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I told her from inspecting from toe to head and if I like I will screw you, she smile.
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You have to go to my secret place, she agreed.
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What is your damages, she say this type of terms she is not familiar I kept silent since she is not familiar.
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Can you drink, she say yes.
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I will test you for an hour and if we can click then we proceed longer, she agree.
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I told her from inspecting from toe to head and if I like I will screw you, she smile.
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You have to go to my secret place, she agreed.
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What is your damages, she say this type of terms she is not familiar I kept silent since she is not familiar.
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Can you drink, she say yes.
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I will test you for an hour and if we can click then we proceed longer, she agree.
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Hanging flowers and getting into flower wars is for BIG SUCKERS aka patsies. Sorry for being so blunt, but I’m dead serious. The fiction cost is exorbitant n it would be THE most inefficient way to get the girls /women of my type. It’s more abt boosting my fragile ego and showing off than abt the singers. Moreover, there are “fake flowers,” fraud and money laundering, not something I want to get involved in any way.
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By hanging big flowers and competing w/ other patrons for the singers, I’m announcing that I’m a chaser and that they hv higher social n sexual value than me. It’s the same as putting big signs on my head and scream: Please look at me, I’m inferior, I’m insecure n I’m hanging big flowers so that you will notice me, because I’m a born loser, I don’t believe I deserve you n I hv nothing else to offer u. This unmanly, needy n wussy behaviour is most repulsive to the subconscious minds of the girls. Of course I’ll get their pussies if I hang enough but it will be extremely difficult to overcome their initial negative (mostly subconscious) perceptions of me. Even if subsequently I could give them PVOs again n again, it would not be enough to get them addicted.
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The timing of HFJs is inconvenient for me as I sleep early. I go to SH at KTVs only twice a month n I always leave before midnight. “Early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.”
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It’s very difficult to judge the physical attractiveness of singers inside the HFJs because of the lighting, hairdo, make up and long evening gowns which cover their thighs and legs. But they can’t fool me. I like to see a girl’s bare thighs n legs clearly in broad daylight before BY-ing. Mummy J used to arrange my prospective mistresses to meet me in hot pants during the day haha.
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Most successful singers are ruthless psychopaths and/or sociopaths w/ narcissistic personality disorder. They are poisons to me. What is one’s goal or endpoint w/ them? Can’t define success unless you hv a clear n well defined goal. ST or BY? Beat out all the other customers to get their pussies? Or get them emotionally n sexually addicted? Marry one of them? Become a gigolo to them?
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Singers are usually here only 6 months n it’s difficult for them to return for the next 12 months. If I like a girl, I like to keep her long term, until she becomes unattractive to me. Six months is just to short if a pussy is exquisite.
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Demonstrate his awesome emotional and self mastery to her, which will take some time.
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And he has to give her frequent copulatory vaginal orgasms ( PVOs or CVOs ) until she is emotionally n sexually addicted to him. This will also take some time. Then and only then, she will have a very difficult time leaving him, even if he treats her badly or cheats on her. [Grin][Grin]
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Originally Posted by
abugga
Hi bro Warbird,
There is no right or wrong answer to everything in this world. These are all merely textbook discussions. For our pastime and reference only.
I may disclose some of my personal limited experiences, limited due to my young age haha. open for all to see, to ridicule, and to educate my errors. Until I can correctly sort them out into words, i would like to invite other readers to perhaps share more?
Bro abugga,
Yes, you’re right. One man’s meat is another man’s poison. One woman’s frog is another woman’s prince haha.
If your subconscious mind has a set of beliefs and preconceptions, it will reject everything that doesn’t agree w/ it. Then there is the Rashomon Effect…
It’s great to be young. Are u younger than 30?
Please share your real-life, personal exploits w/ us. Most bros are just too shy or too busy to write FRs.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
abugga
Hi Bro WarBird,
it has been awhile since I have posted anything although I have been an ardent reader of your posts.
It is unfortunate however it seems that no other bros in this forum could contribute text book cases for us to discuss and analyse, perhaps even learn more from.
I would like to ask, if you have read any of Ayn Rand’s works, it seems to me that there is a huge similarity in the main characters within Ayn Rand’s literature to what is discussed here.
