Conclusion:
Growing old alone and with no children to carry on your name seems a worse prospect than following this checklist and picking the best wife you can.
Civilization exists because of the nuclear family. Certainly marriage has been tainted in the last 50 years, to the detriment of all, but if you make smart decisions you can cut down your risk tremendously.
If you are going to get married, do it the smart way.
If you aren’t going to get married go ahead and have a beer.
Good luck and Godspeed.
BTW, I agree 100% with the above 12 golden rules.
Cheers n good luck!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
abugga
Good evening gentlemen. I have recently read a book, titled " think and grow rich " - Napoleon Hill.
I have found it to be extremely helpful in the daily life. It has also briefly touched down on love, sex and romance.
Below is an paragraph which I would like to quote, and therefore seek the opinions of various brothers here.
" Fortunate is the husband whose wife understands the true relationship between the emotions of love, sex and romance. …………………This statement presupposes, of course, that genuine love once existed between a man and his wife.
The facts are equally applicable to a man who permits his wife’s interest in him to die…………………………….Man has the same desire to please women, the only thing that has changed is the method to please women.
Men who accumulate large fortunes, and attain to great heights of power amd fame, do so, mainly to satisfy their desire to please women.
Take women out of their lives, and great wealth would be useless to most men. It is this inherent desire of man to please woman, which gives woman to make or break a man……………….
Most men will not admit that they are easily influenced by the women they prefer…………………………..
THE MAN WHO DOES NOT RECOGNIZE THIS IMPORTANT TRUTH DEPRIVES HIMSELF OF THE POWER WHICH HAS DONE MORE TO HELP MEN ACHIEVE SUCCESS THAN ALL OTHER FORCES COMBINED. "
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
Trust me i have my fair share of problems with PRC girls…. cause I just don’t really like them…. I remember I was with the girl from prc i mean she expected me to be with her when she give me that princess attitude…. end up she saw me with another girl she went all crazy and crying LOL is funny cause the one i was dating is her friend…. Bah i am never into PRC again bad exp….
Hi bro abugga,
Thank u so much for ur post. I read Napoleon Hill’s famous book decades ago. It has not helped me very much.
I totally disagree w/ his views on sex, love, romance n marriage.
A real MAN doesn’t need to please women. It’s not in his nature, not in his genes. He is dominant n his women are submissive.
It’s his DESIRE to bed the LARGEST number of the prettiest n healthiest women who are exclusive n safe for him n for them to bear n nurture his offspring. Only his offspring.
However, he needs to make emotional connection w/ his women, give them material n financial support n make them come long n hard during PVOs.
I know my view is politically incorrect n may offend many people out there, including feminists, girlie men, religious holy men, some politicians, etc. But humans hv survived until today because men n women hv largely adhered to their respective gender roles. Otherwise, the future of humans is gloomy…
But many men get KC-ed or fall in love w/ that one special woman. Big mistake haha.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ahpui99
Bro warbird
I am going to save this article and share this with my friends. Thanks u for this
Bro,
Read it several times.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
AAconnection
[SIZE=“3”]Haha Bro Warbird you getting marry?
Marrying a woman is like doing business or adopting a pet. Culture and race is priority. The breed of the woman is one of the consideration …………… Any medical and inherited problem from ancestor also need to be considered. An exchange of medical status and character report will be of good help. In the past this is done by a reliable match maker………..
Bro,
Tks for ur post. I’m not getting married. One of my sons is getting engaged.
Family n genetic history is important.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
After weeks of busy and stuff now i can finally take a good break at home. I will talk more about the previous mention korean. She is a lawyer who decided to go into modelling………………….meet up with her. When I am there i will update more about it.
Bro,
Tks for sharing.
Most Korean girls r not appealing to me. Most of them hv had too many surgical procedures. If u take a look at their ‘before’ pics, you will run away haha.
Leaving my personal opinion aside, what do u think contribute to your apparent ‘success’ w/ ‘chio’ Korean women?
Thanks in advance for your insight.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
abugga
Good evening gentlemen. I have recently read a book, titled " think and grow rich " - Napoleon Hill.
I have found it to be extremely helpful in the daily life. It has also briefly touched down on love, sex and romance.
Below is an paragraph which I would like to quote, and therefore seek the opinions of various brothers here.
" Fortunate is the husband whose wife understands the true relationship between the emotions of love, sex and romance. …………………This statement presupposes, of course, that genuine love once existed between a man and his wife.
The facts are equally applicable to a man who permits his wife’s interest in him to die…………………………….Man has the same desire to please women, the only thing that has changed is the method to please women.
Men who accumulate large fortunes, and attain to great heights of power amd fame, do so, mainly to satisfy their desire to please women.
