Good morning,
I like to share an article by Roosh on the importance of FRAME. He is the guru who asserts that a girl/woman who has had 5 or more sexual partners can never love a man again. Due to the irreparable loss of “bonding glue.” I generally agree w/ him, although there are rare exceptions.
BTW, I hv done minimal editing on the article.
Don’t Let A Girl Assert Frame Over You
Within every interaction is a frame where one person does the evaluating and judging while the other does the satisfying. The person with the higher value will naturally fall into a frame of evaluation while the person with the lower value will fall into a frame of trying to prove or appease. Without even thinking about it, many men fall into the inferior frame with women by how they allow interaction to proceed.
Since we were children, we’ve been taught to answer questions. In school, we received rewards from the teacher if we answered correctly, and even in university, we were graded for “class participation” based on impressing the professor with how well we know the material. The problem is that we carry the need to prove ourselves over into adulthood and allow others to assume superiority by answering questions that make us explain our behavior, thoughts, or actions. Most people are in fact too eager to prove themselves when asked a question, but by doing so they almost always accept the inferior frame.
For example, a common question that a woman asks you is, “What do you do?” By quickly answering her question, you automatically accept her “prove yourself to me” frame. This is why my game book Bang teaches you to not answer directly to a woman’s questions in the early periods of the interaction when you’re trying to establish attraction. The better response is to give a joke answer that shows you do not care for her evaluation. Paradoxically, this increases her attraction for you even more, because your value must be higher than hers if you refuse to do what so many men before you had eagerly done.
Another example is when a co-worker—and not your boss—asks you, “Why did you do it this way?” He is attempting to assert the superior frame by getting you to justify yourself. An answer which refuses his frame is one where you don’t explain why you did it in your preferred way. Unless he asks you “how” you did something, which establishes him as the inferior seeking to learn from you, you should not rationalize yourself. You’ll also encounter co-workers who ask tiny favors of you that escalate over time.
How do you feel when you have sex with a woman for the first time and are not satisfied with your performance? Because you feel inferior at that moment, you may say something like “It’ll be longer next time” or “I shouldn’t have drunk so much.” This establishes you as the person who is supposed to do the pleasing. The woman is then more likely to see you as a weak man. A man who is confident of his worth would not be fazed by a bad sexual performance, or at least not feel the need to defend it.
It turns out that trying to justify yourself in any way is the best way to lose the frame, and should only be done when the other person has repeatedly asserted the inferior frame. For example, if a woman repeatedly justifies herself in your presence, you can throw her a bone and appease her once in a while, but only if it’s what you really want to do so that she feels a basic level of security in the relationship.
It’s important to note that natural alpha males are automatically resistant to accepting the inferior frame. Their instinct tells them not to justify themselves, and they have such a high opinion of who they are that maintaining frame naturally flows from them. If you are not a natural alpha, you’ll have to do it manually by stopping and thinking each time a woman asks you a question or a favor (“Can you hold my purse?”) to decide if she’s trying to assert frame. If she is, which is usually the case, you must deflect her question. Make a joke or “agree and amplify” so she comes to the conclusion that you are the superior in the interaction. Otherwise, she will slowly drain your power and either use you for attention or to establish firm control over your behavior as we see with men who have been hen-pecked by their wives after several years of marriage.
You want to reach a point where you have high expectations of a woman but she has little expectations of you. She must give you submission while you do as you may. This will take some real value to pull off, but in the meanwhile, you can simulate it by merely not falling into the frame of those who make requests and demands of you.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Koh89
Great thread and very good replies by bro WB!
Tks, bro
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Originally Posted by
camorant
Bro WB
Many thanks for a well written guru forum.
I cannot agree more.
Hope to learn more.
Thank you.
Tks, bro.
Neediness is very selfish and is the no. 1 attraction killer.
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Originally Posted by
goushanwang
Thanks bro WB for a fantastic forum too.
Have a nice day.
Tks, bro.
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Originally Posted by
camorant
Bro WB
Lucky to read your forum.
Always happy to know you have dumped some old LP and hooked new ones.
Someday, I hope to do the same thing. In the meantime, I shall learn and polished my skills.
Please share more and I will learn.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
SL is the same girl as LS. She is 22 now.
HW, my first ever mistress, was going to get married in 2017 but she broke off w/ her BF. She returned to SG in March last yr. I met her, but I didn’t keep her because she had put on weight and was no longer attractive.
