Quote:
Originally Posted by
Takumi1983
wonder how do some bros here talk to a girl after getting their contact, alot of guys want to know to get girl better but have no idea how to start a conversation and in the meantime not interrogating them like a criminal, alot of girls feel very uncomfortable if you do that
do share some light bros
Bro, what u actually say is not the most important factor as long as you have the mental frame of a prize. And if you think the girl is the prize, there is nothing you can say that will help u very much.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Andrea90
I think a good approach is sharing about yourself first to the lady that way she will be feeling more relax and willing start the conversation. Remember to spice up a notch once in a while as you are looking for something more and not looking for friend zoned. Stay playful but not like a jerk, there is a fine line.
Bro, tks.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Takumi1983
definitely a good approach but how would you do it in a more natural way?
theres alot of ppl just struggling with how to even initiate a conversation
Quote:
Originally Posted by
SBMEDSUP
Ask so many then no need to do will hv no result.
Tks, bros.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
sohbuckkong
Ask her some questions and then be a good listener.
After sometime, start telling her you love her.
Then be a Romeo, start asking her to meet you.
When you meet her, is super important to have money to spent her makan, take taxi, go cool places with air-conditioning….
.
Then hold her hands when walking………
Continue to date her out and bring her makan, go places with air-conditioning, take taxi…….
After sometime kiss her forehead and then her lips……..
And then don’t hesitate to bring her go hotel..
Bro, you’re right.
Be an active listener. Listen to understand her as a person.
Don’t listen to prepare for a clever reply. Very annoying. You will appear needy and insecure…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
hokkienme56
yea bro, PRC girls must more careful… especially after hearing ur story I even more scared for u sia… lucky u dun do anything that might break ur relationship with ur gf, definitely not worth it la
Bro, tks.
I would walk away from a gold digger asap, even if she is the prettiest girl I have ever seen.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
CIMCOF
I would love this type of girls who love fishing too…
OMG, her body n curve….
Bro. tks for sharing.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ThisIsMelwood
Support nice thread.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
watrathinat
Very good thread. Hope to learn more from bro WB.
Tks to all samsters for your support.
Wishing all of u a prosperous and blessed Sunday!!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Takumi1983
after reading abit of WB’s bro thread, a few bros here gave some good advice to others
a very good metamorphosis is the flame and the moth
for guys we want to be the flame to attract the moth, not the moth that will eventually be burn by the flame
Bro, tks.
A guru once said that to attract your type of girls effortlessly, don’t do what most men are doing.
Supposing chio girls are boats, most men have the mindset of tugboats. They search for girls of their type and then spend great effort to pull them to shore. The girls often resist.
Be a lighthouse instead. You attract girls without pulling and pushing. Little effort needed. They come to you for safety. Start w/ the right mental frame of a dominant n masculine man who is a PRIZE. You need time to build a strong foundation. Improve yourself first, learn social skills and get a circle of friends, both male and female. You add value to them. The reward is immense.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Andrea90
Start by investing in yourself like for example dressing well and keeping yourself fit. That way your self confidence will increase and your physical stamina is a must. And remember to ask guys for advice as they will be more useful. A great man once told me do you think asking the fishermen how to fish is better or asking the fish what they like as bait
Bro, well said. Tks for your post.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Griezmann
Good advice bro, thanks!
Bro, tks.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Takumi1983
after reading abit of WB’s bro thread, a few bros here gave some good advice to others
a very good metamorphosis is the flame and the moth
for guys we want to be the flame to attract the moth, not the moth that will eventually be burn by the flame
Bro, tks.
A guru once said that to attract your type of girls effortlessly, don’t do what most men are doing.
Supposing chio girls are boats, most men have the mindset of tugboats. They search for girls of their type and then spend great effort to pull them to shore. The girls often resist.
Be a lighthouse instead. You attract girls without pulling and pushing. Little effort needed. They come to you for safety. Start w/ the right mental frame of a dominant n masculine man who is a PRIZE. You need time to build a strong foundation. Improve yourself first, learn social skills and get a circle of friends, both male and female. You add value to them. The reward is immense.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Andrea90
Start by investing in yourself like for example dressing well and keeping yourself fit. That way your self confidence will increase and your physical stamina is a must. And remember to ask guys for advice as they will be more useful. A great man once told me do you think asking the fishermen how to fish is better or asking the fish what they like as bait
Bro, well said. Tks for your post.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Griezmann
Good advice bro, thanks!
Bro, tks.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
bigboyforum
Bro, many years back we go chiong dynasty at L2 together with you, you are very gentle and calm, how you kill your time recently?
