Bros,
I’m still in Gotham City, will return end of this month.
There are many pretty Chinese SYTs here. Would love to get a few of them to SG.
All bros are encouraged to join my outings when I’m back. Must be light drinker and be willing to smoke outside the room.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bros,
I’m still in Gotham City, will return end of this month.
There are many pretty Chinese SYTs here. Would love to get a few of them to SG.
All bros are encouraged to join my outings when I’m back. Must be light drinker and be willing to smoke outside the room.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning!
There are some cardinal rules re relationship that most men don’t truly understand.
I believe that chasing girls makes a man very unattractive.
Caring too much, trying to buy her affection/love w/ money and gifts or being insecure, needy or jealous is repulsive. The girl will try to run away if she could…it’s a certainty.
Remember the story of King Fuchai and Fan Li?
FL was the slave of King Go Jian when GJ himself was a slave of Fuchai. King Fuchai eventually lost Xi Shi to Fan Li!! Behave like Fan Li when interacting w/ the most beautiful girl in the world. And she may fall for u.
Here is a brief Email from a guru:
The biggest lesson I ever learned about attraction…
Like many guys I was really insecure about my looks.
So I spent a lot of money on fancy clothes, expensive personal trainers, and pricey haircuts.
At first I felt great…but my new look didn’t help me whatsoever in the dating department.
I was still a dateless virgin.
And this is because I believed women were attracted to men, the same way men are attracted to women.
Let me explain…
Typically a man sees a woman, determines if he finds her attractive, and then tries to build an emotional connection.
For women it’s the other way around…
When a woman meets a man, she determines if she’s attracted to that man based on the emotions he makes her feel.
When I learned this my entire life changed…
I stopped focusing on things that were out of my control, and started focusing on stirring positive emotions in women whom I just met.
This is just one of the biggest lessons I’ve ever learned when it comes to building attraction.
Take home lesson. Girls are not attracted to men the same way we men are attracted to them.
Here is something to encourage my fellow ah peks.
“Women get sexually turned on just as men do of course, but – owing to differences in reproductive biology – by a completely different set of mental processes. Men go for a VISUAL look that suggests youthfulness and thus fertility. But females aren’t interested in a man’s age so much because males remain virile well into the later part of their lifespan.”
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
randyrockhard
“I stopped focusing on things that were out of my control, and started focusing on stirring positive emotions in women whom I just met”
Grand Idea ….. easier said than done
Yup, nothing in life is easy.
Controlling one’s anger or giving up gambling is tougher.
Emotional mastery is THE most difficult thing in the world to achieve. It’s also the most desirable masculine character trait.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning to all samsters!
All bros are encouraged to post their FRs. Pls give enough details and I’ll comment on them.
Every encounter is a positive experience for me. I also learn a lot from detailed FRs n experiences of others. Not only your conquests n success stories but also rejections, failures, setbacks and break ups!!
I hv alluded to the fact that over 50% of my GFs/LPs/lovers/mistresses rejected me initially. At least 90% of those who had rebuffed me said yes, after weeks to many months and, in some cases, up to 2-3 years! A few of them actually hung up on me and avoided me as if I were a leper.
How you react to her rejection is the best indicator of whether you’re the prize or just another AFC or average frustrated chump. You must remain 很冷静，很笃定。
Here is an article on why we should embrace rejection.
How to Make Rejection Your Best Friend
It takes balls to get laid, both literally
and figuratively. Just like in business, you
must foster the drive within yourself to
succeed.
You must keep your focus on the goal and not
be sidetracked by the little details, like
being rejected.
The only way to have an abundant sex life is
through rejection.
Many of our students feel crushed when a
woman says “no.” They get depressed and want
to give up.
Or they feel bad about themselves and think
they are losers. We’ve also talked to guys
who throw tantrums, get angry and blame the
woman. These are natural reactions, but such
reactions won’t deliver the goods…sex.
The bottom line is that when a woman rejects
you, you must take the long term view of
things.
Hearing “no” is part of the process of
getting laid.
When a woman says “no” you don’t push it.
This would damage your self-esteem, and could
get you thrown in jail.
What you do is go on to the next woman. You
must train yourself as a dating commando to
view and interpret all “no’s” as steps along
the way to your ultimate success.
Obviously it sucks to have a woman say “no.”
It also sucks to be spanking off in your room
all alone.
Remember: it isn’t personal.
Men ask, and women say “yes” or “no.”
Everyone, even seduction masters, hear “no”
from women. They persist, and so must you.