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Originally Posted by
Ongbakak
Lucky to come across this thread too.
So much to learn here.
Thanks so much bro WB!
Bro, tks.
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Originally Posted by
zerohedge
Bro WB
What an excellent reply.
Me too will hope to hunt to keep my brain sharp and youthful.
Thank you so much for sharing so many nice forums.
Really admired your integrity and resilient all these years.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
Yes, reading n practicing will keep the mind sharp.
Making love to a chio girl of your type at least a few times a week will add many years to your life.
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Originally Posted by
zerohedge
bro cz gives excellent forum too.
worth to read.
Yes, bro CZ is a very experienced man.
Money is not everything to a girl/woman who is not a psychopathic gold digger.
Many girls/women, and in fact most men, do hv real financial needs. If a girl’s basic financial needs are being met n she is satisfied w/ her male sexual partner in other ways, she will not demand more money from him.
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Originally Posted by
zerohedge
Bro WB
Thanks to you I learned about scarcity mindset.
Thank you so much.
Cheers.
You’re welcome, bro.
A scarcity mindset is most repulsive.
“Behave as if you have 1000 beautiful women of your type calling you n wanting to fuck you every day.”
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Originally Posted by
campane
fully agreed. can read a few times over.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ExactRightWords
Just learned about scarcity mindset, thanks bro WB.
Have a nice week ahead.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
honeykawaii
An excellent reply indeed!
Thanks bro WB for sharing so much in this thread.
Have a good day, cheers.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
SBMEDSUP
Support bro TS WB for an awesome thread.
Keep up the good effort.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
LuckySeven7
Excellent thread by bro WB.
Hope to learn more here.
Cheers.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
buisong
Wow didn’t know such a nice thread existed!
Thanks bro WB
Bros, thanks
Cheers to all,
Bro WB
…………………………………
Good morning!
Many of my kaki hv the mistaken belief that all girls/women want is money. Not true at all, even for WLs. Excepting those who are psychopathic gold diggers.
Let me give you an analogy.
To get n KEEP a high-quality girl of your type, you need a strong chain with many metal links. Your attractiveness and desirability as a LT sexual partner are as strong as the whole chain. Money is just one link. There are many, many other links. And you’re only as strong as your weakest link. It’s very ignorant n stupid to think that money is the only link.
I hv mentioned the other “links” many times in this forum.
BTW, many wealthy men are extremely weak in other links. They will lose their “dream girls/women” eventually, despite spending a small fortune. It’s pathetic.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Koh89
Great thread and very good replies by bro WB!
Tks, bro
Quote:
Originally Posted by
camorant
Bro WB
Many thanks for a well written guru forum.
I cannot agree more.
Hope to learn more.
Thank you.
Tks, bro.
Neediness is very selfish and is the no. 1 attraction killer.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
goushanwang
Thanks bro WB for a fantastic forum too.
Have a nice day.
Tks, bro.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
camorant
Bro WB
Lucky to read your forum.
Always happy to know you have dumped some old LP and hooked new ones.
Someday, I hope to do the same thing. In the meantime, I shall learn and polished my skills.
Please share more and I will learn.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
SL is the same girl as LS. She is 22 now.
HW, my first ever mistress, was going to get married in 2017 but she broke off w/ her BF. She returned to SG in March last yr. I met her, but I didn’t keep her because she had put on weight and was no longer attractive.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Ongbakak
Lucky to come across this thread too.
So much to learn here.
Thanks so much bro WB!
Bro, tks.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
zerohedge
Bro WB
What an excellent reply.
Me too will hope to hunt to keep my brain sharp and youthful.
Thank you so much for sharing so many nice forums.
Really admired your integrity and resilient all these years.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
Yes, reading n practicing will keep the mind sharp.
Making love to a chio girl of your type at least a few times a week will add many years to your life.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
zerohedge
bro cz gives excellent forum too.
worth to read.
Yes, bro CZ is a very experienced man.
Money is not everything to a girl/woman who is not a psychopathic gold digger.
Many girls/women, and in fact most men, do hv real financial needs. If a girl’s basic financial needs are being met n she is satisfied w/ her male sexual partner in other ways, she will not demand more money from him.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
zerohedge
Bro WB
Thanks to you I learned about scarcity mindset.
Thank you so much.
Cheers.
You’re welcome, bro.
