Quote:
Originally Posted by
junior_cannibal
it’s a rather delicate balance between having just enough heart from being just a fucker. Once too much is involved and the RS needs to end, will be painful or might even be tragic. See so many love crime that ended up killing or injuring the partners.
Best to know what you really are seeking.
Remember, there’s no free lunch and no such thing as absolutely no string attached.
Bro,
Tks, very wise words.
There is always a significant emotional connection in any sexual relationship lasting for more than a year. One partner will end up liking or loving the other more, sometimes much more, and a breakup could be unbearable…
Yeah, if a badass gentleman is too successful with his dream girls, there will be unexpected negative consequences.
He always wants to leave them better, in as many ways as possible, than when he first met them. This could be very difficult if his dream girls are too deeply addicted to him, both sexually n emotionally.
Careful planning is needed. He should start distancing himself from her. Do it slowly and gently to lessen the impact.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
repairman
Would just like to do some sharing here.
Around 2 months back I broke off with this PRC girl that I got to know a year ago on Wechat. I believed I was a simp when I first got to know her.
When we first started, she was renting a room with a room mate, so when it came to sex she said this: 我不要去酒店，不喜欢做完事就拉裤子走人的感觉。It was a hint that she wanted her own room. So I went out to find a room for her where the owner allows friends to visit kind. After much searching manage to find. And also I helped to pay her rental. Along the way she wanted a new phone, so I bought it and also paid for the monthly phone bills. On top of that it was grocery trips and buying gold for her when she said she made a fuss that I didn’t get anything for her. Also got a ring for her. All these just for some pussy. Now looking back it was a mistake on my part. If a girl wants you, there is no need to go through all the hassle.
Bro,
Tks for sharing your experience w/ this PRC girl.
Mistake? Not if you really liked her and you have learned from the RS. Every encounter is a valuable lesson.
Many PRC girls who are in SG are very mercenary. Is the girl a WL?
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Penguin23
Some lessons needs to be learnt, just don’t make the same mistake twice.
I think there is not much sense in regret, rather than a bit of introspection to see what can be learnt from that episode. She was with you for 10 months, so that’s not too bad and I hope you had some memorable fucks in between.
Bro, I agree.
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Originally Posted by
Penguin23
$7.5K seems to be around the lowest possible minimum, that’s roughly how much I am paying as well.
S-pass is around $3000 (I pay less, but that’s quibbling just want to give some benchmark numbers)
Rental and utilities is around $1500
Allowance is around $3000 or $100 a day.
This is not luxurious by any means since a girl always likes to indulge in small things once in a while - a trip to Sephora or to someplace not expensive like Zara once a month is already $1000+, Foodpanda every now and then can add up to another $1000/month
Bro,
Your calculations are correct. I heard the market rates for full BY are much higher now. Higher damage for lower quality women. Most of these females are way too old for me to call them ‘girls.’
Quote:
Originally Posted by
junior_cannibal
To some women, especially those that are single or divorced, even some masried ones, as long as you are not single, they feel that they lose a lot or sacrifice to be with you, hence, you need to make up to them monetarily. I used to think likewise, but not anymore. We do put in feelings and effort to maintain the relationship if money has to be involved actively, why spend on one pussy when you can have variety going for the professional WL in GL?
I remembered years ago I met this lady who’s married to a Singapore man, she asked for branded gift, first a Hermes bangle, I refused, then a Bvlgari ring, I also refused, but I still scored a round with her without all these gifts. Then when she tried asking for allowance, I told her to fly her kites. For those who thought their pussies are casted with diamonds, find those Roberts who love to be chopped. Excuse me.
Bro,
Well said!
When I started BY in 2009, I was already an ah pek. I was a newbie at the time n I thought a pretty SYT aged 18-21 was a grand prize. Big mistake.
When I refused to buy expensive gifts, some of them would say, “我的青春都给你了。“ They were trying to convince me why I should buy them the gifts. In retrospect, these girls were gold diggers.