Take women out of their lives, and great wealth would be useless to most men. It is this inherent desire of man to please woman, which gives woman to make or break a man……………….
Most men will not admit that they are easily influenced by the women they prefer…………………………..
THE MAN WHO DOES NOT RECOGNIZE THIS IMPORTANT TRUTH DEPRIVES HIMSELF OF THE POWER WHICH HAS DONE MORE TO HELP MEN ACHIEVE SUCCESS THAN ALL OTHER FORCES COMBINED. "
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
Trust me i have my fair share of problems with PRC girls…. cause I just don’t really like them…. I remember I was with the girl from prc i mean she expected me to be with her when she give me that princess attitude…. end up she saw me with another girl she went all crazy and crying LOL is funny cause the one i was dating is her friend…. Bah i am never into PRC again bad exp….
Hi bro abugga,
Thank u so much for ur post. I read Napoleon Hill’s famous book decades ago. It has not helped me very much.
I totally disagree w/ his views on sex, love, romance n marriage.
A real MAN doesn’t need to please women. It’s not in his nature, not in his genes. He is dominant n his women are submissive.
It’s his DESIRE to bed the LARGEST number of the prettiest n healthiest women who are exclusive n safe for him n for them to bear n nurture his offspring. Only his offspring.
However, he needs to make emotional connection w/ his women, give them material n financial support n make them come long n hard during PVOs.
I know my view is politically incorrect n may offend many people out there, including feminists, girlie men, religious holy men, some politicians, etc. But humans hv survived until today because men n women hv largely adhered to their respective gender roles. Otherwise, the future of humans is gloomy…
But many men get KC-ed or fall in love w/ that one special woman. Big mistake haha.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ahpui99
Bro warbird
I am going to save this article and share this with my friends. Thanks u for this
Bro,
Read it several times.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
AAconnection
[SIZE=“3”]Haha Bro Warbird you getting marry?
Marrying a woman is like doing business or adopting a pet. Culture and race is priority. The breed of the woman is one of the consideration …………… Any medical and inherited problem from ancestor also need to be considered. An exchange of medical status and character report will be of good help. In the past this is done by a reliable match maker………..
Bro,
Tks for ur post. I’m not getting married. One of my sons is getting engaged.
Family n genetic history is important.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
After weeks of busy and stuff now i can finally take a good break at home. I will talk more about the previous mention korean. She is a lawyer who decided to go into modelling………………….meet up with her. When I am there i will update more about it.
Bro,
Tks for sharing.
Most Korean girls r not appealing to me. Most of them hv had too many surgical procedures. If u take a look at their ‘before’ pics, you will run away haha.
Leaving my personal opinion aside, what do u think contribute to your apparent ‘success’ w/ ‘chio’ Korean women?
Thanks in advance for your insight.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
abugga
Bro WB,
My girl is 100% local, that is to say Singaporean.
I wonder what do you have to say about her treatment of me now you do know she’s a true blue Singaporean
Bro abugga,
You’re lucky as most local gals will not take care of their men like that.
Many Japanese girls still do.
Cheers!
Bro WB
……………………………………
Good morning!
I’m awaiting more comments n criticisms on my post on “How to Pick the Right Wife.”
Thanks n hv a great day!
Bro WB
[QUOTE=deathnitez;10708116]Yeah quite true about the plastic side…………..
For me i think is chemistry and sincerity. I notice most of the girls which i manage to ahem i just base on feel. Of course looks usually comes in first then later the next step is feeling. I am not sure the kg is a success tbh WB bro lol…. but i am still a noob learning as i grow…../QUOTE]
Bro deathnitez,
Tks for sharing.
You must hv the X factor. I would call it sexual confidence n mojo haha.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
abugga
Hi Bro WB, I have to agree with you. As such I am still a student of the disciples. I am still of young age.
I do very much agree with the points you have made about emotional connection, material and financial support.
I would like to share my most recent experience. I have recently met a young syt of my type, got her number…………….
She has confided in me what attracted her to me, was at first my voice. A voice that resonates power, sexiness and decisiveness, it has made her fall for me even when she has not seen me before. She is very kinsthetic and auditory, she responds very much to my every touch and voice.
She has a figure that puts many local “models” to shame………….Do take note, I am very young, do not have a penny to my name(yet). But I play my cards accordingly to my strengths and turn my weaknesses to advantages.
Will update again
Bro abugga,
Tks for letting us in on ur secret…
Yes, a man’s voice, tonality, inflections n words r very sexual n powerful!
Wonder what is the nationality of ur girl.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DiabloX
Thanks bro Warbird, your words really put things into perspective for me, been debating this issue since i’m nearing 40. Cheers +10
DiabloX
Bro DiabloX.