Dubbed the “randian hero”, the Randian hero is the creative individualist……………………
Generally a Randian hero is characterized by
radical individualism,
moral resolution
, intelligence/aptitude,
self-control, emotional discipline
, and (frequently, but not always) attractive physical characteristics in the eyes of other Randian heroes. Rand’s heroes are tall, strong and upright; the females share slender figures, defiant stances and the impression of internal calmness, while the males are physically hard and supple, often with gray eyes.
Interestingly, as you have pointed out, she has also insinuated that all relationships are based of an exchange of “virtue or value”, in short, a business transaction sealed with an unknown currency to all except the parties involved…………………
Do watch her other interviews as well…………………….But I believe this is very related to what you have discussed here, unfortunately the consensus of many men today do not even vaguely, grasp this concept.
I would like to hear your thoughts, and other readers do chime in as well.
Bro abugga,
Thanks for ur post! I hv heard of her, never read her books. IMHO, “the superior man” as defined by David Deida is more manly and enlightened compared to her so-called “ideal man.”
“The most erotic moment for a woman is feeling that you are Shiva, the divine masculine: unperturbable, totally loving, fully present, and all-pervading. She cannot move you, because you already are what you are, with or without her. She cannot scare you away, because you already penetrate her in fearless love, pervading her heart and body. She cannot distract you, because your one-pointed commitment to truth will not bend to her wiles. Feeling this hugeness of love and freedom in you, she can trust you, utterly, and surrender her testing in celebration of love.” — David Deida
“You are only punishing yourself when you want to be in a relationship with a woman more than she wants to be a in a relationship with you.” — David Deida
“If you are waiting for anything in order to live and love without holding back, then you suffer. Every moment is the most important moment of your life. No future time is better than now to let down your guard and love.” — David Deida
http://www.deida.info/books/the-way-...man-get-easier
IMHO, ALL human RS are strictly business transactions, based on exchange of value or friendship or kindness or money or assets or ego or self esteem or beliefs or companionship or memories or good will or emotions or sex or pleasure or love or ideas or happiness or power or opportunities, etc., etc…or a combination of the above…it’s a give and take, a trade, nothing more and nothing less. If one party perceives that the transaction is unequal n unfair, the RS will end eventually hahaha.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
chenzong
One of your great, informative long posts, WB!
My problem is the other way round - the consequences of having a needy, clingy and suicidal woman when the breakup inevitably occurs. And this even after plenty of warnings in advance that our relationship is not meant to last, I have a family, etc, etc.
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Bro chenzong,
Thank u for ur post! I hv not mentioned break up withdrawal from the female point of view. They suffer just as much at least initially, but, in most cases, they are able to recover faster. One reason is that they get more support from their friends and family members. They also tend to exaggerate n dramatize their despair and sufferings. Most of their “suicide attempts” are meant to manipulate a man’s emotions.
Relax bro, what is funny is that the outwardly suicidal women will attempt suicides but never, if ever, succeed. You must watch out for the silent type! They may hold back their tears in front of u, say nothing, but go home n cry n cry. Don’t be surprised to read abt their obituary a few days or weeks later.
I told my young mistress TH in late 2013 that I was leaving her. Her reactions were quite strong. Crying, messaging me n calling me many times a day. She slept poorly n felt anxious, insecure, had pressure on her chest, etc. I dumped her because, in addition to my lao po WX, I thought I just found a prettier SYT. But this new gal suffered from depression! I took TH back after several months.
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Originally Posted by
instantlove
Suicidal women there is one carnal rule, BREAK OFF ASAP and then put her on suicide watch informing external agencies.
At the same time all forms of contact with her is removed or discontinued. Mobile, email , chat ID etc etc.
It is not worth the emotional drain, even if the sex is incredible (usually is with the craziest ones). Start looking for another piece of ass with your buddy.
Bro instantlove,
Thanks for your advice.
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Originally Posted by
instantlove
Nice piece WB bro, its very informative.
