Good morning!
I had an outing to Lido Palace for HH last Wed.
The day before, Mummy ER spent several hrs to retrieve my bottle from the defunct TAM n took it to Lido!
Earlier, she said that rm charge would be around $250 for a rm big enough for 6 bros, no need to open another bottle. Bro A even called Lido personally n was told that all charges were exactly the same as those at TAM.
Seven bros (WB, bros A, C, J, W, S and Y) came for the outing. We were in rm 7 which is a tad larger than rm 11 on 3rd fl TAM aka Club Infinitude. Then mummy ER came in n dropped the bomb. Rm 7 is considered large n would require 3 bttles at $328 a piece. Normal rm charge would be well over $400. We were most surprised!
I instructed ER to negotiate w/ the manager so that we won’t hv to open additional bottles. I also added that rm charge of over $400 was unacceptable.
Bro A n I had our own gals. Four bros booked a girl each from Lido n bro W didn’t choose anyone.
There were very few customers. Waiters said that SH would be full. There r 18-20 singers who will come. After 9PM, I did see several in a rm putting on makeup. They appeared tall but the looks n figure won’t make me remotely interested. The KTV gals were generally more attractive.
Although I saw only 12 to 15 gals during HH, they were mostly young n relatively tall. No mature women in their 40s n 50s or homely gals like those I hv seen in all other joints. Booking for HH is $200.
After spending over 1/2 hr negotiating w/ the management, mummy ER came back w/ great news: Much reduced rm charges n no need to open another bttle.
We were also treated like VIPs by the waiters/waitresses and managers.
For the three bros who had a claim on the bottle from TAM, expense per pax was $35 n for the 4 new bros, $50 each. I believe this is the lowest expense per pax ever paid at Lido.
We still hv half a bottle left (which was originally opened at TAM).
My next outing is Orchard KTV, next to Orchard Towers, for HH this coming Monday.
Damage the same as TAM’s. Interested bros PM or SMS me. I hv never been there.
I think it would be too much to ask mummy ER to bring my half bottle from Lido to Orchard K haha. Mummy ER is the best and the hardest working mummy I hv ever met. I hv asked her to get a pretty xiao ma of my type to assist her. This xiao ma could become my LT GF. I may want to make ER my personal OKT.
Have a great day!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
My SH (not HH) session to Orchard K on Fri was quite enjoyable. There were mostly PRC gals n Viet gals, but bro A said he wouldn’t fxk any Viets even if he was paid. Quality was so so.
There were 5 bros n expense per pax was $115. Booking for SH is $200 to $300.
I believe the best PRC girls now go to Lido Palace n I would like to go there more often.
I’m inviting kakis who would like to join my outings there. Interested bros PM or SMS me please. Indicate Lido or non-Lido. I’ll still go to other joints sometimes. All expenses will be recorded n then divided equally. Light to moderate drinkers OK. Smokers please smoke outside the room.
According to mummy ER, the special rates I enjoyed in my first visit to Lido may not be given again. For a small rm which can accommodate 4 couples the expenses would include $328 for a bottle of Martell plus fruit plates plus tips for mummy($50) n waiters ($20), abt $420. Divided by the number of bros (either 3 or 4). If there is a bottle left, we will pay only charges of abt $170 for a small rm plus tips for mummy n waiters or abt $320
. I hv promised ER that I would tip her $100 if a new bottle is not opened.
BTW,
your beliefs n mindset determine your success n satisfaction in ur RS w/ girls/women. You cannot rise higher than ur thought of yourself at the subconscious level.
If you think a certain very beautiful girl is too good for u, for whatever reason, you will fail in the RS. Of course u will get her pussy if you spend enough, but u will fail to capture her heart. It’s imperative that you interact w/ her as if you’re the PRIZE n you’re trying to qualify her to determine if she is lucky enough to become your lover. Or continue to be ur lover. You MUST maintain this attitude from the instant you meet her for the first time until you want to end the RS, which may be a week to many decades later hahaha.
Not long ago I met a 18 yo gal 69 (I called her 69 because doing 69 w/ her should be very pleasurable for both of us) in a high end KTV for 5 secs. She was totally my type. She had already been booked by someone else n I didn’t hv time to get her phone number. I later got her contact from a mummy who informed me that No ST, so I instructed her to ask 69 abt BY.
