purpose is to warn the many eager men that what they are so eager for might become the worst thing that ever happened to them.
There are a number of mental health problems that occur in women more frequently than men. For example, Bipolar Disorder sufferers are 75% female. Several other personality disorders as well as depression are primarily female problems.
Here is the warning:
“Love” has the ability to mask serious mental health problems. When the love wears off, the problems become obvious and you end up sharing life with the Wicked Witch of the West.
Never marry anyone you are in love with.
Wait until the “high” wears off so you have a better chance to know what you are getting into.
I couldn’t agree with him more.
Just to be fair, a young woman should not marry a man with whom she is deeply in love.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
bondage
You are like Frequent Flyer
Quote:
Originally Posted by
hare2023
With many air miles too
Bros, tks.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
thor1981
Dear Bro WB,
Did you notice any change in HR after the jabs? Or in performance?
And pls could you advise what is LP?
Roosh V and C Sledge, both great authors.
Cheers!
Thor
Dear bro Thor, tks.
I hv not had any changes in my HR or performance after my jabs.
LP = lao po 老婆
Roosh is a bit controversial. Charles Sledge is a friend
Quote:
Originally Posted by
naan1974
this part i agreed 100% . proven with affirmation.
All wives and GF love however intense are all conditional
which will disappear without the slightest trace once the
conditions all no longer in existence.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Cowell
Very well said
Bros, tks.
…………………………………..
Good evening to all samsters,
I like to share this brief article.
Why You Should Never Marry a Woman That You Are “In Love” With
by Aristotle the Hun
My main purpose is to warn the many eager men that what they are so eager for might become the worst thing that ever happened to them.
There are a number of mental health problems that occur in women more frequently than men. For example, Bipolar Disorder sufferers are 75% female. Several other personality disorders as well as depression are primarily female problems.
Here is the warning:
“Love” has the ability to mask serious mental health problems. When the love wears off, the problems become obvious and you end up sharing life with the Wicked Witch of the West.
Never marry anyone you are in love with.
Wait until the “high” wears off so you have a better chance to know what you are getting into.
I couldn’t agree with him more.
Just to be fair, a young woman should not marry a man with whom she is deeply in love.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good evening,
I’m not apologetic for simultaneously keeping 2-3 SYTs/young women of my type as my LPs since 2009 despite my advanced age.
It has definitely made me a happy and satisfied man. It has been great for my health: Mental, physical, sexual, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual. I have also learned a lot from my girls.
In return, I have always made sure I leave my LPs much better than I found them.
Here is a recent epidemiological study on men who are ‘unlucky’ in love.
https://valleynewstoday.com/lifestyl...15ca0f05e.html
Unlucky in Love? It Can Damage Men’s Health, Study Finds
Cara Murez Jan 11, 2022 Updated Jan 11, 2022
TUESDAY, Jan. 11, 2022 - (HealthDay News) – Men who are broken-hearted or just unlucky in love could be more likely to have health-damaging inflammation, new research suggests.
Serious breakups and solo living for many years may increase the risk of ill health and death — but apparently only for men, according to the researchers behind a new Danish study.
“Small numbers of breakups or years lived alone is not in itself a risk of poor health,” the study authors noted.
But the combination of long-term solitary living and multiple failed relationships is shown to affect levels of two inflammatory markers significantly, the investigators found.
The research team, which included Rikke Lund and Dr. Karolina Koch Davidsen, both from the University of Copenhagen department of social medicine, used data from the Copenhagen Aging and Midlife Biobank for over 4,800 participants (aged 48 to 62) between 1986 and 2011. This data included information on serial partnership breakups supplied by most of the participants and the number of years lived alone supplied by all participants.
Information also included educational attainment, early major life events that might have an impact on health, weight, long-term health conditions, medicines that can affect inflammation and personality traits.
Blood samples measured the inflammatory markers interleukin 6 (IL-6) and C-reactive protein (CRP). ( Warbird: Actually, it’s hsCRP or high sensitivity CRP).
About half the participants had experienced a partnership break-up, and a similar percentage had lived alone for more than one year, according to the report published online Jan. 10 in the Journal of Epidemiology & Community Health.
The highest levels of inflammatory markers in men were found in those who had experienced the most partnership breakups. They had 17% higher levels of inflammatory markers than those in the comparison group.
Inflammatory markers were up to 12% higher in the group who had spent seven or more years living alone. The highest levels for CRP were found in men with high educational attainment who had lived alone for two to six years. For IL-6, the top levels were in men who had spent seven or more years living alone.
No such associations were found among women, according to the report.