Many bros had our fair share of that gal who got under our skin. Could not stop thinking of her, cannot work, cannot think, man possessed, lost etc etc. Its always something small that gets you, like the way she moans or the expression she gives when doing it and unknowingly she got under your skin and BANG your hooked.
To get out of her, the most efficient method is to find a bro or a group of bros and go cheong together frequently and explore new hunting grounds. Just keep meeting new gals and very soon its over. Not easy initially but the bro company helps a lot.
I am more concerned with Bros who are so in love with the gal and is willing to financially stress or worst ruin himself just to keep her smiling. Always remember this carnal rule … “if she truly loves you, she will not waste your money” The key word being waste.
So the key is getting a girl to love you, and BRO WB got it spot on. Make her cum so hard so much so often she will beg for you to stop with the sweetest most blissful smile. Orgasms = Feeling of Love (I find most Asian women are wired this way). The more a girl gets mind blowing orgasms via penetration, clit or g-spot stimulations (they are all different so its YOUR job to find out which one or which combination works) they more love they will feel towards you. There are additional instant benefits to being a generous giver / lover, they will always want to have sex with you so you never have to plea for it and when they see you, they are already moist. EPIC WIN.
Unfortunately many drop the ball on this. Either too bloody lazy or fussy to go down or be on top or use tongue or use hands to make them happy which takes some time for gals for the initial cum. Most guys always want to jizz quickly because of this massive internal urgent feeling of needing release and then almost instantly after released, feels super shag and fall sleep.
Lets pause for one moment and imagine us guys in the equivalent situation, we penetrate a girl and she cums real fast (3 strokes) and then her virgina becomes dry instantly where u cannot penetrate further and she falls off asleep so no BJ, you are left with a raging hardon and cannot jerk off (no release in other words), HOW DOES IT FEEL? Sex becomes a torture for the unsatisfied partner. Will love ever prevail or even exist anymore? Does money and expensive gifts compensate enough for that torturous feeling?
For those bro who release too quickly, never penetrate right away, use your ‘other sex organs’ (hands and tongue) to make sure she gets plenty of satisfaction and after she begs you to stop, as its too exhausting, then say its your turn, and penetrate. By then even if you shoot real quick its fine because she has had her fill and she will be wonderfully happy it is reciprocated quickly !
Cheers
Bro instantlove,
Thank you!! Very good post, very astute observations from decades of hand-on “battle field” experiences. You are like a veteran general, a military strategist n a natural!
Let me quote you:
“if she truly loves you, she will not waste your money” The key word being waste.
I agree w/ bro instanlove 100%. In a long term man-woman RS, sexual satisfaction for both is crucial. I can’t stress this point enough.
PVOs n more PVOs. It’s do or die for a man. if a man has given a gal frequent PVOs, her attitude n actions towards him will change. If she hasn’t changed, she is faking it. Lol.
To really satisfy a woman emotionally n sexually, a man’s right mindset n sexual confidence is the key. Techniques, positions n stamina are of secondary importance.
If he doesn’t hv a healthy dose of sexual confidence, nothing else is going to work…his girl will sense his lack of sexual confidence, insecurity, need for approval/validation 100 meters away. He has just become sexually repulsive(mostly subconsciously) to her regardless of his height, age, looks, wealth, status, fame, etc. She will try to leave him or cheat on him, even if he is a real-life handsome n young prince riding on a white horse. I would rather be a lao chee ko pek w/ MASSIVE sexual confidence n emotional mastery. To come to think of it, If I had such massive sexual confidence n emotional mastery, I won’t need any one particular woman or anything else…and I certainly won’t want to become any other MAN, not even an emperor of China.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning,
I missed the following 2 posts.
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Originally Posted by
abugga
Hi Bro Warbird,
I would like you to analyse the psyche of such a man I have previously discussed. As follows:
Not particularly handsome by conventional standards, has body movements that require no effort with natural movements. Low hard throaty voice.
He has learned long ago, with his first consciousness, two things that dominate his attitude toward life: his own superiority and the utter worthlessness of the world. He knows what he wants and what he thinks. He needs no other reason, standards or considerations. His complete selfishness is as natural to him as breathing…………………..