I sent 69 a SMS early the next morning. No reply for the whole day. I called her in the evening. She said she didn’t reply because she thought I was the guy who booked her last night! She voice suddenly became so friendly, soft n feminine when she knew who I was. She talked n talked abt herself. The mummy must hv told her quite a bit abt me. I told her I must get to know her better to see if I might want to BY her, long term. Unfortunately, she was on a tourist visa, had been here for 2 wks n would be flying back to China in two days. She may gain entrance to a university later this yr. She asked if I would be visiting China soon. I said I might go to Shanghai to seal a business deal. She quickly said that she could travel by 动车 or fly to meet me there.
I hv looked at all of 69’s Wechat pics. She is a very cute SYT w/ my type of figure n limbs. She also has a very pretty SYT classmate! I’m planning to meet both of them in SH. Double pussies, double pleasure haha. I’ll make both of them my LT mistresses if they qualify. Will they be so lucky?
According to a reliable mummy, 69 was in Sg for abt 2 wks n she followed her GF to the KTV a few times. Very newbie n inexperienced. She charged $300 for SH.
To date I hv not spent a penny on 69. She is the best gal I hv met since Sep 2012. I hv her China HP n her Wechat. I’ll call her occasionally to keep raising the sexual tension n make her very wet just w/ my voice n words…I’ll make her addicted to me before meeting her in SH. She will come within secs when I enter her warm, tight n wet pussy…
If a lao chee ko pek can get a pretty 18 yo SYT so easily, ANY bro can do it. But your subconscious mind must agree with ur conscious mind n give u the permission n assistance…
Incidentally, I joined bro J n his kakis at Prestige Club at Park Regis on Merchant Rd last night. There were Taiwanese, M’sian, Korean n PRC gals. They CMI. I didn’t book any gal. Expense per pax $90. Will go to Lido n Orchard K only.
Happy New Year!!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
subarutay
BY= Bao yang, usually how much per month? why some bro said BY can be as short as 2 weeks? meaninog pro rated?
Bro subarutay,
How much for BY varies a lot.
I like long term BY, but I hv BY-ed girls for 7 to 10 days. Some bros like to pay weekly, I normally pay every 15 days haha.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Ladyrain
You mentioned about being a man but just how many men know exactly how to behave like a real gentleman?
Without first knowing how to behave appropriately, it is almost impossible to capture any lady’s heart and make her yield to you,
not to mentioned to throw her off any balance. .
Women worship men in control. Not men who Think They are in control.
You do know the difference, do you?
My dear Ladyrain,
Tks for ur post. Most men are completely clueless.
The very few men who know aren’t real gentleMEN because they lack awesome emotional control n self mastery. Knowing and being are very different. It’s almost impossible to change a very negative subconscious mind to one that is very positive after age 5. Will power alone won’t do. Positive autosuggestion will take many, many yrs.
A short cut is practicing meditation or self hypnosis, twice a day, every day. One’s subconscious mind can only be reprogrammed when its brain waves are very, very slow, as in Delta n Theta, while one is awake. During a trance.
Interestingly, a very young child has very, very slow brain waves even when fully awake. I started last week on Dr Robert Anthony’s program.
Best,
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Ladyrain
How much per month depends on the status and capabilities of the man who wants to care for the lady.
And usually men of status dont go for pro rated as they prefer to have exclusive demand of the lady.
They cover all the expenses for her and usually expects the same of her.
My dear Ladyrain,
It also depends on the girl/woman.
If I BY a KTV girl, I won’t want her to continue working in the night scene. A real student or salesgirl who has never worked in the night scene or as a FL will usually be a better BAO-ee.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
All TAM joints were closed as of Sunday 1 Feb right after midnight.
Lido Palace is now opened for HH, from 5:30PM till 9:30PM. Damage for a bottle of Martell is the same as TAM’s for both HH n SH. Tips for gals are the same. But subsequent rm charges will be abt 40-50% more (when no new bttle is opened). There is valet parking too.
It’s rumoured that only gals who r willing to do ST will be accepted at Lido. Can any experienced bros confirm this?