That may be partly explained by the inclusion of just 1,499 women in the study, but the authors also suggested that men tend to externalize their behavior following a partnership breakup, by drinking, for example, whereas women tend to internalize, having depressive symptoms. This may influence inflammatory levels differently.
The team also pointed out that participants had an average age of 54, when the consequences of exposure to inflammatory chemicals have not yet peaked. Men also generate stronger inflammatory responses than women of the same age, the team pointed out in a journal news release.
However, immune system competence wanes with age, which can lead to the systemic low-grade inflammation associated with diseases such as cancer, cardiovascular disease and type 2 diabetes, the researchers said.
“The levels of inflammation in our study are low, but they are also significant, clinically relevant, and most likely a risk factor for increased mortality,” the study authors explained. There are “notable numbers of people living with low-level inflammation,” they added.
“Since the number of one-person households has been increasing throughout the past 50 to 60 years in most high-income countries, this group of people going through relationship breakups, or who are living on their own for different reasons, are part of at-risk groups,” the study authors said.
More information
The U.S. National Cancer Institute has more on chronic inflammation.
SOURCE: Journal of Epidemiology & Community Health, news release, Jan. 10, 2022
Any comments?
Unlucky in love? Improve yourself relentlessly. Become awesome with women. Become the top 1% of men. Aim to become the top 0.1% of men.
Now you know why I like long-term relationships with pretty SYTs/young women of my type. My health depends on it. It’s a matter of life and death.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
bondage
Bro WB,
Men seems to be the weaker sex literally here. Mitochondria in our cells actually come from the mother.
“Unlucky in love” does not seem to apply because so much is actually in our hands.
I learnt the importance of 4 Chinese words from my fav ML today who gives me very good manhood therapy. The words are 正常幸福。
Our attitude in life must be to treat the unwelcome, negatives,unpleasant as 正常, and to learn to identify and treasure the things that bring us 幸福。
So here in relationships and expressing love towards the girls we like, we must be able to connect with them in ways that are fulfilling and enjoyable (幸福), and handle and respond to the unpleasant (正常).
This requires the right disposition and skills (verbal, emotional, physical, etc). This doesn’t require luck on a daily basis. It’s about how we treat ourselves and the girls in the context of this thread (though it’s a narrow coverage). If more of them have this 正常幸福 attitude aside from the profit motive, life would be even more enjoyable.
Bro, tks for your excellent post and advice.
Men and women are very different. Are men really the weaker sex? It depends on your definition of ‘weaker sex."
Yes, every encounter is a learning experience.
Your mental frame or mindset is the most important determinant of your happiness and ‘success.’
Happiness comes from within you and has nothing to do with any external factors, persons, or circumstances.
Accept whatever is happening to you at this moment. Be relaxed, self-assured, happy, thankful, and at peace NOW.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
bondage
Bro WB,
Men seems to be the weaker sex literally here. Mitochondria in our cells actually come from the mother.
“Unlucky in love” does not seem to apply because so much is actually in our hands.
I learnt the importance of 4 Chinese words from my fav ML today who gives me very good manhood therapy. The words are 正常幸福。
Our attitude in life must be to treat the unwelcome, negatives,unpleasant as 正常, and to learn to identify and treasure the things that bring us 幸福。
So here in relationships and expressing love towards the girls we like, we must be able to connect with them in ways that are fulfilling and enjoyable (幸福), and handle and respond to the unpleasant (正常).
This requires the right disposition and skills (verbal, emotional, physical, etc). This doesn’t require luck on a daily basis. It’s about how we treat ourselves and the girls in the context of this thread (though it’s a narrow coverage). If more of them have this 正常幸福 attitude aside from the profit motive, life would be even more enjoyable.
Bro, tks for your excellent post and advice.
Men and women are very different. Are men really the weaker sex? It depends on your definition of ‘weaker sex."
Yes, every encounter is a learning experience.
Your mental frame or mindset is the most important determinant of your happiness and ‘success.’
Happiness comes from within you and has nothing to do with any external factors, persons, or circumstances.
Accept whatever is happening to you at this moment. Be relaxed, self-assured, happy, thankful, and at peace NOW.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good evening to all samsters,
I just received the following interesting email.
She Will Test Your Nerve
by Joseph
What are women attracted to?
I think it can be summarized in one word…
NERVE.
Nerve means:
courage
steadfastness
calmness under pressure
audacity
self-control
boldness
and a willingness to take risks
Just think to yourself how hard it is when you tell yourself “I must be confident.”
Confidence is a positive expectation of success.
But, approaching a woman, making a move of any sort, is always a risk.
It always entails some degree of uncertainty.
You simply can’t know what she will do. All you can do is make sure that you make as good a pick as possible, and give it your best.
Phony confidence is often kidding yourself that you can tell the future. You can’t. It’s always a risk.