A quick sharp mind, courageous and not afraid to be hurt, has long grasped and understood completely that the world is not what he is. Consequently he cannot be hurt. The world has no painful surprise for him, he has long accepted what he can expect from it. Indifference and an infinite calm contempt is what he feels about the world and the men who are not like him. He knows what he wants and the work he wants, that is all he expects of life…………………
Nothing can really touch him, he is concerned only with what he does. Not how he feels. How he feels is entirely a matter of his own, which cannot be influenced by anything and anyone on the outside………………………
His main policy in life is to refuse, completely and uncompromisingly, any surrender to the thoughts and desires of others.
Has a code of ethics to call his own, and only because he wants it. Plays straight and has contempt for little plays and lies. Says what he means and does not care if others like it or not, they will have to accept it.
Can never lose himself in love, has had great loves in life, even then it will never be an all absorbing, selfless passion. It is merely pride of a possesor. If he could not have them, it would not break him or affect him deeply, he might suffer in his own indifferent way, a suffering that can never reach deep enough to obscure life.
His attitude towards love is not " I love you and I am yours " but rather " I love you and you are mine “. It is primarily a feeling of want and getting. Were it necessary he could rape her and still feel completely justified. ……………………….
His manner is one of profound, inexorable calm. A slow deliberate manner of speaking. Precise unhurried movements. Laughs seldom. Does not joke. Never an emotional outbreak. Never loses control of himself.
Thanks WB.
Bro abugga,
Every man is different 人个有志. But such a man is not “ideal” to me. He appears to hv good emotional control n his DGAD attitude will help him greatly in life n in his RS w/ women.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
3Days2Nights
Alas of course, many of us bros here cannot reach the stage of fucking a woman, let alone giving PVOs.
You must be quite rich to BY so many women. Perhaps one day if I were to reach your financial status, I can straight away offer to BY / ST a harem of women and give PVOs to them
Otherwise, me currently a poor young man - my salary is perhaps even lower than your BY rate, and not good at chatting up a woman also
Bro 3Days2Nights,
Of course you can. Get a steady GF or go to GL. 可是你人穷志不穷. You can still attract a lot of chio girls. There is a lot you can do to improve yourself, to become a MAN.
Me quite rich? Not really, I only hv a little money left, from a few lucky investments made earlier in life. It’s important for a man to be rich inside and rich outside.
If you hv read my posts, money is a two-edged sword that can actually make it very difficult for a woman to fall for or get addicted to a wealthy man. Very few bros realize this fact.
Remember the famous story of Xi Shi 西施 and King Fuchai 夫差 of Wu 吴国?
Xi Shi was supposed to be one of the most beautiful women who ever lived in China. King Fuchai was young, handsome, masculine, rich, powerful n ambitious, a real KING! And he was very confident and had great self image because he was, in his own words, 天下最优秀的男人. It would be natural for Xi Shi to fall for such a man. No?
What happened? King Fuchai got bewitched or KC-ed by Xi Shi n I assume that he cared too much abt the girl n ended up spending all his time w/ her. Very bad idea. It should hv been the other way round: The girl got hopelessly addicted to the king. He made many mistakes a MAN should never make. If only he could read SBF 2500 years ago!! As a result he lost his beloved country n his own life. The beautiful girl didn’t fall for him, didn’t love him n didn’t even care for his well bring. Most likely he couldn’t n didn’t give her frequent PVOs, and what if he did? We would never know haha. A classic n tragic case of KC n failed RS.
Now you know why I say
a man’s ability to give a very pretty girl frequent PVOs is a matter of life n death.
I stand by the statement.
Cheers n good luck!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
korean
Hi bro warbird,
Recently a wl and I kena kc each other. She dropped me many hints wanna be my gf despite knowing I got a lover………… too. I think it is due to me as she looked deeply into my eyes asking me why she got chest pain.
I guess she is trying to keep a distance from me by catching the hints from her wechat moment/qq zone and conversation with her. We didn’t chat for a week (only one moment replied by her) as we used to chat for almost everyday.
May I know if she is really love sick,typically how long will she recover? What should I do if I would like to go back to the buddy status?
