Quote:
Originally Posted by
AaronLeeKwok
Bro warbird, nice thread !
Quote:
Originally Posted by
EmpressQ
Great share by bro warbird, hope to learn more from this thread
Quote:
Originally Posted by
surv000
Awesome thread! thanks for sharing
Bros, tks for your posts.
………………………………………….. .
Good afternoon,
The biggest reason why bros I know are having problems getting the type of girls/women to fall for them is the fact that they treat them like the prize. These bros think they are NOT good enough, for a myriad of reasons, for the girls/women.
It’s pathetic. No one can help them.
Here is a very old newsletter which I received in 2012 from Zach Browman.
How to deal with physical insecurities
“Hey Andy,
Today’s question is about guys who feel
unattractive physically. But really, it’s good
advice for anyone that has any physical
characteristic they’re embarrassed about
or that they feel holds them back.
Everyone’s got something about themselves
they’d like to change.
They want to be a little
taller, have more hair on their head or less
on their back, a bigger Johnson or a smaller
gut.
But as you’ll see, your physical imperfections
don’t matter NEARLY as much as what you think
of them.
Enjoy the mp3 or just read the transcript below.
You can download the MP3 here <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
To your social success,
Zach
________________________
Transcription:
What Do You Tell A Student Who Feels He Is Physically Unattractive To Girls
I can’t say that physical attraction is
totally irrelevant for attracting women.
I think we all know that’s not exactly
true.
It’s much less important than most guys
think; much, much less important than
most guys think.
If you have a certain base level of
attractiveness, if you’re not, if you
don’t have something really wrong with
you, organically, then you’re going to
do okay.
You don’t need much.
In fact it’s much more important that
you have something I call status, which
I’ll talk about later, than that you
have physical attractiveness.
What’s usually holding a guy back is
that he thinks he’s unattractive and he
places a lot of importance on that.
And I’ll give you an example of what I
mean how this plays out.
I used to work as a matchmaker.
And so people would talk to me, they
tell me what they’re looking for in a
partner, and the agency that I worked
for would help them find somebody.
And I used to, you know, I meet with
men, I meet with women, and I remember a
few times women came in that were fairly
tall.
And they’d, I’d ask about what kind of
guy are they looking for and they’d
surprisingly say they were okay with
dating guys that were shorter than them.
And then I remember one of them said,
and I had this confirmed by other women;
one said, she’s like, “Yeah, I don’t
have a problem that are shorter than me,
as long as he doesn’t ask me not to wear
heels around him.
In other words, I don’t have a problem
with him being short…
HE has a problem with himself being
short, and that is what’s unattractive
to women; that’s what kills attraction
right there.
So you know, use shortness as an example
but, anything that you might be
physically, you know, physical drawback
when it comes to attracting women, it’s
much more important what your attitude
is towards it than the actual physical
trait itself.
Any comments or criticisms?
Have a great day!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
AaronLeeKwok
Bro warbird, nice thread !
Quote:
Originally Posted by
EmpressQ
Great share by bro warbird, hope to learn more from this thread
Quote:
Originally Posted by
surv000
Awesome thread! thanks for sharing
Bros, tks for your posts.
………………………………………….. .
Good afternoon,
The biggest reason why bros I know are having problems getting the type of girls/women to fall for them is the fact that they treat them like the prize. These bros think they are NOT good enough, for a myriad of reasons, for the girls/women.
It’s pathetic. No one can help them.
Here is a very old newsletter which I received in 2012 from Zach Browman.
How to deal with physical insecurities
“Hey Andy,
Today’s question is about guys who feel
unattractive physically. But really, it’s good
advice for anyone that has any physical
characteristic they’re embarrassed about
or that they feel holds them back.
Everyone’s got something about themselves
they’d like to change.
They want to be a little
taller, have more hair on their head or less
on their back, a bigger Johnson or a smaller
gut.
But as you’ll see, your physical imperfections
don’t matter NEARLY as much as what you think
of them.
Enjoy the mp3 or just read the transcript below.
You can download the MP3 here <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
To your social success,
Zach
________________________
Transcription:
What Do You Tell A Student Who Feels He Is Physically Unattractive To Girls
I can’t say that physical attraction is
totally irrelevant for attracting women.
I think we all know that’s not exactly
true.
It’s much less important than most guys
think; much, much less important than
most guys think.