A scarcity mindset is most repulsive.
“Behave as if you have 1000 beautiful women of your type calling you n wanting to fuck you every day.”
Quote:
Originally Posted by
campane
fully agreed. can read a few times over.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ExactRightWords
Just learned about scarcity mindset, thanks bro WB.
Have a nice week ahead.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
honeykawaii
An excellent reply indeed!
Thanks bro WB for sharing so much in this thread.
Have a good day, cheers.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
SBMEDSUP
Support bro TS WB for an awesome thread.
Keep up the good effort.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
LuckySeven7
Excellent thread by bro WB.
Hope to learn more here.
Cheers.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
buisong
Wow didn’t know such a nice thread existed!
Thanks bro WB
Bros, thanks
Cheers to all,
Bro WB
…………………………………
Good morning!
Many of my kaki hv the mistaken belief that all girls/women want is money. Not true at all, even for WLs. Excepting those who are psychopathic gold diggers.
Let me give you an analogy.
To get n KEEP a high-quality girl of your type, you need a strong chain with many metal links. Your attractiveness and desirability as a LT sexual partner are as strong as the whole chain. Money is just one link. There are many, many other links. And you’re only as strong as your weakest link. It’s very ignorant n stupid to think that money is the only link.
I hv mentioned the other “links” many times in this forum.
BTW, many wealthy men are extremely weak in other links. They will lose their “dream girls/women” eventually, despite spending a small fortune. It’s pathetic.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning,
I like to share an article by Roosh on the importance of FRAME. He is the guru who asserts that a girl/woman who has had 5 or more sexual partners can never love a man again. Due to the irreparable loss of “bonding glue.” I generally agree w/ him, although there are rare exceptions.
BTW, I hv done minimal editing on the article.
Don’t Let A Girl Assert Frame Over You
Within every interaction is a frame where one person does the evaluating and judging while the other does the satisfying. The person with the higher value will naturally fall into a frame of evaluation while the person with the lower value will fall into a frame of trying to prove or appease. Without even thinking about it, many men fall into the inferior frame with women by how they allow interaction to proceed.
Since we were children, we’ve been taught to answer questions. In school, we received rewards from the teacher if we answered correctly, and even in university, we were graded for “class participation” based on impressing the professor with how well we know the material. The problem is that we carry the need to prove ourselves over into adulthood and allow others to assume superiority by answering questions that make us explain our behavior, thoughts, or actions. Most people are in fact too eager to prove themselves when asked a question, but by doing so they almost always accept the inferior frame.
For example, a common question that a woman asks you is, “What do you do?” By quickly answering her question, you automatically accept her “prove yourself to me” frame. This is why my game book Bang teaches you to not answer directly to a woman’s questions in the early periods of the interaction when you’re trying to establish attraction. The better response is to give a joke answer that shows you do not care for her evaluation. Paradoxically, this increases her attraction for you even more, because your value must be higher than hers if you refuse to do what so many men before you had eagerly done.
Another example is when a co-worker—and not your boss—asks you, “Why did you do it this way?” He is attempting to assert the superior frame by getting you to justify yourself. An answer which refuses his frame is one where you don’t explain why you did it in your preferred way. Unless he asks you “how” you did something, which establishes him as the inferior seeking to learn from you, you should not rationalize yourself. You’ll also encounter co-workers who ask tiny favors of you that escalate over time.
How do you feel when you have sex with a woman for the first time and are not satisfied with your performance? Because you feel inferior at that moment, you may say something like “It’ll be longer next time” or “I shouldn’t have drunk so much.” This establishes you as the person who is supposed to do the pleasing. The woman is then more likely to see you as a weak man. A man who is confident of his worth would not be fazed by a bad sexual performance, or at least not feel the need to defend it.
It turns out that trying to justify yourself in any way is the best way to lose the frame, and should only be done when the other person has repeatedly asserted the inferior frame. For example, if a woman repeatedly justifies herself in your presence, you can throw her a bone and appease her once in a while, but only if it’s what you really want to do so that she feels a basic level of security in the relationship.
It’s important to note that natural alpha males are automatically resistant to accepting the inferior frame. Their instinct tells them not to justify themselves, and they have such a high opinion of who they are that maintaining frame naturally flows from them. If you are not a natural alpha, you’ll have to do it manually by stopping and thinking each time a woman asks you a question or a favor (“Can you hold my purse?”) to decide if she’s trying to assert frame. If she is, which is usually the case, you must deflect her question. Make a joke or “agree and amplify” so she comes to the conclusion that you are the superior in the interaction. Otherwise, she will slowly drain your power and either use you for attention or to establish firm control over your behavior as we see with men who have been hen-pecked by their wives after several years of marriage.
