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Originally Posted by
Earnestball
Bro WB,
If I may add - self assured, peace of mind, giving, not exploitative, making them feel they can trust you.
It’s all in the mind and playing with their minds with enough sincerity. True power.
Bro, tks for your post.
Yes, self-assuredness is more than just self-confidence. My two Nanjing women like to say 要很笃定，很冷静 or very self-assured and very calm, coolheaded and imperturbable, no matter what happens.
Peace of mind and tranquility are also vital. Yes, especially in life and death situations. That is when we can separate a real MAN from tens of thousands of little men/boys. Unlike in ordinary circumstances when a man may be able to fake it.
Don’t forget to be ASSERTIVE, but not aggressive. Be dominant, not domineering. Be in control, not controlling. Big difference. Very big difference.
All of the above are results of a MAN’s awesome emotional strength and self-mastery at the subconscious level.
Be fearless. Like a zen master.
Yes, in the last many yrs, I hv also alluded to the importance of generosity, empathy, compassion, kindness, loyalty, responsibility, reliability, and trustworthiness. A man’s word is his bond.
I hv also stressed the importance of giving unconditionally. See my post on the highest form of love between a woman and a man.
Last not but not least, a MAN should think and behave like the prize from the first second he meets his dream girl until the last second he is with her.
If you have ALL the masculine character traits I have mentioned here and in my previous post, do you think you will have any competition in getting your dream girl? Unless she is a psychopathic gold digger.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Earnestball
Nicely replied, Bro WB.
I think it also obliges the man to discern the woman accurately.
Bro,
You have made my night!
Yes, must choose a girl with intelligence and good character if you want her to be a long-term partner.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Earnestball
Nicely replied, Bro WB.
I think it also obliges the man to discern the woman accurately.
Bro,
You have made my night!
Yes, must choose a girl with intelligence and good character if you want her to be a long-term partner.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning,
IMHO, extremely few attractive and cute SYTs of my type from PRC will be coming to Singapore after the pandemic. Actually, there has been a dearth of these highly desirable girls since 2016.
Sadly, we will be getting only plastic women/aunties and very old aunties.
Unless the very attractive young woman knows you very well and wants to be your long-term sexual partner, she won’t come here. If you do happen to see one, you can be certain that she is the GF, lao po or mistress of another man here.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
SBMEDSUP
There is basically no nightlife in Singapore so how to get pretty gals coming?
Bro, very difficult.
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Originally Posted by
DifficultYear
When there’s a will, there’s a way.
Great thread bro warbird!
Yes, bro.
There are ways, we just need to look a lot harder and leave no stone unturned.
Cheers to all bros,
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
SBMEDSUP
There is basically no nightlife in Singapore so how to get pretty gals coming?
Bro, very difficult.
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Originally Posted by
DifficultYear
When there’s a will, there’s a way.
Great thread bro warbird!
Yes, bro.
There are ways, we just need to look a lot harder and leave no stone unturned.
Cheers to all bros,
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
SammyLee88
when i was in sugarbook.live, those guys love to tackle me after like my video, will start asking for my facebook and wechat account to get connected. If they guy is ok, i will give them too
Hi Sammy,
Thanks for the post.
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Originally Posted by
SammyLee88
when i was in sugarbook.live, those guys love to tackle me after like my video, will start asking for my facebook and wechat account to get connected. If they guy is ok, i will give them too
Hi Sammy,
Thanks for the post.
Good afternoon,
I received the following from Mike Haines several days ago. He is a red pill man and I don’t always agree with his frames, methods, and actions, but this narrative is interesting and it illustrates some of his masculine character traits.
It also caught my attention because he approached an 18 yo girl n he used terms such as unconscious incompetence and unconscious competence, which I have alluded to a few times in this thread. Mike is 30 and he thinks he is old for an 18 yo SYT? Wait till he is an ah pek and then it would be a true litmus test of his masculine strength and emotional mastery.
I have done minimal editing to make it more readable.
Warbird,
Last Saturday afternoon I was sitting around at home bored.
Nightclubs still aren’t in Dublin yet, and I’ve quit online dating, so I have very little to do.
So I went out.
Not to get girls.
(Which I’m trying to avoid right now, for the purposes of spiritual growth.)
But simply to have an adventure.
So anyway, I had a couple of drinks and walked into the city.
There was a massive “bloc party” type thing going on.
Lots of hot chicks around…
I’m walking through the street and I see a rapturously beautiful girl leaning against the wall talking on her phone.
She’s young, small, blonde, with long tanned legs, wearing Air Force 1s and a short so skirt it barely covers her panties.
I walked past her.
A few yards away, I turned back to look at her. She looks at me and then looks away.