If you have a certain base level of
attractiveness, if you’re not, if you
don’t have something really wrong with
you, organically, then you’re going to
do okay.
You don’t need much.
In fact it’s much more important that
you have something I call status, which
I’ll talk about later, than that you
have physical attractiveness.
What’s usually holding a guy back is
that he thinks he’s unattractive and he
places a lot of importance on that.
And I’ll give you an example of what I
mean how this plays out.
I used to work as a matchmaker.
And so people would talk to me, they
tell me what they’re looking for in a
partner, and the agency that I worked
for would help them find somebody.
And I used to, you know, I meet with
men, I meet with women, and I remember a
few times women came in that were fairly
tall.
And they’d, I’d ask about what kind of
guy are they looking for and they’d
surprisingly say they were okay with
dating guys that were shorter than them.
And then I remember one of them said,
and I had this confirmed by other women;
one said, she’s like, “Yeah, I don’t
have a problem that are shorter than me,
as long as he doesn’t ask me not to wear
heels around him.
In other words, I don’t have a problem
with him being short…
HE has a problem with himself being
short, and that is what’s unattractive
to women; that’s what kills attraction
right there.
So you know, use shortness as an example
but, anything that you might be
physically, you know, physical drawback
when it comes to attracting women, it’s
much more important what your attitude
is towards it than the actual physical
trait itself.
Any comments or criticisms?
Have a great day!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
manimano
Great thread, would like to learn more from bro WB
Tks, bro.
………………………………………….. …..
Good afternoon,
“In other words, I don’t have a problem
with him being short…
HE has a problem with himself being
short, and that is what’s unattractive
to women; that’s what kills attraction
right there.”
Yes, when a man thinks he is NOT good enough for his dream girl, for whatever reason, he is repulsive to her. The reason could even be trivial or ridiculous.
If he believes his dream girl will only be attracted to a fighter pilot or an American board certified neurosurgeon and he only has a PhD from MIT, he will feel very inadequate.
If he believes his girl would like to have a BF who is a billionaire n he only has a net worth of 500 million USD, he will feel very inferior.
If he believes his girl would only be attracted to an Ang Moh rockstar like Mick Jagger and he is not even an Ang Moh, he feel he will never be good enough.
If he believes she will only be attracted to a Mr Universe n he is just a regular body builder, he thinks he will never get her.
If he believes his superchio 18 SYT GF would like to have a very cute BF who is 19 yo n he is a lao chee ko pek, he will feel very insecure n inferior. How to capture her heart??
Or if he believes that his dream girl would only want to marry a real king or emperor and he is a common man, he will be very frustrated n angry.
Ironically, a real king might think that he was not good enough for a superchio SYT, like in the case of King Fuchai and Xi Shi. Little wonder he lost every thing to his slave Fan Li. Very tragic story.
I could give you another million examples.
However, if HE believes that HE is the grand prize to his dream girl,
IN HIS SUBCONSCIOUS MIND
，regardless of her preferences as in the above scenarios, the tables are turned.
A famous guru states that A Girl Thinks What You Think.
And now you know the SECRET and POWER of Positive Mental Frame.
Any comments or criticisms?
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
manimano
Great thread, would like to learn more from bro WB
Tks, bro.
………………………………………….. …..
Good afternoon,
“In other words, I don’t have a problem
with him being short…
HE has a problem with himself being
short, and that is what’s unattractive
to women; that’s what kills attraction
right there.”
Yes, when a man thinks he is NOT good enough for his dream girl, for whatever reason, he is repulsive to her. The reason could even be trivial or ridiculous.
If he believes his dream girl will only be attracted to a fighter pilot or an American board certified neurosurgeon and he only has a PhD from MIT, he will feel very inadequate.
If he believes his girl would like to have a BF who is a billionaire n he only has a net worth of 500 million USD, he will feel very inferior.
If he believes his girl would only be attracted to an Ang Moh rockstar like Mick Jagger and he is not even an Ang Moh, he feel he will never be good enough.
If he believes she will only be attracted to a Mr Universe n he is just a regular body builder, he thinks he will never get her.
If he believes his superchio 18 SYT GF would like to have a very cute BF who is 19 yo n he is a lao chee ko pek, he will feel very insecure n inferior. How to capture her heart??
Or if he believes that his dream girl would only want to marry a real king or emperor and he is a common man, he will be very frustrated n angry.