Mummy ER assured me that my 80% bottle will be transferred to Lido in one piece haha.
I’m planning an outing to Lido Palace tomorrow Wed HH.
Interested bros PM or text me. I hv lost many HP numbers after changing my phone.
Good night!
Bro WB
Good morning!
My first ever outing to Lido Palace today HH is on.
I hv been spending too much time organizing outings n my yield in terms of finding new girls of my type has been measly in the last 4-5 years. Too many bros asked me too many questions n then never show up.
Interested bros should read my thread carefully n PM or text me when they r ready to confirm.
Let me repeat again, timing and charges at Lido Palace are abt the same as those at TAM. If you worry abt the minor differences, you shouldn’t come.
I hv always reduced the damage to the minimum. In future, I’ll be more generous to the mummy n invite fewer bros. It will save me a lot of time, the ONLY thing that is priceless to me.
Appreciate your understanding,
Bro WB
Good morning!
I had an outing to Lido Palace for HH last Wed.
The day before, Mummy ER spent several hrs to retrieve my bottle from the defunct TAM n took it to Lido!
Earlier, she said that rm charge would be around $250 for a rm big enough for 6 bros, no need to open another bottle. Bro A even called Lido personally n was told that all charges were exactly the same as those at TAM.
Seven bros (WB, bros A, C, J, W, S and Y) came for the outing. We were in rm 7 which is a tad larger than rm 11 on 3rd fl TAM aka Club Infinitude. Then mummy ER came in n dropped the bomb. Rm 7 is considered large n would require 3 bttles at $328 a piece. Normal rm charge would be well over $400. We were most surprised!
I instructed ER to negotiate w/ the manager so that we won’t hv to open additional bottles. I also added that rm charge of over $400 was unacceptable.
Bro A n I had our own gals. Four bros booked a girl each from Lido n bro W didn’t choose anyone.
There were very few customers. Waiters said that SH would be full. There r 18-20 singers who will come. After 9PM, I did see several in a rm putting on makeup. They appeared tall but the looks n figure won’t make me remotely interested. The KTV gals were generally more attractive.
Although I saw only 12 to 15 gals during HH, they were mostly young n relatively tall. No mature women in their 40s n 50s or homely gals like those I hv seen in all other joints. Booking for HH is $200.
After spending over 1/2 hr negotiating w/ the management, mummy ER came back w/ great news: Much reduced rm charges n no need to open another bttle.
We were also treated like VIPs by the waiters/waitresses and managers.
For the three bros who had a claim on the bottle from TAM, expense per pax was $35 n for the 4 new bros, $50 each. I believe this is the lowest expense per pax ever paid at Lido.
We still hv half a bottle left (which was originally opened at TAM).
My next outing is Orchard KTV, next to Orchard Towers, for HH this coming Monday.
Damage the same as TAM’s. Interested bros PM or SMS me. I hv never been there.
I think it would be too much to ask mummy ER to bring my half bottle from Lido to Orchard K haha. Mummy ER is the best and the hardest working mummy I hv ever met. I hv asked her to get a pretty xiao ma of my type to assist her. This xiao ma could become my LT GF. I may want to make ER my personal OKT.
Have a great day!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
My SH (not HH) session to Orchard K on Fri was quite enjoyable. There were mostly PRC gals n Viet gals, but bro A said he wouldn’t fxk any Viets even if he was paid. Quality was so so.
There were 5 bros n expense per pax was $115. Booking for SH is $200 to $300.
I believe the best PRC girls now go to Lido Palace n I would like to go there more often.
I’m inviting kakis who would like to join my outings there. Interested bros PM or SMS me please. Indicate Lido or non-Lido. I’ll still go to other joints sometimes. All expenses will be recorded n then divided equally. Light to moderate drinkers OK. Smokers please smoke outside the room.
According to mummy ER, the special rates I enjoyed in my first visit to Lido may not be given again. For a small rm which can accommodate 4 couples the expenses would include $328 for a bottle of Martell plus fruit plates plus tips for mummy($50) n waiters ($20), abt $420. Divided by the number of bros (either 3 or 4). If there is a bottle left, we will pay only charges of abt $170 for a small rm plus tips for mummy n waiters or abt $320
. I hv promised ER that I would tip her $100 if a new bottle is not opened.