You want to reach a point where you have high expectations of a woman but she has little expectations of you. She must give you submission while you do as you may. This will take some real value to pull off, but in the meanwhile, you can simulate it by merely not falling into the frame of those who make requests and demands of you.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Bgyu
Thanks for all the insightful read Bro wb. Best thread ever!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
winnipeg
Agreed with Roosh.
I will not allow gal assert frame over me.
Cheers bro WB.
Bros, tks.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
cygnini
Bro WB
This is typical classic example.
Scarcity mindset will kill any guy. If abundance mindset then guy will succeed easily.
Example - if gal said want to see me. I said ok. BuT i will not stopped doing anything just waiting to see this gal. I will continue to do my usual routine work or important jobs.
If another gal msg said want to meet I will still meet her. Why? Answer is you never know which gal dun turn up or keep to appointment.
We can always accept and go multiple dates.
Hope this is what bro WB trying to say.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
A man must hv many options. Keep 2 or more LPs/mistresses/lovers/GFs…
In the last one year, on two occasions, my two LPs had their big aunties coming within 48 hrs.
I’m not apologetic for giving the following advice to every bro:
“Behave as if you have 100 beautiful and high-quality women of your type, who are non-WLs, calling you and wanting to fuck you every day. And they are all emotionally and sexually addicted to you.”
Quote:
Originally Posted by
steppop
I also will not allow that.
Thanks bro WB for a great thread.
Have a good week ahead.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
BiggerLeague
Read the first few pages and so impressed.
Thanks bro WB for a very good thread.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
jessel
Multiple dates are the best!
Thanks bro WB for this awesome thread.
Cheeros.
Tks, bros.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
cantho
Nice one Bro WB
Will master this skill in the forum.
I will keep asking gals “do you want to go to bed yet”
Haha…hope I succeed.
EVen if 1% willing then I am success.
Cheers.
Bro, you’re right.
Always be Mode One.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
novascotia
Great compliment for a laojiao.
Tks, bro. Bro Justime is a BY master. Read his thread Mistress.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
novascotia
This good bro wrote well.
His points are good too.
Yes, he is very good.
The “women market” is very inefficient. A man w/ the right mindset can do very well w/ a limited budget.
Less Is More!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
novascotia
Finally managed to read all the forums between various bros and Mr Don Juan.
Bro WB
Great that you do not bother to reply him.
When a person wants to have WAR then no end to the tons of arguments. Think Mr DJ is a small needy kid not knowing what he has or can do.
Anyway cheers to you.
Bro, tks.
Look at his posts this yr. It’s all abt Fls n massage women.
I hv been waiting for 5 years to see his “super chio SYTs.” Or just to see him in person.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DoctorGoodie
Will try to master this skill too.
Have a nice day.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
vinastar
A great compliment indeed!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
HSBCtalker
Fully agreed, very good points.
Cheers.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
KelvinFiend
Fantastic forum by bro WB, thanks for sharing so much!
Bros, tks.
Have a great night!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Bgyu
Thanks for all the insightful read Bro wb. Best thread ever!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
winnipeg
Agreed with Roosh.
I will not allow gal assert frame over me.
Cheers bro WB.
Bros, tks.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
cygnini
Bro WB
This is typical classic example.
Scarcity mindset will kill any guy. If abundance mindset then guy will succeed easily.
Example - if gal said want to see me. I said ok. BuT i will not stopped doing anything just waiting to see this gal. I will continue to do my usual routine work or important jobs.
If another gal msg said want to meet I will still meet her. Why? Answer is you never know which gal dun turn up or keep to appointment.
We can always accept and go multiple dates.
Hope this is what bro WB trying to say.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
A man must hv many options. Keep 2 or more LPs/mistresses/lovers/GFs…
In the last one year, on two occasions, my two LPs had their big aunties coming within 48 hrs.
I’m not apologetic for giving the following advice to every bro:
“Behave as if you have 100 beautiful and high-quality women of your type, who are non-WLs, calling you and wanting to fuck you every day. And they are all emotionally and sexually addicted to you.”