Bro,
We should get reacquainted. Pls PM your wechat ID.
I always keep myself busy.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
junior_cannibal
There are some samsters here complained about the girls they met. Especially towards the PRC. To be fair, we need to ask ourselves :
1 what are we really looking for from them? GFE sex and love, or a commitment that leads to marriage?
2 how many have we met to be conclusive that they are all the same?
3 where did meet them? In the office, on the street or in a night club? For those who spent loads of agent fees to work here, are they really dumb enough to let you take them for a ride, free sex, GFE and no string? When it’s too good, can it be true and last forever?
Just my observation and experience.
将心比心。
Bro, tks for your post.
I couldn’t agree w/ u more.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
antlau
I think we miss the main point, which is the guy has a gf…
Bro, tks. But I don’t understand your post.
………………………………
Good afternoon!
I like to share some posts from a bro here. I hv promised to keep his nick anonymous.
I’m happy that he has benefited from this thread. He has greatly improved n is doing well w/ women. I like to thank him for sharing his thoughts and experiences.
“Dear Bro Warbird
Thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom on relationships with women.
A strong frame, physically and mentally, is of the essence. This is something I’m not fully competent in yet, but I’m working on it, and your posts serve as very useful reminders.
If I had to reflect on my own experiences, my strength is in being an active listener and building rapport quickly with women; on the other hand, I have much room for improvement to be more direct about my intentions. Interestingly (although probably expectedly), in the instances, when I have been, the results have been amazing, so I should certainly heed my own experience too!
Please ignore the naysayers and keep on contributing your thoughts. It’s important for Singaporean men (or any man for that matter) to hear what you have to share. Our education system unfortunately does not prepare men well for interactions with women. At the risk of being overly critical of our fellow brothers, when I’m told stories by female friends about their misadventures on dates with awkward Singaporean men, I can only shake my head in disbelief.
For what it’s worth, you have at least one fan here, and I look forward to reading more about your exploits. (:
Cheers.”
“Hi Bro Warbird,
I’m usually reluctant to post on the forum threads in general because of the negativity that surrounds much of the Internet populace. I generally prefer to keep my interactions contained with positive individuals like yourself.
But if you think my PM might be useful for the cause, I’ll post it in your thread as well.
Cheers.”
“Dear Bro Warbird
It’d be a privilege for my simple PM to be used as educational material on your thread (although it’s really nothing to shout about!) Appreciate it if you could anonymise it if you do.
Cheers.”
He has made my day!
I like him to know that I’m just a trainee. Still trying to improve…
Any comments?
Cheers to all samsters,
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Takumi1983
wonder how do some bros here talk to a girl after getting their contact, alot of guys want to know to get girl better but have no idea how to start a conversation and in the meantime not interrogating them like a criminal, alot of girls feel very uncomfortable if you do that
do share some light bros
Bro, what u actually say is not the most important factor as long as you have the mental frame of a prize. And if you think the girl is the prize, there is nothing you can say that will help u very much.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Andrea90
I think a good approach is sharing about yourself first to the lady that way she will be feeling more relax and willing start the conversation. Remember to spice up a notch once in a while as you are looking for something more and not looking for friend zoned. Stay playful but not like a jerk, there is a fine line.
Bro, tks.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Takumi1983
definitely a good approach but how would you do it in a more natural way?
theres alot of ppl just struggling with how to even initiate a conversation
Quote:
Originally Posted by
SBMEDSUP
Ask so many then no need to do will hv no result.
Tks, bros.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
sohbuckkong
Ask her some questions and then be a good listener.
After sometime, start telling her you love her.
Then be a Romeo, start asking her to meet you.
When you meet her, is super important to have money to spent her makan, take taxi, go cool places with air-conditioning….
.
Then hold her hands when walking………
Continue to date her out and bring her makan, go places with air-conditioning, take taxi…….
After sometime kiss her forehead and then her lips……..
And then don’t hesitate to bring her go hotel..
Bro, you’re right.
Be an active listener. Listen to understand her as a person.
Don’t listen to prepare for a clever reply. Very annoying. You will appear needy and insecure…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
hokkienme56
yea bro, PRC girls must more careful… especially after hearing ur story I even more scared for u sia… lucky u dun do anything that might break ur relationship with ur gf, definitely not worth it la
Bro, tks.
I would walk away from a gold digger asap, even if she is the prettiest girl I have ever seen.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
CIMCOF
I would love this type of girls who love fishing too…
OMG, her body n curve….
Bro. tks for sharing.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ThisIsMelwood
Support nice thread.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
watrathinat
Very good thread. Hope to learn more from bro WB.