Ironically, a real king might think that he was not good enough for a superchio SYT, like in the case of King Fuchai and Xi Shi. Little wonder he lost every thing to his slave Fan Li. Very tragic story.
I could give you another million examples.
However, if HE believes that HE is the grand prize to his dream girl,
IN HIS SUBCONSCIOUS MIND
，regardless of her preferences as in the above scenarios, the tables are turned.
A famous guru states that A Girl Thinks What You Think.
And now you know the SECRET and POWER of Positive Mental Frame.
Any comments or criticisms?
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
repairman
I would say my actions did not match what I posted. I still initiated contact with her. And with such a weak mental frame, I would say that gives her another chance to find fault and ask for a breakup. Indeed it just happened. This time round I will probably just leave it and work on my mental frames. It is really much harder than I thought it will be. Cheers for those guys who have such strong mental frames and mindset.
Bro, tks. Most men have the same problem. Knowing and doing are very different.
I still have lapses sometimes.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
sohbuckkong
You are a great inspiration bro.
Yes , hypothetically if one start to scold the girl that you hope to fuck, you will be surprise eventually she will gladly open her cheebye and let you fuck and she will want you to fuck her deeply into her cheebye too.
Never be her yes man, you will lose her.
Never be careful with yr words when communicating.
Don’t be too gentlemen, be buaya sometimes too.
Of course to hook her, one must be generous too. Women are all bitchy by nature.
Bro, you hv made my day!
Never be afraid of losing a girl. Say no to her when she is wrong. Be dominant, assertive, direct and decisive. And be totally non-reactive.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
junior_cannibal
One other way is, if bro Warbird, allows me to add on, is to simultaneously develop several relationships, be it just makan, drinking kaki or FBs. So that when you have more alternatives for different moods and purposes each day.
The last thing you want, is to have the purpose written all over your face that you just want a quickie with the gal, unless you are a super handsome, 6 pack dude. There again, most gals wouldn’t really want to be bedded by a Casanova, neither do they want a nerd. One thing for sure, they must not find you disgusting or cheap.
Bro, tks. Good advice.
A man must have many options.
“The hungry don’t get fed.”
Quote:
Originally Posted by
PuChoi
Fully agreed bro, never give in to them too much, maybe one out of ten times
Tks, bro.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
sohbuckkong
I have to add that the way you fuck her is also an important factor to decide whether she will continue to cling to you.
This is because when fucking, the way you fuck her express accordingly how much you desire her.
By nature, a woman want her man to want her 100%. So if your fucking is not intense enough, you risk losing her. The more intense you fuck her, the more rough you fuck her, the message she received is that you want her, you are very hungry for her and I guarantee she will continue to cling to you as though she can’t live without you.
My lady friends always told me “oh that girl continue to like that man because he must have been very good in sex”.
Good luck.
Very true, bro.
Sex is very important for most girls/women. How much she feels that you desire her, despite her imperfections, is a crucial factor.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
unobtanium
Yes, bro I am the prize.
IMO, still need to have social skills and gentleman lol.
Thanks for sharing.
Yes, bro.
Having the right mental frame is only the first step, albeit THE most essential step.
A man also needs to have the right masculine attributes. I have mentioned them many times before. Emotional mastery is one. Assertiveness is another. And so is decisiveness, And many others.
Let me put this in another way.
A man w/ a weak or defeatist mental frame will never capture the heart of his dream girl. Regardless of his other attributes.
However, a man w/ a strong mental frame may still not capture the heart of his dream girl if he is very lacking in other masculine attributes.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
junior_cannibal
yes and no, the mental setup of a woman is quite different from man’s. It’s not about how much you desire her, it’s more like how well you satisfy her. If she’s a rather average gal, a good sex once a week is good enough. However, if she’s a big sexual appetite, even once a day is not good enough. This is rare but don’t say its impossible. 树林那么大，什么鸟都有。
Yes, bro.
Every woman is different. I had a lover from Sarawak some yrs ago. She was 22. She was very easily orgasmic n very wet. She wanted to fuck 2-3 times a day. I could only see her once a week. She was very angry. She said I didn’t have a heart.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
SBMEDSUP
Also must be sincere and not play play.
Women can sense fake and vice versa.
You’re right, bro. Be sincere and kind.
A real man’s word is his bond.
These are masculine attributes too.