Took me many years to reprogram my NEGATIVE subconscious beliefs. It’s a totally different ball game now.
I’m the grand prize to all my dream girls, current and future, in my subconscious mind.
This is the only correct mental frame. It’s magical.
Please achieve this winning mindset, whatever it takes.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good afternoon to all samsters,
My special thanks to the following bros for such excellent n insightful posts.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
junior_cannibal
indeed. Human always have the tenancy to become possessive and obsessive, especially when feeling insecure in a relationship. Be it between lovers, parents and children, or even between BFF.
Once that happens, things become very complicated.
Yes, bro.
Human relationships are always very complicated, even between identical conjoint twins.
One reason is that most humans are selfish, insecure, jealous, fearful, and greedy.
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Originally Posted by
starbucks
Nice sharing. Care to share examples of leaving them slowly and gently? Reduce frequency of communication and meet ups till it comes natural for them to let go? Would you meet up once a while or just let it die off?
Bro,
Yes, let it die off. Also, read bro entering’s posts below.
It largely depends on the type of relationship. A legal marriage with young children would be the hardest to break up and a causal FB would be the easiest and all the others in between.
A note on RS with WLs and FLs. This should be among the easiest to part company. But, sometimes, the client or, extremely infrequently, the WL herself becomes attached emotionally n sexually. It’s usually unrequited love. It can be tragic for the client.
The situation is very different if a man and his mistress aka lao po have been together for over a year. Could be a dangerous situation for the man if he wants to dump the girl who is still addicted to him and, especially if she is a local. Much less troublesome if she is a foreigner. I have done that many times. I always leave them better than when I met them.
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Originally Posted by
SBMEDSUP
Times up just ignore all calls and blocked social apps etc.
Yeah, just go cold turkey.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
damong777
Going through a relationship at this moment. Close to 1 year already. Alot of up and down.
Now come to realise that sometimes would have to let the gal know there are others available if she do not treasure the relationship. Some gals just take one kindness for granted.
At a cross road now, have a younger nicer gal appear. Trying to make mind on how I should keep now. After 14/7 decision time.
A cool down period with gal a now. And see how gal b is before big decision.
Bro, tks for sharing.
Don’t think too much. Why can’t you keep both the old girl and the younger nicer girl? I often do that.
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Originally Posted by
entering
I would just keep both a secret from each other. In fact if I’ve 20, all 20 won’t know they have any competition at all. They’ll all think it’s exclusive.
This will help you keep your options always open especially if you’ve 100s in your Black book, you won’t scared no girl.
Also marrying, dating, sex are 3 different things. They need not be in the same person. And each need not be 1 person (except that marrying you need to watch the law, if you’re already legally married in sg).
Tks, bro.
A man is always the prize n should never have a scarcity mindset.
Yes, legal marriage, dating, and sex are very different. It’s very difficult for a man to find a girl who could fulfill all his needs.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
entering
Yes reduce frequency of communication.
Reduce meet ups.
Let it die off.
If you’re already married or in a committed relationship, breaking off from the other girl and especially if she is very attached to you, is dangerous cuz she may turn around to tell your spouse or girlfriend.
So better to let it die a “natural death”.
Also I’ve many cases as recent as last week where those that died a natural death I suddenly miss them (mostly for fucks), and re text them back. Usually about 70% will respond positively cuz you didn’t indicate a break. They most likely may miss you too.
Bro, very good advice.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good afternoon to all samsters,
My special thanks to the following bros for such excellent n insightful posts.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
junior_cannibal
indeed. Human always have the tenancy to become possessive and obsessive, especially when feeling insecure in a relationship. Be it between lovers, parents and children, or even between BFF.
Once that happens, things become very complicated.
Yes, bro.
Human relationships are always very complicated, even between identical conjoint twins.
One reason is that most humans are selfish, insecure, jealous, fearful, and greedy.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
starbucks
Nice sharing. Care to share examples of leaving them slowly and gently? Reduce frequency of communication and meet ups till it comes natural for them to let go? Would you meet up once a while or just let it die off?