Tks to all samsters for your support.
Wishing all of u a prosperous and blessed Sunday!!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Takumi1983
wonder how do some bros here talk to a girl after getting their contact, alot of guys want to know to get girl better but have no idea how to start a conversation and in the meantime not interrogating them like a criminal, alot of girls feel very uncomfortable if you do that
do share some light bros
Bro, what u actually say is not the most important factor as long as you have the mental frame of a prize. And if you think the girl is the prize, there is nothing you can say that will help u very much.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Andrea90
I think a good approach is sharing about yourself first to the lady that way she will be feeling more relax and willing start the conversation. Remember to spice up a notch once in a while as you are looking for something more and not looking for friend zoned. Stay playful but not like a jerk, there is a fine line.
Bro, tks.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Takumi1983
definitely a good approach but how would you do it in a more natural way?
theres alot of ppl just struggling with how to even initiate a conversation
Quote:
Originally Posted by
SBMEDSUP
Ask so many then no need to do will hv no result.
Tks, bros.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
sohbuckkong
Ask her some questions and then be a good listener.
After sometime, start telling her you love her.
Then be a Romeo, start asking her to meet you.
When you meet her, is super important to have money to spent her makan, take taxi, go cool places with air-conditioning….
.
Then hold her hands when walking………
Continue to date her out and bring her makan, go places with air-conditioning, take taxi…….
After sometime kiss her forehead and then her lips……..
And then don’t hesitate to bring her go hotel..
Bro, you’re right.
Be an active listener. Listen to understand her as a person.
Don’t listen to prepare for a clever reply. Very annoying. You will appear needy and insecure…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
hokkienme56
yea bro, PRC girls must more careful… especially after hearing ur story I even more scared for u sia… lucky u dun do anything that might break ur relationship with ur gf, definitely not worth it la
Bro, tks.
I would walk away from a gold digger asap, even if she is the prettiest girl I have ever seen.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
CIMCOF
I would love this type of girls who love fishing too…
OMG, her body n curve….
Bro. tks for sharing.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ThisIsMelwood
Support nice thread.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
watrathinat
Very good thread. Hope to learn more from bro WB.
Tks to all samsters for your support.
Wishing all of u a prosperous and blessed Sunday!!
Bro WB
Good evening,
I have not had any new revelations on sexual and romantic relationship. I have covered many topics in the last 11 plus yrs. I have also narrated my encounters in details.
I have learned a lot from many samsters here and I have succeeded beyond my wildest dreams.
Sadly, there are many frusrtated naysayers out there. I can’t help them. Their problem is their negative subconscious mental frame, ingrained deeply in their brains during their formative yrs. They are their own worst enemies.
I’m able to get n keep TY primarily because she and my legal wife, who is in Gotham City, have identical character, personality and habits. They even use the same exact Chinese words! It’s uncanny. I know exactly what TY wants n what is missing in her life. I have an unfair advantage.
Cheers!
Stay safe.
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
oldboi83
thanks so much bro!
Tks, bro.
……………………………
Good evening,
I have posted infrequently becuase I don’t have anything new to share. In fact, I have not seen a cute SYT I like since I met TY in 2018.
But, I like to share some jokes.
The Husband’s Budgetary Concerns
A rich man comes home and immediately starts shouting at his wife. “I’ve been looking at our expenses and they are through the roof! What have you got so much to spend on? From now on, things will need to be different!”
“Different how?” the wife asked.
“Well, for starters, if you learned how to cook, we wouldn’t need a personal chef. If you learned to clean, we wouldn’t need a maid!”
The wife looks at him and responds: “Then we just need to teach you how to satisfy a woman. Then we can let the gardener go as well.”
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by
bigboyforum
Bro, many years back we go chiong dynasty at L2 together with you, you are very gentle and calm, how you kill your time recently?
Bro,
We should get reacquainted. Pls PM your wechat ID.
I always keep myself busy.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
junior_cannibal
There are some samsters here complained about the girls they met. Especially towards the PRC. To be fair, we need to ask ourselves :
1 what are we really looking for from them? GFE sex and love, or a commitment that leads to marriage?
2 how many have we met to be conclusive that they are all the same?
3 where did meet them? In the office, on the street or in a night club? For those who spent loads of agent fees to work here, are they really dumb enough to let you take them for a ride, free sex, GFE and no string? When it’s too good, can it be true and last forever?
Just my observation and experience.
将心比心。
Bro, tks for your post.