Cheers to all samsters!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
repairman
Would just like to do a quick sharing. For the past month, have been getting acquainted with a married woman. Had sex with her on a couple of occasion. However one issue is that she will always delete me on Wechat when something disturbs her, for example me saying the wrong thing or her seeing my family photos. So for the past few times, I had been apologizing to get her back. But the same thing happened today, and I was reminded of bro warbird’s advice. It is difficult, but I think even though she has deleted me, I will just leave it as it is. Previously I had always been the one to initiate her to come back, but now will just see how it goes. If she doesn’t come back, then it was probably never meant to be.
Bro, tks.
You’re absolutely right.
Don’t initiate contact w/ her.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
hakone
Whatever comes let it comes.
Whatever stays let it stays.
Whatever goes let it goes.
Never beg for a relationship.
Bro, well said.
You’re the prize.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
songtao
Well said bro. Fully agreed
Yes.
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Good afternoon,
Many men seem to be afraid of competition, whether it’s biz, jobs, professions or women.
Very negative mental frame.
Instead, we should love competition. The more the better. Why? It gives meaning to ‘success.’ Otherwise, life is meaningless.
I also like to be the ‘apparent’ underdog. It compels me to work smarter and harder. And it gives even more meaning to ‘success.’
We should also embrace change. There is no status quo in our known universe. Everything is constantly changing. Many people on top are afraid of change. They are insecure, needy and fearful. Very sad.
Supposing your very beautiful wife/LP/mistress/GF tells u that she is going to meet her high school sweetheart for lunch or she is going out w/ a young, handsome and rich man, you should smile n wish her a wonderful time.
She will be very impressed w/ your absolute confidence and self mastery. She knows she will NEVER meet another real MAN like you.
It’s your golden chance to show her who is a real MAN n who is the little boy.
She knows instinctively that most men would get very jealous and insecure. And if you do, game over. That is the beginning of the end of your relationship w/ her. It doesn’t matter if you have been w/ her 10 days or 10 years.
Never forget, not even for a split second, that you’re the grand PRIZE.
You must behave as if 1,000 very chio and high quality girls of your type are calling you and wanting to fuck you everyday…
Your biggest problem is choosing which one of the girls to fuck today.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
repairman
Would just like to do a quick sharing. For the past month, have been getting acquainted with a married woman. Had sex with her on a couple of occasion. However one issue is that she will always delete me on Wechat when something disturbs her, for example me saying the wrong thing or her seeing my family photos. So for the past few times, I had been apologizing to get her back. But the same thing happened today, and I was reminded of bro warbird’s advice. It is difficult, but I think even though she has deleted me, I will just leave it as it is. Previously I had always been the one to initiate her to come back, but now will just see how it goes. If she doesn’t come back, then it was probably never meant to be.
Bro, tks.
You’re absolutely right.
Don’t initiate contact w/ her.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
hakone
Whatever comes let it comes.
Whatever stays let it stays.
Whatever goes let it goes.
Never beg for a relationship.
Bro, well said.
You’re the prize.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
songtao
Well said bro. Fully agreed
Yes.
………………………………………….. …..
Good afternoon,
Many men seem to be afraid of competition, whether it’s biz, jobs, professions or women.
Very negative mental frame.
Instead, we should love competition. The more the better. Why? It gives meaning to ‘success.’ Otherwise, life is meaningless.
I also like to be the ‘apparent’ underdog. It compels me to work smarter and harder. And it gives even more meaning to ‘success.’
We should also embrace change. There is no status quo in our known universe. Everything is constantly changing. Many people on top are afraid of change. They are insecure, needy and fearful. Very sad.
Supposing your very beautiful wife/LP/mistress/GF tells u that she is going to meet her high school sweetheart for lunch or she is going out w/ a young, handsome and rich man, you should smile n wish her a wonderful time.
She will be very impressed w/ your absolute confidence and self mastery. She knows she will NEVER meet another real MAN like you.
It’s your golden chance to show her who is a real MAN n who is the little boy.
She knows instinctively that most men would get very jealous and insecure. And if you do, game over. That is the beginning of the end of your relationship w/ her. It doesn’t matter if you have been w/ her 10 days or 10 years.
Never forget, not even for a split second, that you’re the grand PRIZE.
You must behave as if 1,000 very chio and high quality girls of your type are calling you and wanting to fuck you everyday…
Your biggest problem is choosing which one of the girls to fuck today.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Takumi1983
after reading abit of WB’s bro thread, a few bros here gave some good advice to others
a very good metamorphosis is the flame and the moth
for guys we want to be the flame to attract the moth, not the moth that will eventually be burn by the flame
Bro, tks.