I do have heaviness in chest n thinking of her, sense of loss too but i can sleep pretty well. this two days seems better for me especially I have more chat with my lover
Bro Korean,
Both of u kena KC-ed? Only you can know for sure.
I assume that you still see her n fxk her, then there is no break up withdrawal for both of u. Her symptoms could be due to worries n anxiety.
As for yours, since you can still fxk her, it’s NOT due to break up withdrawal. I wonder if it could be post-coital tristesse (PCT) or post coital dysphoria or post sex blues, feelings of emptiness, anxiety, even sadness after orgasms. I sometimes feel that after doing ST, but NOT after making love to my LT mistresses. I usually hug them a lot n n sleep w/ them for awhile after sex. May also go out to dinner…
http://www.vice.com/read/why-do-some...fter-an-orgasm
The cause is a huge surge of dopamine during orgasms n subsequent rapid fall. It affects both men n women. Other neurohormones are involved of course.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
AAconnection
Hi Warbirb,
I like your articles about girl. It seem that I do experience many times about what you have put in words.
Just to share one of my adventure.
3 months ago………………………..
We sat besides the doctor. For me I always set my terms very clear with girls I like, if she agree I carry on. I asked her can she play she says yes and asked me how I want to play.
Walking to my secret place I praised her for courage to follow a stranger to a place new to her. Her reply was that I look like her former boy friend and she like me………………………………..
Time just flies we started around 6.30pm and end around 9.45pm where she say that she late for another section TAM. Wore her clothes and compose herself asked me to send her to TAM. I firmly says no you get a cab there yourself I will pay for it because I drank 3/4 and she drank 1/4 if wine I don’t because of her I got myself into trouble.
Before she go she gave me her contact and telling me that she is going back to China next week. I didn’t bother to ask for China number but after one month she send a wechat ask me to add her. This is one of my lucky day that a girl interested in me but it very rare. Till todate I have not add her in my wechat because I have ex which beg me to take her back after 17 months. Is indeed very interesting that girl does have give in time just like man.
Bro AAconnection,
Tks so much for sharing your detailed FR.
Well done! I guess it was FOC for u.
Very few girls are 175 at PC. I met one about two months ago outside the cafeteria in late afternoon. Her name was XA, quite slim n elegant too. I didn’t hv time to follow up. Wonder if she was the one u met.
No, it will not be rare for u from now on. You’re the PRIZE! Never forget that.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
A few days ago, I mentioned the love triangle of Xi Shi, Fan Li and King Fu Chai. The ultimate victor was of course Fan Li, even though he was a slave of a slave in Wu where Fu Chai was the king. I wonder how he felt when he was treated worse than a slave and when he knew the beautiful girl he loved was being fxked daily by Fu chai, his arch enemy. Very few men could stay sane for so long under such adverse circumstances. And he actually volunteered to place himself in such degrading, painful and perilous situation. I salute his formidable emotional mastery, his die-hard loyalty to king Gou Jian, his integrity, audacity, persistence and his pure genius as a political/military strategist and, more than a decade later, as a benevolent philanthropic business tycoon. He is THE MAN!!
Meanwhile, the powerful king Fu Chai lost his power n his head in his RS w/ Xi Shi. Why? He loved her and cared for her too much…
Therefore, dear bro out there, you shouldn’t be discouraged even if Carlos Slim’s tall n handsome son were vying for your dream girl’s affection. And even if you were currently down and out. Just remember this, you would still be 1,000 X better than Fan Li at kingdom of Wu…improve yourself daily, develop awesome emotional mastery and the dream girl would be yours, eventually…but then again, you might not want her anymore, hahaha.
Take home lesson:
The power in a relationship lies with the one who cares the least.
Never ever relinquish your power as a man to any girl/woman, even if she were the last female on earth.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
abugga
Hi bro Warbird,
There is no right or wrong answer to everything in this world. These are all merely textbook discussions. For our pastime and reference only.
I may disclose some of my personal limited experiences, limited due to my young age haha. open for all to see, to ridicule, and to educate my errors. Until I can correctly sort them out into words, i would like to invite other readers to perhaps share more?
Bro abugga,
Yes, you’re right. One man’s meat is another man’s poison. One woman’s frog is another woman’s prince haha.