Bro,
Yes, let it die off. Also, read bro entering’s posts below.
It largely depends on the type of relationship. A legal marriage with young children would be the hardest to break up and a causal FB would be the easiest and all the others in between.
A note on RS with WLs and FLs. This should be among the easiest to part company. But, sometimes, the client or, extremely infrequently, the WL herself becomes attached emotionally n sexually. It’s usually unrequited love. It can be tragic for the client.
The situation is very different if a man and his mistress aka lao po have been together for over a year. Could be a dangerous situation for the man if he wants to dump the girl who is still addicted to him and, especially if she is a local. Much less troublesome if she is a foreigner. I have done that many times. I always leave them better than when I met them.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
SBMEDSUP
Times up just ignore all calls and blocked social apps etc.
Yeah, just go cold turkey.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
damong777
Going through a relationship at this moment. Close to 1 year already. Alot of up and down.
Now come to realise that sometimes would have to let the gal know there are others available if she do not treasure the relationship. Some gals just take one kindness for granted.
At a cross road now, have a younger nicer gal appear. Trying to make mind on how I should keep now. After 14/7 decision time.
A cool down period with gal a now. And see how gal b is before big decision.
Bro, tks for sharing.
Don’t think too much. Why can’t you keep both the old girl and the younger nicer girl? I often do that.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
entering
I would just keep both a secret from each other. In fact if I’ve 20, all 20 won’t know they have any competition at all. They’ll all think it’s exclusive.
This will help you keep your options always open especially if you’ve 100s in your Black book, you won’t scared no girl.
Also marrying, dating, sex are 3 different things. They need not be in the same person. And each need not be 1 person (except that marrying you need to watch the law, if you’re already legally married in sg).
Tks, bro.
A man is always the prize n should never have a scarcity mindset.
Yes, legal marriage, dating, and sex are very different. It’s very difficult for a man to find a girl who could fulfill all his needs.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
entering
Yes reduce frequency of communication.
Reduce meet ups.
Let it die off.
If you’re already married or in a committed relationship, breaking off from the other girl and especially if she is very attached to you, is dangerous cuz she may turn around to tell your spouse or girlfriend.
So better to let it die a “natural death”.
Also I’ve many cases as recent as last week where those that died a natural death I suddenly miss them (mostly for fucks), and re text them back. Usually about 70% will respond positively cuz you didn’t indicate a break. They most likely may miss you too.
Bro, very good advice.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good afternoon,
There will be more COVID variants that might be more contagious and more deadly.
I don’t believe relying solely on vaccines is the solution. Just look at the recent data.
This pandemic is a stress test for a country’s governance, healthcare standards and its equitable delivery, and civic unity and responsibility of residents.
As for each individual, it’s time to maintain optimal health and optimal immunity. Because your very survival will depend on it.
Only the fittest and the smartest will survive.
It’s time to reflect on what humans have done to planet earth, even though it’s just a pale blue dot, and to one another.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good afternoon to all samsters,
I’m very worried that COVID vaccination could give many uninformed people a false sense of security. I would be remiss if I didn’t share the following articles:
Herd immunity ‘not a possibility’ with Delta variant
Head of Oxford Vaccine Group says vaccination won’t stop spread altogether.
BY ASHLEIGH FURLONG
August 10, 2021 4:34 pm
LONDON — Herd immunity is “not a possibility” with the current spread of the Delta variant due to it still infecting vaccinated individuals, the head of the Oxford Vaccine Group Andrew Pollard said Tuesday.
Pollard, who was involved in the development of the Oxford/AstraZeneca COVID-19 vaccine, told the U.K.’s All-Party Parliamentary Group on coronavirus that, unlike measles — where 95 percent vaccination of the population would stop transmission — the same couldn’t be said for coronavirus spread by the Delta variants.
“That does mean anyone still unvaccinated at some point will meet the virus,” he warned. Pollard said that vaccines may slow the process of transmission, with data indicating that people who are vaccinated and test positive seem to be shedding the virus for a slightly shorter period of time. However, given the circulation of the highly transmissible Delta variant vaccination wouldn’t stop spread altogether.