Quote:
Originally Posted by
steppop
I also will not allow that.
Thanks bro WB for a great thread.
Have a good week ahead.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
BiggerLeague
Read the first few pages and so impressed.
Thanks bro WB for a very good thread.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
jessel
Multiple dates are the best!
Thanks bro WB for this awesome thread.
Cheeros.
Tks, bros.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
cantho
Nice one Bro WB
Will master this skill in the forum.
I will keep asking gals “do you want to go to bed yet”
Haha…hope I succeed.
EVen if 1% willing then I am success.
Cheers.
Bro, you’re right.
Always be Mode One.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
novascotia
Great compliment for a laojiao.
Tks, bro. Bro Justime is a BY master. Read his thread Mistress.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
novascotia
This good bro wrote well.
His points are good too.
Yes, he is very good.
The “women market” is very inefficient. A man w/ the right mindset can do very well w/ a limited budget.
Less Is More!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
novascotia
Finally managed to read all the forums between various bros and Mr Don Juan.
Bro WB
Great that you do not bother to reply him.
When a person wants to have WAR then no end to the tons of arguments. Think Mr DJ is a small needy kid not knowing what he has or can do.
Anyway cheers to you.
Bro, tks.
Look at his posts this yr. It’s all abt Fls n massage women.
I hv been waiting for 5 years to see his “super chio SYTs.” Or just to see him in person.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DoctorGoodie
Will try to master this skill too.
Have a nice day.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
vinastar
A great compliment indeed!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
HSBCtalker
Fully agreed, very good points.
Cheers.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
KelvinFiend
Fantastic forum by bro WB, thanks for sharing so much!
Bros, tks.
Have a great night!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Bgyu
Thanks for all the insightful read Bro wb. Best thread ever!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
winnipeg
Agreed with Roosh.
I will not allow gal assert frame over me.
Cheers bro WB.
Bros, tks.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
cygnini
Bro WB
This is typical classic example.
Scarcity mindset will kill any guy. If abundance mindset then guy will succeed easily.
Example - if gal said want to see me. I said ok. BuT i will not stopped doing anything just waiting to see this gal. I will continue to do my usual routine work or important jobs.
If another gal msg said want to meet I will still meet her. Why? Answer is you never know which gal dun turn up or keep to appointment.
We can always accept and go multiple dates.
Hope this is what bro WB trying to say.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
A man must hv many options. Keep 2 or more LPs/mistresses/lovers/GFs…
In the last one year, on two occasions, my two LPs had their big aunties coming within 48 hrs.
I’m not apologetic for giving the following advice to every bro:
“Behave as if you have 100 beautiful and high-quality women of your type, who are non-WLs, calling you and wanting to fuck you every day. And they are all emotionally and sexually addicted to you.”
Quote:
Originally Posted by
steppop
I also will not allow that.
Thanks bro WB for a great thread.
Have a good week ahead.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
BiggerLeague
Read the first few pages and so impressed.
Thanks bro WB for a very good thread.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
jessel
Multiple dates are the best!
Thanks bro WB for this awesome thread.
Cheeros.
Tks, bros.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
cantho
Nice one Bro WB
Will master this skill in the forum.
I will keep asking gals “do you want to go to bed yet”
Haha…hope I succeed.
EVen if 1% willing then I am success.
Cheers.
Bro, you’re right.
Always be Mode One.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
novascotia
Great compliment for a laojiao.
Tks, bro. Bro Justime is a BY master. Read his thread Mistress.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
novascotia
This good bro wrote well.
His points are good too.
Yes, he is very good.
The “women market” is very inefficient. A man w/ the right mindset can do very well w/ a limited budget.
Less Is More!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
novascotia
Finally managed to read all the forums between various bros and Mr Don Juan.
Bro WB
Great that you do not bother to reply him.
When a person wants to have WAR then no end to the tons of arguments. Think Mr DJ is a small needy kid not knowing what he has or can do.
Anyway cheers to you.
Bro, tks.
Look at his posts this yr. It’s all abt Fls n massage women.
I hv been waiting for 5 years to see his “super chio SYTs.” Or just to see him in person.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DoctorGoodie
Will try to master this skill too.
Have a nice day.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
vinastar
A great compliment indeed!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
HSBCtalker
Fully agreed, very good points.
Cheers.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
KelvinFiend
Fantastic forum by bro WB, thanks for sharing so much!