BTW,
your beliefs n mindset determine your success n satisfaction in ur RS w/ girls/women. You cannot rise higher than ur thought of yourself at the subconscious level.
If you think a certain very beautiful girl is too good for u, for whatever reason, you will fail in the RS. Of course u will get her pussy if you spend enough, but u will fail to capture her heart. It’s imperative that you interact w/ her as if you’re the PRIZE n you’re trying to qualify her to determine if she is lucky enough to become your lover. Or continue to be ur lover. You MUST maintain this attitude from the instant you meet her for the first time until you want to end the RS, which may be a week to many decades later hahaha.
Not long ago I met a 18 yo gal 69 (I called her 69 because doing 69 w/ her should be very pleasurable for both of us) in a high end KTV for 5 secs. She was totally my type. She had already been booked by someone else n I didn’t hv time to get her phone number. I later got her contact from a mummy who informed me that No ST, so I instructed her to ask 69 abt BY.
I sent 69 a SMS early the next morning. No reply for the whole day. I called her in the evening. She said she didn’t reply because she thought I was the guy who booked her last night! She voice suddenly became so friendly, soft n feminine when she knew who I was. She talked n talked abt herself. The mummy must hv told her quite a bit abt me. I told her I must get to know her better to see if I might want to BY her, long term. Unfortunately, she was on a tourist visa, had been here for 2 wks n would be flying back to China in two days. She may gain entrance to a university later this yr. She asked if I would be visiting China soon. I said I might go to Shanghai to seal a business deal. She quickly said that she could travel by 动车 or fly to meet me there.
I hv looked at all of 69’s Wechat pics. She is a very cute SYT w/ my type of figure n limbs. She also has a very pretty SYT classmate! I’m planning to meet both of them in SH. Double pussies, double pleasure haha. I’ll make both of them my LT mistresses if they qualify. Will they be so lucky?
According to a reliable mummy, 69 was in Sg for abt 2 wks n she followed her GF to the KTV a few times. Very newbie n inexperienced. She charged $300 for SH.
To date I hv not spent a penny on 69. She is the best gal I hv met since Sep 2012. I hv her China HP n her Wechat. I’ll call her occasionally to keep raising the sexual tension n make her very wet just w/ my voice n words…I’ll make her addicted to me before meeting her in SH. She will come within secs when I enter her warm, tight n wet pussy…
If a lao chee ko pek can get a pretty 18 yo SYT so easily, ANY bro can do it. But your subconscious mind must agree with ur conscious mind n give u the permission n assistance…
Incidentally, I joined bro J n his kakis at Prestige Club at Park Regis on Merchant Rd last night. There were Taiwanese, M’sian, Korean n PRC gals. They CMI. I didn’t book any gal. Expense per pax $90. Will go to Lido n Orchard K only.
Happy New Year!!
Bro WB
Good afternoon!
So many RS fall apart because very few men know how to behave like MEN, in ST and LT relationship, not even famous kings and emperors. So very sad.
Why?
Because attraction is counterintuitive.
What most men think should work actually has the exact opposite effect.
IMHO, the single most vital trait that will SPARK n SUSTAIN a girl’s desire for a MAN is his degree of emotional and self mastery.
Nothing even comes close. It will usually take time for a girl to fully appraciate a MAN’s self mastery.
Let me continue the “bad boy” story, written by a guru.
But heed this warning:
Women will sense a guy that they can get to kiss their ass, and will take FULL ADVANTAGE OF HIM till he is barely even a rug to walk over.
And women will deny this till the end of time, even coming up with brilliant “excuses” for their bad behavior.
Now that you know this, it’s time to stop taking any crap from any woman. You are responsible from now on if you put up with anything that doesn’t feel right.
Think about that the next time you’re about to be “Mr. Nice Guy” with any woman. Women understand, relate to, and demand mental toughness more than you realize.
(Notice I used the word mental toughness. Don’t EVER get PHYSICALLY VIOLENT or even upset with any woman, I’ll explain later why this is so important to your success, and goes way beyond just the law.)
Don’t be Mr. Nice Guy. And don’t be Mr. Angry. Neither one is cool.