If your subconscious mind has a set of beliefs and preconceptions, it will reject everything that doesn’t agree w/ it. Then there is the Rashomon Effect…
It’s great to be young. Are u younger than 30?
Please share your real-life, personal exploits w/ us. Most bros are just too shy or too busy to write FRs.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
korean
Hi bro warbird,
Recently a wl and I kena kc each other. She dropped me many hints wanna be my gf despite knowing I got a lover………… too. I think it is due to me as she looked deeply into my eyes asking me why she got chest pain.
I guess she is trying to keep a distance from me by catching the hints from her wechat moment/qq zone and conversation with her. We didn’t chat for a week (only one moment replied by her) as we used to chat for almost everyday.
May I know if she is really love sick,typically how long will she recover? What should I do if I would like to go back to the buddy status?
I do have heaviness in chest n thinking of her, sense of loss too but i can sleep pretty well. this two days seems better for me especially I have more chat with my lover
Bro Korean,
Both of u kena KC-ed? Only you can know for sure.
I assume that you still see her n fxk her, then there is no break up withdrawal for both of u. Her symptoms could be due to worries n anxiety.
As for yours, since you can still fxk her, it’s NOT due to break up withdrawal. I wonder if it could be post-coital tristesse (PCT) or post coital dysphoria or post sex blues, feelings of emptiness, anxiety, even sadness after orgasms. I sometimes feel that after doing ST, but NOT after making love to my LT mistresses. I usually hug them a lot n n sleep w/ them for awhile after sex. May also go out to dinner…
http://www.vice.com/read/why-do-some...fter-an-orgasm
The cause is a huge surge of dopamine during orgasms n subsequent rapid fall. It affects both men n women. Other neurohormones are involved of course.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
AAconnection
Hi Warbirb,
I like your articles about girl. It seem that I do experience many times about what you have put in words.
Just to share one of my adventure.
3 months ago………………………..
We sat besides the doctor. For me I always set my terms very clear with girls I like, if she agree I carry on. I asked her can she play she says yes and asked me how I want to play.
Walking to my secret place I praised her for courage to follow a stranger to a place new to her. Her reply was that I look like her former boy friend and she like me………………………………..
Time just flies we started around 6.30pm and end around 9.45pm where she say that she late for another section TAM. Wore her clothes and compose herself asked me to send her to TAM. I firmly says no you get a cab there yourself I will pay for it because I drank 3/4 and she drank 1/4 if wine I don’t because of her I got myself into trouble.
Before she go she gave me her contact and telling me that she is going back to China next week. I didn’t bother to ask for China number but after one month she send a wechat ask me to add her. This is one of my lucky day that a girl interested in me but it very rare. Till todate I have not add her in my wechat because I have ex which beg me to take her back after 17 months. Is indeed very interesting that girl does have give in time just like man.
Bro AAconnection,
Tks so much for sharing your detailed FR.
Well done! I guess it was FOC for u.
Very few girls are 175 at PC. I met one about two months ago outside the cafeteria in late afternoon. Her name was XA, quite slim n elegant too. I didn’t hv time to follow up. Wonder if she was the one u met.
No, it will not be rare for u from now on. You’re the PRIZE! Never forget that.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
A few days ago, I mentioned the love triangle of Xi Shi, Fan Li and King Fu Chai. The ultimate victor was of course Fan Li, even though he was a slave of a slave in Wu where Fu Chai was the king. I wonder how he felt when he was treated worse than a slave and when he knew the beautiful girl he loved was being fxked daily by Fu chai, his arch enemy. Very few men could stay sane for so long under such adverse circumstances. And he actually volunteered to place himself in such degrading, painful and perilous situation. I salute his formidable emotional mastery, his die-hard loyalty to king Gou Jian, his integrity, audacity, persistence and his pure genius as a political/military strategist and, more than a decade later, as a benevolent philanthropic business tycoon. He is THE MAN!!