Even if it takes 1,000 no’s for one yes,
persistence is the only way.
If your goal really is to have an abundant
sex life, you must never, ever, ever give up.
You may give up on a particular woman, but
you don’t give up on your ultimate goal of
abundant sex.
This never-give-up attitude is the key
difference between a guy who is successful
and another guy who is at the whim of his
emotions and fails frequently.
The guy who doesn’t let the rejection bother
him succeeds, and the other guy fails.
Which one do you want to be?
It is useful to view dating as a numbers
game. Keep in mind that even the most
masterful seducers only pick up 10% of women
they hit on.
What they do is just keep on going and enjoy
the process, like an adventure.
You are learning a new art form, developing a
new muscle, a new way of acting in the world
and rejection will happen along the way.
Be patient, for God’s sake. No more whining.
Here are some things to remember:
- It isn’t personal. Every man gets rejected
some of the time.
- There are thousands of women who would be
happy for you to do them tonight! You just
don’t know who they are and you give up too
fast when you aren’t willing to risk
rejection.
- Getting laid is a numbers game. A certain
percent of women will say “no” and a certain
percent will say “yes.”
- Look at successful sports figures. Babe
Ruth had the most home runs, but also had a
huge number of strike-outs! Like Babe, you
must be willing to swing for all you are
worth and strike out sometimes. - If you are
rejected, just go on to the next woman.
That’s all there is to it.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning to all samsters!
All bros are encouraged to post their FRs. Pls give enough details and I’ll comment on them.
Every encounter is a positive experience for me. I also learn a lot from detailed FRs n experiences of others. Not only your conquests n success stories but also rejections, failures, setbacks and break ups!!
I hv alluded to the fact that over 50% of my GFs/LPs/lovers/mistresses rejected me initially. At least 90% of those who had rebuffed me said yes, after weeks to many months and, in some cases, up to 2-3 years! A few of them actually hung up on me and avoided me as if I were a leper.
How you react to her rejection is the best indicator of whether you’re the prize or just another AFC or average frustrated chump. You must remain 很冷静，很笃定。
Here is an article on why we should embrace rejection.
How to Make Rejection Your Best Friend
It takes balls to get laid, both literally
and figuratively. Just like in business, you
must foster the drive within yourself to
succeed.
You must keep your focus on the goal and not
be sidetracked by the little details, like
being rejected.
The only way to have an abundant sex life is
through rejection.
Many of our students feel crushed when a
woman says “no.” They get depressed and want
to give up.
Or they feel bad about themselves and think
they are losers. We’ve also talked to guys
who throw tantrums, get angry and blame the
woman. These are natural reactions, but such
reactions won’t deliver the goods…sex.
The bottom line is that when a woman rejects
you, you must take the long term view of
things.
Hearing “no” is part of the process of
getting laid.
When a woman says “no” you don’t push it.
This would damage your self-esteem, and could
get you thrown in jail.
What you do is go on to the next woman. You
must train yourself as a dating commando to
view and interpret all “no’s” as steps along
the way to your ultimate success.
Obviously it sucks to have a woman say “no.”
It also sucks to be spanking off in your room
all alone.
Remember: it isn’t personal.
Men ask, and women say “yes” or “no.”
Everyone, even seduction masters, hear “no”
from women. They persist, and so must you.
Even if it takes 1,000 no’s for one yes,
persistence is the only way.
If your goal really is to have an abundant
sex life, you must never, ever, ever give up.
You may give up on a particular woman, but
you don’t give up on your ultimate goal of
abundant sex.
This never-give-up attitude is the key
difference between a guy who is successful
and another guy who is at the whim of his
emotions and fails frequently.
The guy who doesn’t let the rejection bother
him succeeds, and the other guy fails.
Which one do you want to be?
It is useful to view dating as a numbers
game. Keep in mind that even the most
masterful seducers only pick up 10% of women
they hit on.
What they do is just keep on going and enjoy
the process, like an adventure.
You are learning a new art form, developing a
new muscle, a new way of acting in the world
and rejection will happen along the way.
Be patient, for God’s sake. No more whining.
Here are some things to remember:
- It isn’t personal. Every man gets rejected
some of the time.
- There are thousands of women who would be
happy for you to do them tonight! You just
don’t know who they are and you give up too
fast when you aren’t willing to risk
rejection.
- Getting laid is a numbers game. A certain
percent of women will say “no” and a certain
percent will say “yes.”