Bros, tks.
Have a great night!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
4707030319
Bro WB
I agreed with you and think this gal is jsut ordinary and not worth even 10k per month.
I smell plenty of sour grapes too.
Anyway interesting enough to go thru all the exchanges last few pages.
Thanks.
Bro, tks.
She is very ordinary. Maybe OK for ST, but not good enough for BY.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
4707030319
I also agreed that clients are important.
Why argue with clients who are paying you.
You’re right.
Thes two bros are very experienced.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
4707030319
Bro WB
I love your take home lesson.
Aspiring to be one of you.
Hope for the best.
Cheers
Bro, thanks for quoting my old post.
If you love or like a doll very much, let her go. If she comes back to you, she may be yours forever. if she doesn’t, then it was never meant to be.
If you become jealous, needy, clingy and desperate, you will lose her forever
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Originally Posted by
hounian128
I also think this gal is just ordinary, not worth at all.
Thank you bro WB for this great thread.
Cheers.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
sgstaff
My exact sentiments. Never argue with clients.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
LastDeji
Aspiring too.
Thanks for this nice thread and have a great weekend.
Bros, tks.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
robusta
Bro WB
I also belive in peace and not war. No point argue for the sake of arguing and ended flaming each other.
Personally I think when you started this thread with teh intention to source or discuss how to pick up gals from ktv, you were not very sure how long this thread will lasts.
Over the years you had improved and polished up your skills set and doing well.
The same person who said you throwing money had already changed his mind. He saw the frugal side of you.
I had enjoyed your thread very much.
Please keep up the great effort.
Happy weekend.
Bro, tks.
Yes, I hv learned a lot in the last 10 yrs. But I urgently need to continue to improve…
It’s foolish to waste money.
Less is more w/ women.
TY is one of the highest quality girls I hv ever seen. I’m keeping her full time by spending only a fraction of what a much older plastic woman at Lido/P8 would demand.
I sent her some extra money for CNY over two months ago n she returned it immediately. I don’t remember anyone else has refused money from me, not even my kids or legal wife. She was a 嫩模/actress before coming to SG to study.
Even though it would be very difficult for me to meet another girl as good as TY, I don’t care if I lose her. I keep my power in the RS. I behave as if 100 beautiful n high-quality girls…she is actually very scared of losing me.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
robusta
There is no such thing as FOC.
Think before saying FOC. Time and money spend dating. Money spend on food and shopping.
May cost more than paying for a FL.
Cheers.
Bro, I couldn’t agree w/ you more.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
robusta
Bro justime hit the nail in the coffin.
If you BY a gal all the terms and conditions set up negotiated. No exciuse there will be no sex.
When you go for FOC there will be plenty of chances you dont get sex.
Cheers.
Bro Justime is a master of BY. I learned a lot from him during my formative yrs.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
SBMEDSUP
Have a good weekend to all bros here!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
alexcaro
I also believe in peace.
Very good thread by bro WB here, thanks very much.
Cheers.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
TriVenus
Agree with you to the point.
Really awesome thread by Bro WB.
Have a good weekend!
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Originally Posted by
3da3da3da
Indeed no such thing as FOC, nothing in this world is free.
Very informative thread by bro WB, thanks!!
Enjoy your weekend.
Bros, tks so much.
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Originally Posted by
LiuBei
Everytime if I feel I’m going to kena KC or do stupid stuff, I will come to Bro WB thread and get a fistful of sense knock into me
Bro, you hv made my day! I’m so pleased that my posts hv been helpful to you.
Cheers to all!
Bro WB
Good afternoon,
What an auspicious day!
In mid-July 2017, I came across a book entitled How To Get Girls by Charles Sledge. I couldn’t get it from Amazon. I emailed the author and he was kind enough to send the ebook to me. I said that I would write a brief review after reading it. He also sent his other ebook To Be A Man.
I hv read How To Get Girls four times and To Be A Man once. These two books stress the importance of becoming a MAN w/ masculine and dominant behavior. I’ve been getting better n better w/ girls/women of my type. I have an abundance mindset…plenty of EVERYTHING, including cute young LPs, good friends, money, optimal health, happiness, peace, kindness, new ideas, luck…
Yes, I agree w/ Charlie that women are easy and women love sex.
Perhaps I’m able to get n keep cute SYTs such as 18 yo TY partly because of what I hv learned from the books. My old lover LS, who is 22 but still very cute, also returned to me last year. I must have the right mindset.