But, that’s just it…
Women want a man who is prepared to take a risk.
A man with nerve.
How else can she know if he is for real?
Look around the animal kingdom. Females choose males that will take risks, that have nerve. Females choose bold males, males willing to risk standing out and being vulnerable (to danger).
To understand why this is, go to your library and find a book by A. Zahavi called “The Handicap Principle.”
One of the themes of this book is that…
Females face the problem of deciding which males are for real, and which are bluffing.
In humans, this means, among other things, which males will be dependable and which are mere users.
The only way to sort out the bluffers from the rest is to test them by demanding that they pay some cost or take some risk that a bluffer can’t pay (a “handicap”).
In simple terms, females test your nerve.
It may help you to keep your nerve by realizing why they must do this.
A woman that had sex indiscriminately would end up pregnant and alone (a nightmare!). She would be used and trashed by all sorts of men.
Therefore she has to have some way of sorting out the genuine suitors from the potential users.
Knowing this may help you not to take her tests personally.
And realize why it is vital for her to do this (and vital for the reproduction of the species, for, in short, the welfare of babies).
But (I hear you say), when I genuinely care about a girl, she rejects me because I come on strong and fail to be a challenge.
Well, think about it. Anyone can come on strong early. It is cheap, it pays no cost, takes no risk, spends no precious time.
It indicates that you, in your need and indiscrimination…
Have latched onto her out of desperation.
And what this means is that once your lust is sated, you may tire of her.
The truth is, when you come on strong, she has no way of knowing if you will be dependable.
If on the other hand you show her persistent attention without coming on strong, and over a period of time, it shows her that you are willing to take the time (pay the cost) necessary to get close to her.
But that takes nerve.
She’ll test you to see if you’ll break into a tantrum…
Or if you’ll chicken out and start avoiding her…
Or if you’ll get petulant when she pretends not to see you…
Or to see if you’ll start pretending that you aren’t really attracted to her (to guard yourself against getting hurt, i.e., losing your nerve)…
And so on.
You’ve got to keep your nerve. Don’t lose it in any fashion.
Just keep on being pleasantly attentive to her and gradually upping the ante, but without chasing her and being needy.
Write it on a piece of cardboard.
Put it in your shirt pocket.
Take it out to read it when she does something unexpected that upsets you…
DON’T LOSE YOUR NERVE!
Yes, all girls/women are most attracted to a man’s masculine character traits and his emotional mastery/strength.
Be fearless (but not foolhardy) and stay calm…
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
thor1981
Dear Bro WB,
These are both incredible insightful articles.
After my first major breakup in 2016, I literally had heart pain 24/7 but no health indicators of a problem. Then one Doc told me about broken heart syndrome. All heart pain disappeared when I met my next gf, and then having a long term relationship and people at home, always helped me stay at peace.
And the NERVE - yes, great advice. Women aren’t testing men to be mean, it’s their way of generating attraction. Use it, don’t be scared!
All Bros - don’t isolate yourself, stay connected to people.
Thanks Bro WB for these great insights.
T.
Tks, bro,
You have made my day!
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Originally Posted by
georgie1994
i usually catch girl in sugarbook.live, which is my favourite, i will daily sexting her
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Originally Posted by
georgie1994
cannot deny most girls nowadays are so materealistic
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Originally Posted by
georgie1994
try to do something that your gals love, if your girl loves romantic, brings her to the dining restaurant
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Originally Posted by
georgie1994
any good idea on managing the situation?
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Originally Posted by
bondage
Nowadays I seldom encounter situations like bad vibes.
Even if I don’t feel the girl is really my type, I would generally go in and generate better vibes.
If it’s really bad vibes, like cannot have eye contact or establish or achieve mutually pleasing progress, I would back out. It becomes a one off. The girl is not of the right disposition or type.
Sometimes it’s unpleasant. No love lost. It’s rare.
Otherwise the key is good vibes that can be picked up by the girl. She will respond. Sometimes she feeds back to me. It will be mutually pleasing.
Speaking from experience. Of course, I don’t have a monopoly on each and every girl, so I would like to think any girl is not exclusive to me. The magic is to enjoy every moment possible with each girl whenever old or and new experiences emerge. Like being invited to be showered or spontaneously given a lap dance by her after some sharing from her. When the magic is lost, then move on. Sometimes the contact is just lost, to my regret. Vanilla ones are not worth cultivating, so off my list. Sometimes the ones I don’t really like but they still offer no resistance, I can take it since I already know what I want at that time.
Tks for posting and sharing.
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Good evening,
Wishing you and your family a happy and blessed Lunar New Year 2022!
Huat Ah!
Bro WB