Meanwhile, the powerful king Fu Chai lost his power n his head in his RS w/ Xi Shi. Why? He loved her and cared for her too much…
Therefore, dear bro out there, you shouldn’t be discouraged even if Carlos Slim’s tall n handsome son were vying for your dream girl’s affection. And even if you were currently down and out. Just remember this, you would still be 1,000 X better than Fan Li at kingdom of Wu…improve yourself daily, develop awesome emotional mastery and the dream girl would be yours, eventually…but then again, you might not want her anymore, hahaha.
Take home lesson:
The power in a relationship lies with the one who cares the least.
Never ever relinquish your power as a man to any girl/woman, even if she were the last female on earth.
Cheers!
Bro WB
QUOTE=cmelater;12970234]Money is a dangerous allurement….. a man who is a potential carrot.
Clamouring over a gal and even begging her are both very wrong things to do………………….
A friend once shared with me that he like his viet gal a lot and he had never overspent on this gal. His reasoning is that making a girl love him (rather than his money) is far more tenable than showering material gifts.
Honestly, if its material gifts, there are too many competitors. How to beat the rest of the men? My view is, be your own man, than to bow to the woman. The bros (esp WB) will understand my point. The man to have his own stand.
Never be in a rush to get the “deal done”. What for. Expending large amounts of funds and time are not sure fire ways to close the deal. A relationship is like a plant. Both require time to nurture and grow.[/QUOTE]
Bro cmelater,
Thanks for ur excellent post.
“A relationship is like a plant. Both require time to nurture and grow.”
I’ll remember that.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
risingup
Always respected yr posts, I was wondering, if we always show minimal care, do we just wait for girls to approach us?
Bro risingup,
Read the post by bro cmelater below.
I think what you do is not as important as your right mindset. You must believe you hv higher social n sexual value than the girl. You don’t chase her, you qualify her. You must show some interest in her, but must not care too much n she can take it or leave it…
Always remain relaxed, unflappable n detached, especially facing stressful situations n adversity. She is always watching u (mostly at the subconscious level). A girl or woman is always watching n testing her man to see whether he has the right stuff (emotional mastery n mental toughness), whether he has been w/ her 3 hrs or 30 years. It’s hard wired in her genes…for the safety n survival of herself n her kids.
There was a girl who told me she had rejected a customer who offered 5K for ST. The mummy was very unhappy w/ her, kept calling her…the customer was very furious but won’t give up. I don’t know what she said was true or not. That is not important, the point is that if a girl rejects u, the right attitude is to remain as cool as cucumber. She may say yes the next day haha. I hv had more than a few girls who hung up on me…who later became my mistress, after several weeks to over a year.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
cmelater
I think its more relevant to draw a line between reasonable amount of care and that which is excessive.
Not so much as to show little care or wait for them to come.
What is dangerous is to be to overly “enthu” in showing and trying to attract the gal. This can be dangerous. Like, some of my cheongster bros did before. One of them was so enthu until he literally waited for the gal to knock off from work at 3 am daily. (the gal is a singer).
Once its excessive, you can guess what the gal will do next. In fact, there is no need to guess. Humans being humans. Its natural for the gal to start to take it for granted or take it easy. But, this is not to advise you to play hard to get……………………………
If you are out for the gal (for real), then don’t act. If you are out for fun, also don’t act. ………………………………………
Bro cmelater,
Good post. Tks for sharing.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good afternoon!
Not long ago I reconnected w/ a long lost bro, YJ. He is a well known samster who is purportedly very experienced in “bedding” singers but recently has chosen to retire from local night scene n has immigrated to a foreign country.
In bro YJ’s opinion, I hv done well in my preferred field or comfort zone n I should move up to BY-ing singers. He believes that will be a real challenge n a real test of manhood as I’ll be competing w/ many wealthy n experienced contenders. Must move out of my comfort zone, according to him. Apparently he has done all that n has achieved the ultimate conquests, so he is happy to retire. I had another chat w/ him several days later in which I outlined my goals n desires which are radically different from his…
I disagreed w/ bro YJ completely on many points. He said he wasn’t offended. Good for him. If true, he has earned my respect as a man w/ good emotional control. I wish him all the best. BTW, I hv learned a lot from him in my formative yrs in 2009 n 2010…Thanks bro YJ!