I also intend to read both books a few more times.
I’m recommending these books to bros here, without reservations. Get them from Amazon. You could get the paperback or the ebook. Must read them at least several times.
I want to make it clear that I’m NOT getting a penny by recommending these books.
Here is a passage from the book How To Get Girl. Just to “whet your appetite.” I hv done minimal editing.
3 Mindset Switches To Make That’ll
Have You Getting Laid 10x As Much
Having lots of sex is a mindset. To get laid a lot you
have to have the right beliefs. I know that goes against
much of what you have heard but it is the truth.
Looks, money, fame and such while attractive to women are not the
way to go about having the sex life that you want. There
are ways that are much easier and exponentially more
effective.
Take a man who has all the looks, fame, money,
or whatever else society has led you to believe women
want and put him up against a man who has the right
mindset in regards to bedding lots of women, and the man
with the right mindset is going to come out on top every
time.
I’m not denying that women like looks, money,
or fame. Looks are nice to make their girlfriends jealous,
money is good to take advantage of, and fame is nice to
again make her girlfriends jealous. However, there are
much more effective ways. For example, being
a dominant masculine man turns women on viscerally.
Enough that she’ll forget about her good looking, rich,
famous boyfriend or husband. And no, I’m not kidding.
If you want to be a good target then, by all means, pursue
looks, money, and fame to the exclusion of developing
yourself as a man. However, if you’d rather be the man
women want rather than use, then you have to go about it a
different way. And your mindset is the start.
Switch #1 – The Abundance Mindset
The first thing that you have to realize is that women
are incredibly plentiful. Women are everywhere. No
matter how sexy/awesome/whatever the girl you are with
is, there is always one better and younger.
Like I said in The Primer “Most women are interchangeable and all
women are replaceable.” Women are an abundant
resource. Remember having an abundance mindset is an
essential part of all aspects of your life, women are not an exception. Women are not rare but bountiful. You can always get a newer better one.
Many guys get caught up in one girl on in a few
select girls. They fail to see the opportunity all around
them. Every day new beautiful women come of age and
this cycle is not stopping. Women are abundant. Never
focus on a woman (or a few women) to the exclusion of
all women.
There are more beautiful women in the world
than you could ever hope to sleep with. Like an all you
can eat buffet. Even if you wanted to eat it all you
couldn’t. The same holds true with women. They are
abundant, you might as well worry about the ocean
running out of water than worrying about not finding a
better/great/sexy woman.
Switch #2 – Women Are Easy
I don’t say this as a derogatory term but simply as a fact. While men are often given the easy label (because
they are) the truth is women are also easy just one they
hide it and two there has to be certain stipulations. Meet
those stipulations and it’s game on.
Women are easy granted that you are the right man. Sure if you are a wimp
with no game, no women aren’t going to be easy for you.
They’ll put you in the friend zone and hope one day you
get rich or famous or good looking enough so they can
live off you while banging their deadbeat ex-boyfriend.
Women are easy. Get this in your mind. Women will
have sex with the right man within five minutes of
meeting him if things are right. Only suckers think they
have to go on dates with women or spend a certain
amount of time with them before they can have sex.
Women will have sex with a guy they just met if he turns
her on. This holds true for all types of women, not just
women most would label “easy”. Remember all women
are easy if you are a man. Get this in your head as society
programs you to believe women are hard when in fact
they are just playing hard. That’s why it’s called playing
hard to get not being hard to get.
Switch #3 – Women Love Sex
This also goes against what society and the majority
of men would have you believe. They say women only
want money or flowers but they hate sex. Hate to
break it to them but women only want money and flowers
from men who have nothing else to offer.
They want sex from real men and are most likely getting sex from real
men when you empty your wallet or affection to them.
Women love sex with real dominant men. Look at how
well 50 Shades of Grey has sold.
Women love sex. Of course, that’s only with the right
men. This is something that most men will have to work
to get into their heads. Women are sexual creatures. They
all have sexual thoughts, feelings, and desires often
raunchy and more hardcore than the average man would
expect. Of course, they do a great job of hiding this from
the average guy as they are afraid of being judged for it.
Women have many of the same feelings as guys it’s just
that women hide and mask things much more than men do
and are much less likely to admit things that have the
potential to tarnish their reputation. Remember a woman
will do anything so long as her reputation remains intact.