So you know now not to be a nice guy. How exactly should you be?
Pound this short answer into your head: Be “THE MAN”. In the macho, cliché sense.
Oh, I really hope that doesn’t hurt you or insult you.
It shouldn’t, because if you haven’t been THE MAN, it’s not your fault. For a long time, I didn’t think like THE MAN. It ain’t easy in our inane, politically correct culture.
A lot of guys don’t believe me when I say that being THE MAN, inside, mentally, and even more important, emotionally, is THE VITAL KEY to sparking and sustaining a woman’s desire. These guys think that their looks and money are more important. These are LIES, and you need to be de- brainwashed about these matters.
Let me address the looks issue right here and now:
THE MYTH ABOUT LOOKS AND MONEY
A MAN’S LOOKS ARE NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING
Although women DO appreciate good looks, women are LESS into looks than you would believe. I’m sure you’ve seen beautiful women with less than good looking guys who were NOT rich.
Next time you see this, watch how the guy behaves. Is he nerdy? Or masculine?
Think about Al Pacino in Scarface. (A great movie example.) He is not supposed to be the best looking guy in the movie, but he gets the hottest woman, Michelle Pfeiffer’s character.
That’s because Scarface is THE MAN.
He projects POWER.
From the moment he arrives in America, he is determined to rise up.
He kisses no one’s ass, even when he has nothing. (And if you think it’s all about money, you’re wrong- I’ll explain later why.)
Now, this is no excuse to not LOOK YOUR BEST. That’s why I have included a section regarding this topic.
But once you have finished making the best of your looks, remember this: A man’s appearance is not nearly as important to women as you think.
Ironically, a powerful proof that men and women are different in this regard (as well as others) comes from the behavior of homosexual men and women. Lesbians tend to be far less discerning about things like age and appearance in their partners. They also tend to have very few partners.
On the other hand, homosexual men tend to be EXTREMELY concerned about looks, and weigh this consideration heavily in choosing their partners. Also, gay men tend to have many sexual partners.
You can see how men and women differ:
Homosexual men accentuate looks when choosing a partner, just like heterosexual men do when choosing a woman: Men care about looks.
And homosexual women are less concerned with a partner’s looks, just like heterosexual women: Women don’t care as much about looks.
As you can see, men and women will always be different, no matter what. So just because you think one way does not mean women think the same.
Guys tend to be worried about their “looks” because they assume women are the same as them. But they are NOT.
It’s MEN who are obsessed with looks. Women appreciate a sexy looking man, but looks alone is neither sufficient nor necessary for turning on women.
As a matter of fact, a guy with “looks” who’s not THE MAN will be toast.
In contrast, a hot looking woman, even if she acts unfeminine, will still be highly desired by most men.
Men primarily developed this attraction to a woman’s appearance because the stereotypical image of a “sexy” woman usually did mean she had an ability to produce strong, healthy children.
All this happened through evolution, so it has nothing to do with us being conscious of the reasons for our desires.
It simply means that men who were attracted to beautiful women were able to reproduce better than men who did not feel this type of attraction for women with these features.
Those men who felt this attraction for these women survived and those who did not were wiped out.
For all the talk about beauty being in the eye of the beholder, think about the fact I stated earlier: The waist-to-hip ratio for what is considered a sexy woman is the exact same now, in every culture known to man, as it has been over all recorded history.
Beauty is NOT only about personal taste. It’s largely ingrained in our brains, because it was the ONLY way to ensure choosing the right mate for the survival of our genes.
And just as men evolved with these tendencies, women evolved different criteria in order to feel desire for a man. Those criteria are what this book is all about! Mostly, what women want is a MANLY man.
Your looks are a very small factor in the formula for attracting women.
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Originally Posted by
sratchuback
Hello. Please PM me when is the next outing. And what would be the total cost. Very interested.
Bro sratchuback,
Are u interested in Lido or non-Lido outings?
For expense per pax at Lido HH, refer to my previous post. HH booking fee for a girl is $200.
Expense per pax for non-Lido KTVs is abt 30% less. HH booking is $150 to 200.
Pm ur ctc no.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning!