First, I like to comment on Bro YJ’s voluntary “retirement.” I’ll never “retire” from making love to SYTS who are attractive to me. BTW, I’m a lao chee ko pek, whereas bro YJ is much, much younger, only middle-aged. He is many years from reaching his sexual prime because I’m only beginning to get close to mine. For me, to retire is to give up living, give up life. And, I don’t dwell on past achievements or past glories. I only live in the present. The past doesn’t exist, nor does the future. What I hv and what everyone has is the present moment, that is all. Even if you were at one time the Emperor of China, so what? No use if you’re now a waiter and living incognito in Sg or in Argentina. Even if u hv fxked all the famous super models, beauty queens and actresses, so what? It’s what you’re NOW as a MAN, physically, emotionally, psychologically n spiritually, that really matters. I learn from the past n I plan for the future, but this should take only a few minutes a day. Don’t spend hours, like most people.
Moreover, what is great success to bro YJ or anyone else may mean absolutely nothing to me. To each his own. Some may think I’m a failure because I’m not a Nobel laureate in Physics or I’m not an American board certified neurosurgeon. Some may think a person is successful only if he is the richest man in the world. I hv this to say, since our earth is a pale blue dot, being numero uno in anything in our world doesn’t amount to very much.
http://www.planetary.org/explore/spa...-blue-dot.html
I know my circle of competence but I never stay in my comfort zone. I’m expanding my circle of competence in ALL directions, every minute, every day. Everything is changing, the whole universe is changing, and we must change w/ it. If a man is wishing for status quo or trying to stay in his comfort zone, whoever he is n wherever he is, he is finished, kaput.
Back to why I shun hanging flowers…
I also like to comment on several health myths.
Myth 1: A man reaches his sexual peak at 18-19. Nonsense. I hv yet to reach my peak.
Myth 2: It’s normal for a man to gain weight as he gets older. Nonsense. My weight n waistline are the same as when I was 21. Look at Chen Lifu n Kirk Kerkorian. Google them.
Myth 3: It’s normal for a man’s BP to go up as he ages. Again, nonsense. My BP is actually slightly lower than when I was 21. And I don’t take any medications.
Last but not least, how do I find time to go to HFJs? I don’t even hv time to go to Shanghai where a lucrative business deal and several delectable high school/uni students hv been waiting for me.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good afternoon,
I’ll hv an outing to Lido Palace, next to Holiday Inn, Outram n Havelock rd, tomorrow Friday for HH, from 6 to 930 PM.
For light drinkers n those willing to smoke outside the rm.
Expected expense per pax is $70 to 90. Booking for a girl is $200 n up. No butterfly.
PM or SMS me if interested.
BTW, girls at LIdo are supposed to be the most attractive in SG.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
chenzong
That was what I did, even called in the police after seeing her QQ messages. I found out 5 years later that she has gotten married, with children.
Never had to deal with that, thankfully!
Bro chenzong,
Good to hear from u.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
Many bros and many girls refer to any marriage as a happy ending. I couldn’t disagree more. I would say the trouble has just begun haha. Give them 10 years or 30 years and see if they are still happy. No, give them 50 years…
The fact that many bros here are married should tell us something. BTW, more than 50% of all legal wives cheat n they are much better in hiding their affairs.
I know a semi-retired Ang Moh retina specialist in Gotham City who is 69. He told me his parents are 92 n hv been married 70 yrs! I think that is co-dependency, a commitment type of love. Good for them! Very, very rare indeed. But I’m not sure how happy their marriage has been.
Let me talk abt another related subject.
Many bros talk abt upping or BY-ing this girl or that Ang Pai singer. But we should remember the following.
If a man is willing to spend sufficient money, getting a pretty pussy of his type, provided he has a chance to see n meet her, is easy. Owning her pussy may be enough for most men, whether it’s exclusive to him or not.
But if he is to progress to much higher levels of satisfaction and fulfillment, he needs to own her heart and soul, that is what living a full life for a man is all about. To do that, he needs to accomplish two things, both has NOTHING to do w/ money or spending money.
Your comments and criticisms will be appreciated.
Cheers!
Bro WB