Summary
To get laid a lot you have to have the right beliefs and
the right mindset. The three beliefs above go against
much of your social programming (which has misled
you).
If this is your first exposure to these ideas it may
take some time to sink in but keep them in your mind and
trust me they will sink in. Go out and test these ideas and
when you find them to be true they will sink in even
deeper.
Instead of pursuing money, looks, and fame to be a
good target pursue the right mindset and be a man.
Then you will be the man women desire instead of
the man women use.
Others will wonder how and why you get laid so much but you will know. It is because you have the right mindset and therefore the right beliefs
regarding women and sex. You see everything stems from
your mindset. Have the right beliefs and your life lines up
accordingly. Have the right beliefs regarding money and
you will get rich and so on and so forth. All is the mindset,
including making sure you get laid a lot.
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4707030319
Bro WB
I agreed with you and think this gal is jsut ordinary and not worth even 10k per month.
I smell plenty of sour grapes too.
Anyway interesting enough to go thru all the exchanges last few pages.
Thanks.
Bro, tks.
She is very ordinary. Maybe OK for ST, but not good enough for BY.
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4707030319
I also agreed that clients are important.
Why argue with clients who are paying you.
You’re right.
Thes two bros are very experienced.
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4707030319
Bro WB
I love your take home lesson.
Aspiring to be one of you.
Hope for the best.
Cheers
Bro, thanks for quoting my old post.
If you love or like a doll very much, let her go. If she comes back to you, she may be yours forever. if she doesn’t, then it was never meant to be.
If you become jealous, needy, clingy and desperate, you will lose her forever
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hounian128
I also think this gal is just ordinary, not worth at all.
Thank you bro WB for this great thread.
Cheers.
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sgstaff
My exact sentiments. Never argue with clients.
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Originally Posted by
LastDeji
Aspiring too.
Thanks for this nice thread and have a great weekend.
Bros, tks.
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robusta
Bro WB
I also belive in peace and not war. No point argue for the sake of arguing and ended flaming each other.
Personally I think when you started this thread with teh intention to source or discuss how to pick up gals from ktv, you were not very sure how long this thread will lasts.
Over the years you had improved and polished up your skills set and doing well.
The same person who said you throwing money had already changed his mind. He saw the frugal side of you.
I had enjoyed your thread very much.
Please keep up the great effort.
Happy weekend.
Bro, tks.
Yes, I hv learned a lot in the last 10 yrs. But I urgently need to continue to improve…
It’s foolish to waste money.
Less is more w/ women.
TY is one of the highest quality girls I hv ever seen. I’m keeping her full time by spending only a fraction of what a much older plastic woman at Lido/P8 would demand.
I sent her some extra money for CNY over two months ago n she returned it immediately. I don’t remember anyone else has refused money from me, not even my kids or legal wife. She was a 嫩模/actress before coming to SG to study.
Even though it would be very difficult for me to meet another girl as good as TY, I don’t care if I lose her. I keep my power in the RS. I behave as if 100 beautiful n high-quality girls…she is actually very scared of losing me.
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robusta
There is no such thing as FOC.
Think before saying FOC. Time and money spend dating. Money spend on food and shopping.
May cost more than paying for a FL.
Cheers.
Bro, I couldn’t agree w/ you more.
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robusta
Bro justime hit the nail in the coffin.
If you BY a gal all the terms and conditions set up negotiated. No exciuse there will be no sex.
When you go for FOC there will be plenty of chances you dont get sex.
Cheers.
Bro Justime is a master of BY. I learned a lot from him during my formative yrs.
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SBMEDSUP
Have a good weekend to all bros here!
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Originally Posted by
alexcaro
I also believe in peace.
Very good thread by bro WB here, thanks very much.
Cheers.
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Originally Posted by
TriVenus
Agree with you to the point.
Really awesome thread by Bro WB.
Have a good weekend!
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Originally Posted by
3da3da3da
Indeed no such thing as FOC, nothing in this world is free.
Very informative thread by bro WB, thanks!!
Enjoy your weekend.
Bros, tks so much.
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Originally Posted by
LiuBei
Everytime if I feel I’m going to kena KC or do stupid stuff, I will come to Bro WB thread and get a fistful of sense knock into me
Bro, you hv made my day! I’m so pleased that my posts hv been helpful to you.
Cheers to all!
Bro WB