I had a post on my other thread:
Dear Faguoren,
Thanks for organizing HH outing to Dynasty yesterday. The girls were mediocre but we had a lot of fun.
You n I had balance. Rm charge $80 n tip for waiter $10. Divided by 3 bros = expense per pax $30. The fourth bro who came but left w/o paying is a disgrace. I spent precious time answering many questions from him. One of his question: Can bring the gal to bonk after the session? Of course, but it depends on you n the girl. It’s like asking if a certain beautiful girl will be fxked by men. My answer is 100% if she is a heterosexual n healthy female- mentally, emotionally n physically.
There is no need for mummies at Dynasty as all the girls stand in the hall. The ONLY reason for a mummy is for her to scout n search for the prettiest girls the day before, and bring them for our viewing pleasure during the session.
Our outing to Lido Palace HH tonight is confirmed. We hv the required number of kakis. I wonder if we can get special rates again.
More MMs are expected to arrive over the next 10 days…
Cheers!
Good morning!
I like to continue the discussion on “good guys” and “bad boys.”
WHY DO WOMEN LIKE BAD BOYS?
Well, it’s not because they really want a bad person. It’s because they want THE MAN. They want a MASCULINE man.
And it’s harder for women to find “nice” guys who are masculine than it is to find bad boys, who are almost always masculine.
A specific example of masculinity common in bad boys is their total dominance, particularly in the arena of sex. Some women go for bad guys because these women feel guilty about their sexual desires. By being with an aggressive “bad boy” who takes full control of the reigns, women feel like they are shirking all the guilt and all the responsibility to him. In this way, women can fully enjoy sex and not feel guilty. Moreover, almost all women, even those without guilt complexes, desire dominant men.
Also, bad boys make their sexual desires clear from the start. Nice guys, on the other hand, steer away from sex conversation, which makes women feel like nice guys are asexual.
If a woman already feels guilty about sex, you can imagine the impossibility of her having sex with a guy who seems to feel just as guilty about it.
Bad boys, in a CONFIDENT WAY, make it clear that sex is important. A woman has to make a decision about sex quickly with a bad boy or a more willing woman will quickly replace her. However, a woman can often string a nice guy along for years without even making out with him! The nice guy will patiently wait for her, and end up dumped for a bad guy who she sleeps with on the first night!
But more than any single characteristic, remember that women go for bad boys because women want a man who will control them, and who will be in control of everything in his life.
They want a MAN.
Bad guys are usually not sissies.
For millions of years, man has been the hunter and defender for the family unit. Women want a man who will be the “hunter”, who is strong, who will produce strong, healthy and sexy children.
Evolution has selected the forces of sexual chemistry between man and woman. Since women needed tough men for survival, that eventually became what all women were attracted to in men.
Makes sense, doesn’t it? Suddenly, women don’t seem so evil anymore, right?
No more evil than men.
Men desire hot looking women, because basically, sexy women often gave birth to healthier and superior looking children.
By desiring such women, men had a better chance of carrying on their own genes. Their children then grew up to become sexy adults, thus attracting sexy mates of their own and continuing the cycle in perpetuity…
Sexy looking women’s hip-to-waist-ratios have remained constant throughout all cultures and times. That’s because men’s preferences have been instilled by evolution, and because these ratios usually mean “well suited to breed superior children”.
Women are allowed in our society to prefer tall men, rich men, or men higher in status. (Even though I know that what women really want is THE MAN.) If this is so, then why should it be any less acceptable or “bad” for you to want sex with a woman you feel is hot?
You are allowed to BE A MAN.
As a matter of fact, you MUST be A MAN or women will detest you. If that makes you a “BAD BOY”, so be it.
Half the time, “bad boys” are just being natural men, and women love it. When women state their natural preferences, for money, looks, or status, (the reality behind all these preferences is that women seek a dominant man) our culture does not label women as immoral or shallow.
The fact is, I am all for a society of good guys and good women. I just want you to realize that women love masculine, tough men. Don’t act like some sexless, spineless person or you will not attract women.
Stop acting like a geek if you are in any way doing so. You don’t have to be abusive toward women, but you must be completely DOMINANT, calm, and cool. And SHOW it through your actions and tone of voice.