A guru once said that to attract your type of girls effortlessly, don’t do what most men are doing.
Supposing chio girls are boats, most men have the mindset of tugboats. They search for girls of their type and then spend great effort to pull them to shore. The girls often resist.
Be a lighthouse instead. You attract girls without pulling and pushing. Little effort needed. They come to you for safety. Start w/ the right mental frame of a dominant n masculine man who is a PRIZE. You need time to build a strong foundation. Improve yourself first, learn social skills and get a circle of friends, both male and female. You add value to them. The reward is immense.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Andrea90
Start by investing in yourself like for example dressing well and keeping yourself fit. That way your self confidence will increase and your physical stamina is a must. And remember to ask guys for advice as they will be more useful. A great man once told me do you think asking the fishermen how to fish is better or asking the fish what they like as bait
Bro, well said. Tks for your post.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Griezmann
Good advice bro, thanks!
Bro, tks.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
repairman
I would say my actions did not match what I posted. I still initiated contact with her. And with such a weak mental frame, I would say that gives her another chance to find fault and ask for a breakup. Indeed it just happened. This time round I will probably just leave it and work on my mental frames. It is really much harder than I thought it will be. Cheers for those guys who have such strong mental frames and mindset.
Bro, tks. Most men have the same problem. Knowing and doing are very different.
I still have lapses sometimes.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
sohbuckkong
You are a great inspiration bro.
Yes , hypothetically if one start to scold the girl that you hope to fuck, you will be surprise eventually she will gladly open her cheebye and let you fuck and she will want you to fuck her deeply into her cheebye too.
Never be her yes man, you will lose her.
Never be careful with yr words when communicating.
Don’t be too gentlemen, be buaya sometimes too.
Of course to hook her, one must be generous too. Women are all bitchy by nature.
Bro, you hv made my day!
Never be afraid of losing a girl. Say no to her when she is wrong. Be dominant, assertive, direct and decisive. And be totally non-reactive.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
junior_cannibal
One other way is, if bro Warbird, allows me to add on, is to simultaneously develop several relationships, be it just makan, drinking kaki or FBs. So that when you have more alternatives for different moods and purposes each day.
The last thing you want, is to have the purpose written all over your face that you just want a quickie with the gal, unless you are a super handsome, 6 pack dude. There again, most gals wouldn’t really want to be bedded by a Casanova, neither do they want a nerd. One thing for sure, they must not find you disgusting or cheap.
Bro, tks. Good advice.
A man must have many options.
“The hungry don’t get fed.”
Quote:
Originally Posted by
PuChoi
Fully agreed bro, never give in to them too much, maybe one out of ten times
Tks, bro.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
sohbuckkong
I have to add that the way you fuck her is also an important factor to decide whether she will continue to cling to you.
This is because when fucking, the way you fuck her express accordingly how much you desire her.
By nature, a woman want her man to want her 100%. So if your fucking is not intense enough, you risk losing her. The more intense you fuck her, the more rough you fuck her, the message she received is that you want her, you are very hungry for her and I guarantee she will continue to cling to you as though she can’t live without you.
My lady friends always told me “oh that girl continue to like that man because he must have been very good in sex”.
Good luck.
Very true, bro.
Sex is very important for most girls/women. How much she feels that you desire her, despite her imperfections, is a crucial factor.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
unobtanium
Yes, bro I am the prize.
IMO, still need to have social skills and gentleman lol.
Thanks for sharing.
Yes, bro.
Having the right mental frame is only the first step, albeit THE most essential step.
A man also needs to have the right masculine attributes. I have mentioned them many times before. Emotional mastery is one. Assertiveness is another. And so is decisiveness, And many others.
Let me put this in another way.
A man w/ a weak or defeatist mental frame will never capture the heart of his dream girl. Regardless of his other attributes.
However, a man w/ a strong mental frame may still not capture the heart of his dream girl if he is very lacking in other masculine attributes.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
junior_cannibal
yes and no, the mental setup of a woman is quite different from man’s. It’s not about how much you desire her, it’s more like how well you satisfy her. If she’s a rather average gal, a good sex once a week is good enough. However, if she’s a big sexual appetite, even once a day is not good enough. This is rare but don’t say its impossible. 树林那么大，什么鸟都有。
Yes, bro.