Fuck.
OK… ok… fine.
I walk back there, slowly, not looking at her.
Then when I’m a few feet away from her I hold out my hand.
She looks at me but she’s still on the phone.
“Hi, I’m Michael.”
“Hi…”
She puts the phone away immediately.
We get to talking and I sit down beside her.
Turns out she’s 18.
I tell her I’m 30, but she doesn’t seem to mind.
I start teasing her.
She says something (I can’t remember what), and I use it as an excuse to do a take-away.
I make a “weirded out” face and get up as if to leave. “Well, anyway, I gotta go…”
“Shut up!!” she smacks me, grinning.
I’m standing in front of her now.
I get her to stand up and hug me as if I’m about to leave.
We hug… I look into her eyes…
Pupils are massive, big goofy grin = green light.
I kiss her and she kisses me back hungrily.
Her lips are warm and sweet.
I explore her body with my hands.
Her ass is perfect.
So tight and round and perky.
We go off together and get lost in the night…
Not bad for the first cold approach in weeks.
It used to be that I would need a massive state of “momentum” to approach a girl this hot.
And even if I could approach without momentum, I wouldn’t be able to escalate.
But this was SMOOTH.
No momentum is needed.
No buildup.
No fake confidence.
Hadn’t cold approached a girl in maybe 6 weeks.
Hadn’t even spoken to another human being in 7 days.
Walk outside…
See a 9/10…
Approach…
Chat…
Kiss within 3 minutes…
Pull.
SMOOTH.
Effortless.
Natural.
Not trying to do anything.
No desire for any particular outcome.
Happy if she wants to talk to me.
Happy if she does not.
This is the kind of thing you can expect when you get good at this.
It goes from:
Unconscious incompetence
to
Conscious incompetence
to
Conscious competence
and finally to…
Unconscious competence.
That’s the sweet spot.
And that’s the end result of learning this or any other skill.
It becomes programmed into your muscle memory and reflexes so that you can do it without even thinking about it…
And without strenuous effort…
Without fear…
Without lust of result.
Talking to girls may be hard when you’re starting out.
It might seem like you’re fighting an uphill struggle to remember to do 13 different things, and it’s just too complex.
But like anything else, it becomes more and more effortless over time.
Everything is hard before it’s easy.
Yup, he was smooth and he didn’t give two hoots about the outcome.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good evening,
Mr. Mike Haines just sent me a new email.
His methods may work well with many heterosexual girls/women because they don’t have a choice. A bad boy or jerk is more attractive than a wussy nice guy. But I know these females will flock to a real badass gentleman, provided they are lucky enough to find one. Sadly, 99.9% of them will never meet one in their entire life. Now you know why so many women are frustrated and bitchy.
Here is Mike’s email.
Bro Warbird,
How to tease a woman into a SEXUAL FRENZY
….
Never apologize. Never explain.
These lines are spoken by John Wayne’s character in the1949 film She Wore a Yellow Ribbon
They are words to live by.
Whatever you may think of Trump, even his harshest critics now realize that his refusal to apologize — even when he made clear mistakes — was one of the reasons he won the election.
People are sick and tired of cowardly leaders (in business and politics) who will apologize for anything and everything.
It just breeds resentment.
When Trump refused to apologize for anything, it was refreshing to people.
“Here is a man who won’t be pushed around easily — even when he’s in the wrong!”
This is attractive to people.
Apologizing is an easy way to “defuse” a situation..
But it also shows WEAKNESS.
Namely, it shows that you’re willing to lose face in order to take the “easy” way out of a crisis — and this is innately a bitch move.
Never apologize to women — even when you’re clearly in the wrong.
No woman wakes up and thinks, “You know what I really want? A man who knows how to apologize to me.”
I can assure you that when women are masturbating with their vibrators, they’re not thinking about a man apologizing to them.
They’re thinking about a man grabbing them by the throat and fucking them like they’re a cheap whore.
Give her the GIFT of being the kind of man who she’s EXCITED by… sexually and emotionally.
Men will apologize to women thinking they’re someone doing her a “favor” — when in fact it’s the opposite.
All you’re really doing is destroying her FANTASY of you and making it so that she can’t get wet for you.
All demands for an apology are a SHIT TEST.
She is really trying to see if you will SUBMIT to her.
And if you do — it lets her know that you’re not the type of man she wants to reproduce with.
(Though she may stay with you to be a provider while she goes out and fucks alpha males).
It’s ok to apologize to a girl if you’re clearly wrong. Go ahead, but just say it once.
I’ll introduce Mr. Hayden soon. He is almost a badass gentleman.
Cheers!
Bro WB