“We are in a situation with this current variant where herd immunity is not a possibility because it still infects vaccinated individuals,” he said. “I suspect that what the virus will throw up next is a variant which is perhaps even better at transmitting in vaccinated populations. So that’s an even more of a reason not to be making a vaccine program around herd immunity.”
Pollard explained that one of the strongest arguments for vaccinating children is to protect adults. However, he said that vaccinating children wouldn’t completely stop transmission and that there was an urgent need to ensure adults are vaccinated the world over. Countries around Europe are currently discussing whether to offer a vaccine to all teenagers — with varying decisions being made.
https://www.politico.eu/article/herd...SS_Syndication
Fauci warns more severe Covid variant could emerge as U.S. cases near 100,000 daily
PUBLISHED THU, AUG 5 202110:36 AM EDTUPDATED THU, AUG 5 20214:05 PM EDT
https://www.cnbc.com/2021/08/05/fauc...ar-100000.html
I’m Vaccinated And Still Got COVID-19. Here’s What A Breakthrough Case Is Like.
Jeff Dingler
Mon, 9 August 2021, 9:00 pm
https://sg.news.yahoo.com/m-vaccinat...130014083.html
Get vaccinated asap. Stay safe.
Your optimal immunity will be the best protection for your life and health.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
gramsby
Awesome thread by bro warbird, thanks!
Tks, bro.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
EtherC
No health no wealth boys. There will be Lambda variant coming soon as countries fatigue out and their systems & medical personnel get strained to the max. Its going to be some time before the Fat lady sings. Prioritize your health & limit your risky activities. Death = Game Over.
Bro, tks for your timely and prudent advice.
“He who has health has hope, and he who has hope has everything.”
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Good afternoon,
The ‘sex scene’ in SG is very bad due to a severe ‘supply and demand ’ imbalance. 僧多粥少！
According to a China agent here, most China women are getting 25k-30k sgd a month from their boyfriends! And these women are plastic women or aunties. A younger plastic girl could ask for 50k and up a month for full BY!!
I call this insanity. I have paid, and am still paying, 30-35% of the 25k-30k rates for full BY. And my girls have mostly been natural, cute n pretty SYTs. I had an HK SYT and a tall realtor who wanted much less.
Hopefully, the ‘scene’ will improve AFTER the COVID pandemic.
Let me sum up the current deplorable situation.
If you pay peanuts, you get aunties.
If you pay millions, you get plastic aunties.
Isn’t life crazy？ Too many well-to-do men with a scarcity mindset, and who are clueless about women.
I may start a new thread called “Love in the time of COVID.”
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Quote:
Originally Posted by
gramsby
Awesome thread by bro warbird, thanks!
Tks, bro.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
EtherC
No health no wealth boys. There will be Lambda variant coming soon as countries fatigue out and their systems & medical personnel get strained to the max. Its going to be some time before the Fat lady sings. Prioritize your health & limit your risky activities. Death = Game Over.
Bro, tks for your timely and prudent advice.
“He who has health has hope, and he who has hope has everything.”
……………………………………….
Good afternoon,
The ‘sex scene’ in SG is very bad due to a severe ‘supply and demand ’ imbalance. 僧多粥少！
According to a China agent here, most China women are getting 25k-30k sgd a month from their boyfriends! And these women are plastic women or aunties. A younger plastic girl could ask for 50k and up a month for full BY!!
I call this insanity. I have paid, and am still paying, 30-35% of the 25k-30k rates for full BY. And my girls have mostly been natural, cute n pretty SYTs. I had an HK SYT and a tall realtor who wanted much less.
Hopefully, the ‘scene’ will improve AFTER the COVID pandemic.
Let me sum up the current deplorable situation.
If you pay peanuts, you get aunties.
If you pay millions, you get plastic aunties.
Isn’t life crazy？ Too many well-to-do men with a scarcity mindset, and who are clueless about women.