Every woman is different. I had a lover from Sarawak some yrs ago. She was 22. She was very easily orgasmic n very wet. She wanted to fuck 2-3 times a day. I could only see her once a week. She was very angry. She said I didn’t have a heart.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
SBMEDSUP
Also must be sincere and not play play.
Women can sense fake and vice versa.
You’re right, bro. Be sincere and kind.
A real man’s word is his bond.
These are masculine attributes too.
Cheers to all samsters!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
repairman
I would say my actions did not match what I posted. I still initiated contact with her. And with such a weak mental frame, I would say that gives her another chance to find fault and ask for a breakup. Indeed it just happened. This time round I will probably just leave it and work on my mental frames. It is really much harder than I thought it will be. Cheers for those guys who have such strong mental frames and mindset.
Bro, tks. Most men have the same problem. Knowing and doing are very different.
I still have lapses sometimes.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
sohbuckkong
You are a great inspiration bro.
Yes , hypothetically if one start to scold the girl that you hope to fuck, you will be surprise eventually she will gladly open her cheebye and let you fuck and she will want you to fuck her deeply into her cheebye too.
Never be her yes man, you will lose her.
Never be careful with yr words when communicating.
Don’t be too gentlemen, be buaya sometimes too.
Of course to hook her, one must be generous too. Women are all bitchy by nature.
Bro, you hv made my day!
Never be afraid of losing a girl. Say no to her when she is wrong. Be dominant, assertive, direct and decisive. And be totally non-reactive.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
junior_cannibal
One other way is, if bro Warbird, allows me to add on, is to simultaneously develop several relationships, be it just makan, drinking kaki or FBs. So that when you have more alternatives for different moods and purposes each day.
The last thing you want, is to have the purpose written all over your face that you just want a quickie with the gal, unless you are a super handsome, 6 pack dude. There again, most gals wouldn’t really want to be bedded by a Casanova, neither do they want a nerd. One thing for sure, they must not find you disgusting or cheap.
Bro, tks. Good advice.
A man must have many options.
“The hungry don’t get fed.”
Quote:
Originally Posted by
PuChoi
Fully agreed bro, never give in to them too much, maybe one out of ten times
Tks, bro.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
sohbuckkong
I have to add that the way you fuck her is also an important factor to decide whether she will continue to cling to you.
This is because when fucking, the way you fuck her express accordingly how much you desire her.
By nature, a woman want her man to want her 100%. So if your fucking is not intense enough, you risk losing her. The more intense you fuck her, the more rough you fuck her, the message she received is that you want her, you are very hungry for her and I guarantee she will continue to cling to you as though she can’t live without you.
My lady friends always told me “oh that girl continue to like that man because he must have been very good in sex”.
Good luck.
Very true, bro.
Sex is very important for most girls/women. How much she feels that you desire her, despite her imperfections, is a crucial factor.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
unobtanium
Yes, bro I am the prize.
IMO, still need to have social skills and gentleman lol.
Thanks for sharing.
Yes, bro.
Having the right mental frame is only the first step, albeit THE most essential step.
A man also needs to have the right masculine attributes. I have mentioned them many times before. Emotional mastery is one. Assertiveness is another. And so is decisiveness, And many others.
Let me put this in another way.
A man w/ a weak or defeatist mental frame will never capture the heart of his dream girl. Regardless of his other attributes.
However, a man w/ a strong mental frame may still not capture the heart of his dream girl if he is very lacking in other masculine attributes.
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junior_cannibal
yes and no, the mental setup of a woman is quite different from man’s. It’s not about how much you desire her, it’s more like how well you satisfy her. If she’s a rather average gal, a good sex once a week is good enough. However, if she’s a big sexual appetite, even once a day is not good enough. This is rare but don’t say its impossible. 树林那么大，什么鸟都有。
Yes, bro.
Every woman is different. I had a lover from Sarawak some yrs ago. She was 22. She was very easily orgasmic n very wet. She wanted to fuck 2-3 times a day. I could only see her once a week. She was very angry. She said I didn’t have a heart.
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SBMEDSUP
Also must be sincere and not play play.
Women can sense fake and vice versa.
You’re right, bro. Be sincere and kind.
A real man’s word is his bond.
These are masculine attributes too.
Cheers to all samsters!
Bro WB