WOMEN AREN’T “NICE”
It is critical to realize that women are human beings and not made from sugar and spice. They are just as competitive, manipulative, conniving, game playing, merciless, and ruthless, in their quest to get the man of their choice. Once they “get” their man, they will try to control him.
The irony, of course, is that women detest men that can be controlled by women. However, women WILL try to control you. Sometimes, women are only trying to CONTROL you as a TEST: To see if you are THE MAN. If you permit them to control you, you FAIL the test.
The desire for control, for both sexes, stems from the massive stakes involved, but it’s far more devastating for a man to submit to control. It destroys his sexual attractiveness.
For a man, it’s always self-destructive for him to submit to any control whatsoever, no matter what the woman’s reason is for attempting to control him. And no matter what, a man ALWAYS ends up coming out more attractive by not submitting.
Since women are not “nice” and since they will attempt to control you with ingenious tactics, it is imperative you keep your guard up and not let any power or control slip through your fingers.
One of the most tragic mistakes a man can make is to let a woman know that something she did actually bothered him at all.
You know all those books on “communicating honestly with your partner”?
Forget about it when it comes to attraction, especially in the initial stage. You MUST understand that there is just too much at stake for both men
and women to play nicely “by the rules”.
If you let a woman know that something she did hurt you, she will simply use that knowledge AGAINST you, to CONTROL you.
She will try to see how far you will go, in terms of kissing her ass, to try to prevent her from doing it again. And most guys resort to this pathetic bribery. It’s as if these guys are saying, “I’m kissing your ass so you will like me enough to not do that mean thing again.”
An example of this phenomenon is when a man tells a woman that it bothers him when she talks rudely to him. Then, not only does he now seem needy, which is unsexy, but also, she can then use extortion in subtle ways. For example, she might hint that you should do this, that, and whatever else for her or she might do the hurtful thing again.
She may use psychological warfare, and act kind of distant, to see how scared you are of her repeating this behavior, and what you will do for her to prevent it.
You must not accept ANY crap from any woman, EVER.
As soon as she acts up, you must show how calm you are as you deliver
the punishment, the figurative SPANK.
This way, she will sense that it is HER problem, not yours, for acting up.
She will know that you can easily get another, better woman than her.
This is the punishment: Dump her immediately, and tell her not to call you until she shapes up. Or, tell her clearly you will not tolerate that, and then dump her if she does it again, with the same message.
Of course, if she did anything serious, then dump her and forget about her immediately. ZERO second chances for any real serious shit.
NEVER explain to a woman that she should treat you right.
If she doesn’t know that, DUMP her. She is not worth keeping if she does not treat you right. Tell her not to come back until she shapes up.
And she will usually come running back to you when you throw her to the curb for misbehaving.
It’s called you having self-respect.
And if women sense that NOTHING bothers you, then there is NOTHING they can use against you. And, after testing you to see if you can be hurt or not, and seeing that you indeed cannot, they will usually kiss your feet.
If a woman does not show an immediate massive change, kick her out.
Does that sound like a mean, bitter statement about women?
It’s not. It’s the prescription for reality. 99.999999999 percent of the time.
You might be tempted after a few good weeks with a woman to think that if she does something out of line, then you could just tell her that what she did hurt. After all, “She loves me, so she wouldn’t want to hurt me again”.
Nope.
If you show her she hurt you, she’ll keep it in her arsenal. And she will use it again.
Think about it like this: 99.99 percent of the time, if somebody is being a prick, they know it.
Women know if they are doing something wrong to you.
And if they really don’t know, it’s probably something trivial and not
worth you mentioning to her anyway!
So if you DO indicate something hurt you, she will just know how to activate your “hurt button” in the future.
So here’s my recommendation:
Keep your cool at all times.
Don’t let her know that ANYTHING bothers you.
Always, calmly tell her she misbehaved by doing the specific thing she did. Tell her you won’t tolerate it.
But don’t let her feel it actually bothered you.
NEVER argue with her about it. It will NOT HELP, only make things worse. I guarantee it.
Now of course, if you have been with a woman who has been great to you for years, and once in a while she acts up a bit, well that’s perfectly normal- you probably aren’t perfect either. You’ve both earned a bit of slack.
There is a BUT, though.