I may start a new thread called “Love in the time of COVID.”
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
oldboi83
Hi Bro WB, what is this frame refering to ? Hope to get your enlightenment
Bro, tks for your question.
“FRAME” is the frame of mind or state of mind or mindset, and in the context of attracting women, refers to a man’s emotional strength, self-mastery, and other masculine character traits including courage, dominance, confidence, non-neediness, ambition, intelligence, specialized knowledge/skills, trustworthiness, reliability, compassion, n kindness, etc.
I forgot a MAN’s value to society and that he is God’s gift to all beautiful women in the world. If all of the above is truly your frame of mind at the subconscious level, you will have no competition in getting all the most attractive girls of your type.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
repairman
Would just like to do some sharing here.
Around 2 months back I broke off with this PRC girl that I got to know a year ago on Wechat. I believed I was a simp when I first got to know her.
When we first started, she was renting a room with a room mate, so when it came to sex she said this: 我不要去酒店，不喜欢做完事就拉裤子走人的感觉。It was a hint that she wanted her own room. So I went out to find a room for her where the owner allows friends to visit kind. After much searching manage to find. And also I helped to pay her rental. Along the way she wanted a new phone, so I bought it and also paid for the monthly phone bills. On top of that it was grocery trips and buying gold for her when she said she made a fuss that I didn’t get anything for her. Also got a ring for her. All these just for some pussy. Now looking back it was a mistake on my part. If a girl wants you, there is no need to go through all the hassle.
Bro,
Tks for sharing your experience w/ this PRC girl.
Mistake? Not if you really liked her and you have learned from the RS. Every encounter is a valuable lesson.
Many PRC girls who are in SG are very mercenary. Is the girl a WL?
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Penguin23
Some lessons needs to be learnt, just don’t make the same mistake twice.
I think there is not much sense in regret, rather than a bit of introspection to see what can be learnt from that episode. She was with you for 10 months, so that’s not too bad and I hope you had some memorable fucks in between.
Bro, I agree.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Penguin23
$7.5K seems to be around the lowest possible minimum, that’s roughly how much I am paying as well.
S-pass is around $3000 (I pay less, but that’s quibbling just want to give some benchmark numbers)
Rental and utilities is around $1500
Allowance is around $3000 or $100 a day.
This is not luxurious by any means since a girl always likes to indulge in small things once in a while - a trip to Sephora or to someplace not expensive like Zara once a month is already $1000+, Foodpanda every now and then can add up to another $1000/month
Bro,
Your calculations are correct. I heard the market rates for full BY are much higher now. Higher damage for lower quality women. Most of these females are way too old for me to call them ‘girls.’
Quote:
Originally Posted by
junior_cannibal
To some women, especially those that are single or divorced, even some masried ones, as long as you are not single, they feel that they lose a lot or sacrifice to be with you, hence, you need to make up to them monetarily. I used to think likewise, but not anymore. We do put in feelings and effort to maintain the relationship if money has to be involved actively, why spend on one pussy when you can have variety going for the professional WL in GL?
I remembered years ago I met this lady who’s married to a Singapore man, she asked for branded gift, first a Hermes bangle, I refused, then a Bvlgari ring, I also refused, but I still scored a round with her without all these gifts. Then when she tried asking for allowance, I told her to fly her kites. For those who thought their pussies are casted with diamonds, find those Roberts who love to be chopped. Excuse me.
Bro,
Well said!
When I started BY in 2009, I was already an ah pek. I was a newbie at the time n I thought a pretty SYT aged 18-21 was a grand prize. Big mistake.
When I refused to buy expensive gifts, some of them would say, “我的青春都给你了。“ They were trying to convince me why I should buy them the gifts. In retrospect, these girls were gold diggers.
Took me many years to reprogram my NEGATIVE subconscious beliefs. It’s a totally different ball game now.
I’m the grand prize to all my dream girls, current and future, in my subconscious mind.
This is the only correct mental frame. It’s magical.
Please achieve this winning mindset, whatever it takes.
Cheers!
Bro WB