I couldn’t agree w/ u more.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
antlau
I think we miss the main point, which is the guy has a gf…
Bro, tks. But I don’t understand your post.
………………………………
Good afternoon!
I like to share some posts from a bro here. I hv promised to keep his nick anonymous.
I’m happy that he has benefited from this thread. He has greatly improved n is doing well w/ women. I like to thank him for sharing his thoughts and experiences.
“Dear Bro Warbird
Thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom on relationships with women.
A strong frame, physically and mentally, is of the essence. This is something I’m not fully competent in yet, but I’m working on it, and your posts serve as very useful reminders.
If I had to reflect on my own experiences, my strength is in being an active listener and building rapport quickly with women; on the other hand, I have much room for improvement to be more direct about my intentions. Interestingly (although probably expectedly), in the instances, when I have been, the results have been amazing, so I should certainly heed my own experience too!
Please ignore the naysayers and keep on contributing your thoughts. It’s important for Singaporean men (or any man for that matter) to hear what you have to share. Our education system unfortunately does not prepare men well for interactions with women. At the risk of being overly critical of our fellow brothers, when I’m told stories by female friends about their misadventures on dates with awkward Singaporean men, I can only shake my head in disbelief.
For what it’s worth, you have at least one fan here, and I look forward to reading more about your exploits. (:
Cheers.”
“Hi Bro Warbird,
I’m usually reluctant to post on the forum threads in general because of the negativity that surrounds much of the Internet populace. I generally prefer to keep my interactions contained with positive individuals like yourself.
But if you think my PM might be useful for the cause, I’ll post it in your thread as well.
Cheers.”
“Dear Bro Warbird
It’d be a privilege for my simple PM to be used as educational material on your thread (although it’s really nothing to shout about!) Appreciate it if you could anonymise it if you do.
Cheers.”
He has made my day!
I like him to know that I’m just a trainee. Still trying to improve…
Any comments?
Cheers to all samsters,
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
bigboyforum
Bro, many years back we go chiong dynasty at L2 together with you, you are very gentle and calm, how you kill your time recently?
Bro,
We should get reacquainted. Pls PM your wechat ID.
I always keep myself busy.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
junior_cannibal
There are some samsters here complained about the girls they met. Especially towards the PRC. To be fair, we need to ask ourselves :
1 what are we really looking for from them? GFE sex and love, or a commitment that leads to marriage?
2 how many have we met to be conclusive that they are all the same?
3 where did meet them? In the office, on the street or in a night club? For those who spent loads of agent fees to work here, are they really dumb enough to let you take them for a ride, free sex, GFE and no string? When it’s too good, can it be true and last forever?
Just my observation and experience.
将心比心。
Bro, tks for your post.
I couldn’t agree w/ u more.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
antlau
I think we miss the main point, which is the guy has a gf…
Bro, tks. But I don’t understand your post.
………………………………
Good afternoon!
I like to share some posts from a bro here. I hv promised to keep his nick anonymous.
I’m happy that he has benefited from this thread. He has greatly improved n is doing well w/ women. I like to thank him for sharing his thoughts and experiences.
“Dear Bro Warbird
Thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom on relationships with women.
A strong frame, physically and mentally, is of the essence. This is something I’m not fully competent in yet, but I’m working on it, and your posts serve as very useful reminders.
If I had to reflect on my own experiences, my strength is in being an active listener and building rapport quickly with women; on the other hand, I have much room for improvement to be more direct about my intentions. Interestingly (although probably expectedly), in the instances, when I have been, the results have been amazing, so I should certainly heed my own experience too!
Please ignore the naysayers and keep on contributing your thoughts. It’s important for Singaporean men (or any man for that matter) to hear what you have to share. Our education system unfortunately does not prepare men well for interactions with women. At the risk of being overly critical of our fellow brothers, when I’m told stories by female friends about their misadventures on dates with awkward Singaporean men, I can only shake my head in disbelief.
For what it’s worth, you have at least one fan here, and I look forward to reading more about your exploits. (:
Cheers.”
“Hi Bro Warbird,
I’m usually reluctant to post on the forum threads in general because of the negativity that surrounds much of the Internet populace. I generally prefer to keep my interactions contained with positive individuals like yourself.
But if you think my PM might be useful for the cause, I’ll post it in your thread as well.
Cheers.”
“Dear Bro Warbird
It’d be a privilege for my simple PM to be used as educational material on your thread (although it’s really nothing to shout about!) Appreciate it if you could anonymise it if you do.
Cheers.”
He has made my day!
I like him to know that I’m just a trainee. Still trying to improve…
Any comments?
Cheers to all samsters,
Bro WB