- Look at successful sports figures. Babe
Ruth had the most home runs, but also had a
huge number of strike-outs! Like Babe, you
must be willing to swing for all you are
worth and strike out sometimes. - If you are
rejected, just go on to the next woman.
That’s all there is to it.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning!
There are some cardinal rules re relationship that most men don’t truly understand.
I believe that chasing girls makes a man very unattractive.
Caring too much, trying to buy her affection/love w/ money and gifts or being insecure, needy or jealous is repulsive. The girl will try to run away if she could…it’s a certainty.
Remember the story of King Fuchai and Fan Li?
FL was the slave of King Go Jian when GJ himself was a slave of Fuchai. King Fuchai eventually lost Xi Shi to Fan Li!! Behave like Fan Li when interacting w/ the most beautiful girl in the world. And she may fall for u.
Here is a brief Email from a guru:
The biggest lesson I ever learned about attraction…
Like many guys I was really insecure about my looks.
So I spent a lot of money on fancy clothes, expensive personal trainers, and pricey haircuts.
At first I felt great…but my new look didn’t help me whatsoever in the dating department.
I was still a dateless virgin.
And this is because I believed women were attracted to men, the same way men are attracted to women.
Let me explain…
Typically a man sees a woman, determines if he finds her attractive, and then tries to build an emotional connection.
For women it’s the other way around…
When a woman meets a man, she determines if she’s attracted to that man based on the emotions he makes her feel.
When I learned this my entire life changed…
I stopped focusing on things that were out of my control, and started focusing on stirring positive emotions in women whom I just met.
This is just one of the biggest lessons I’ve ever learned when it comes to building attraction.
Take home lesson. Girls are not attracted to men the same way we men are attracted to them.
Here is something to encourage my fellow ah peks.
“Women get sexually turned on just as men do of course, but – owing to differences in reproductive biology – by a completely different set of mental processes. Men go for a VISUAL look that suggests youthfulness and thus fertility. But females aren’t interested in a man’s age so much because males remain virile well into the later part of their lifespan.”
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning!
There are some cardinal rules re relationship that most men don’t truly understand.
I believe that chasing girls makes a man very unattractive.
Caring too much, trying to buy her affection/love w/ money and gifts or being insecure, needy or jealous is repulsive. The girl will try to run away if she could…it’s a certainty.
Remember the story of King Fuchai and Fan Li?
FL was the slave of King Go Jian when GJ himself was a slave of Fuchai. King Fuchai eventually lost Xi Shi to Fan Li!! Behave like Fan Li when interacting w/ the most beautiful girl in the world. And she may fall for u.
Here is a brief Email from a guru:
The biggest lesson I ever learned about attraction…
Like many guys I was really insecure about my looks.
So I spent a lot of money on fancy clothes, expensive personal trainers, and pricey haircuts.
At first I felt great…but my new look didn’t help me whatsoever in the dating department.
I was still a dateless virgin.
And this is because I believed women were attracted to men, the same way men are attracted to women.
Let me explain…
Typically a man sees a woman, determines if he finds her attractive, and then tries to build an emotional connection.
For women it’s the other way around…
When a woman meets a man, she determines if she’s attracted to that man based on the emotions he makes her feel.
When I learned this my entire life changed…
I stopped focusing on things that were out of my control, and started focusing on stirring positive emotions in women whom I just met.
This is just one of the biggest lessons I’ve ever learned when it comes to building attraction.
Take home lesson. Girls are not attracted to men the same way we men are attracted to them.
Here is something to encourage my fellow ah peks.
“Women get sexually turned on just as men do of course, but – owing to differences in reproductive biology – by a completely different set of mental processes. Men go for a VISUAL look that suggests youthfulness and thus fertility. But females aren’t interested in a man’s age so much because males remain virile well into the later part of their lifespan.”
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
randyrockhard
“I stopped focusing on things that were out of my control, and started focusing on stirring positive emotions in women whom I just met”
Grand Idea ….. easier said than done
Yup, nothing in life is easy.
Controlling one’s anger or giving up gambling is tougher.
Emotional mastery is THE most difficult thing in the world to achieve. It’s also the most desirable masculine character trait.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
randyrockhard
“I stopped focusing on things that were out of my control, and started focusing on stirring positive emotions in women whom I just met”
Grand Idea ….. easier said than done
Yup, nothing in life is easy.
Controlling one’s anger or giving up gambling is tougher.
Emotional mastery is THE most difficult thing in the world to achieve. It’s also the most desirable masculine character trait.
Cheers!
Bro WB