I’m thrilled that you hv found the 12 golden rules useful.
Just remember this: Marriage is a strictly business or commercial transaction. Leave out the emotions n ’true love.'
Big Boss n many bros may not agree w/ my controversial view that a legal marriage is strictly a commercial transaction. But I stand by it.
You know what I believe a man must do to get ’true lasting love’ from any woman hahaha.
Of course, the same 12 golden rules apply equally to selecting a LT mistress. But I’m much less stringent in applying these rules w/ a potential mistress because she poses no financial threat if the RS fails. A mistress has zero legal rights hahaha. Keeping a LT mistress gives me all the advantages but much fewer disadvantages of a legal marriage. I can hv kids w/ my mistress too if n when I want. It’s a less risky commercial transaction…and much cheaper too, IMHO. I can terminate a ‘contract’ w/ any mistress anytime w/ no legal n financial consequences.
Btw, the following is my post on “Famous Samster and his HFJ PRC Story.” The famous samster is bro AD.
<<<<<Quote:
Originally Posted by Snowman View Post
Good Day people…..
the story has come to and end…….. with our good brother … kana jia lat…
but at least he woke up..
stay tune for……..
the ENDING story.
Bro Snowman,
I read this story abt Bro AD a few yrs ago. I hv learned much…
Quote:
Originally Posted by MichaelWinn View Post
although this post is few years ago, it ’s wisdom still hold true today
sad to see the guy end up like that all because of a whore…………………
he can only blame himself, what a tragedy!
Bro MichaelWinn,
Very sad story.
However, man-woman RS has been complicated n sometimes tragic for one or both party, since time immemorial…
A man must never lose his head for ANY woman, whoever she is…otherwise he will be in big trouble. Not even for his dear mom or his beloved dream girl…
To be KC-proof, he must hv awesome self mastery. The person who cares the least controls the RS.
In fact, a real MAN must never lose his head even when facing the most stressful n most dangerous situations, even if his life is on the line…
Just my personal opinion.
Cheers!
Bro WB >>>>>
Quote:
Originally Posted by
abugga
Bro WB,
My girl is 100% local, that is to say Singaporean.
I wonder what do you have to say about her treatment of me now you do know she’s a true blue Singaporean
Bro abugga,
You’re lucky as most local gals will not take care of their men like that.
Many Japanese girls still do.
Cheers!
Bro WB
……………………………………
Good morning!
I’m awaiting more comments n criticisms on my post on “How to Pick the Right Wife.”
Thanks n hv a great day!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
I will always avoid SG gals like the plague.
They are born and bred in SG so they know their way in SG and they know where you stay…………………
In the beginning, they will always tell you they don’t mind being the one on the side, and they treat you like a king.
Used to have one SG gal who was head over heels for me. Cooks for me, serves me, de-shell prawns for me, have the wildest sex, swallow all my cum without flinching……………….
But alas, she wanted more and she turned very jealous and spiteful…
So, if you are not single, then don’t touch SG gals… but its just my bad experience…
Bro FA,
Tks for sharing.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
I am sure, if it wasn’t an act, this gal comes from a very close knit well brought up traditional family.
My wife also like tat. Even until today. Go makan, will take tissue clean my face when I perspire etc
This type, NEVER LET GO must keep for LIFE! They will do everything & anything to keep you HAPPY be it sexual or not
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Moral of the story. If u wanna shit, dun shit in ur own backyard la keke
Mr. Chairman,
Tks for ur post.
It’s very difficult to find a wife like that, especially one who could live in peace w/ ur mistresses.
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
Yes yes! I learnt my lesson liao! That was 10 years ago! LOL
Bro,
We shouldn’t stereotype any group as it may or may not be true. Also, every girl is different…
Cheers!
………………………………………….. ……….
Good morning!
“How to Pick the Right wife” is written by an Ang Moh n I happen to agree w/ him 100%. But it’s just me n many bros may hv very different views on the marriage institution n they may look for very different qualities in an ideal wife. That is great because one man’s meat is another man’s poison. You hv my sincerest blessings!
Another important topic which is of great interest to many bros n some women is whether safe penis enlargement is possible. I’ll cite a couple of articles from reputed medical institutions in Gotham country. For now, I just want to say that a man definitely doesn’t need a larger than average penis to give women the most intense PVOs.
Lastly, a few minutes ago I obtained a copy of Sex-Ploytation, How Women Use Their Bodies to Extort Money from Men, by Matthew Fitzgerald. I’m going to read it n give my report.
Even w/o reading it, I believe these ‘women’ should include legal wives who are actually the biggest offenders. But knowing that women actually crave great sex much more than men can be used to prevent this extortion hahaha. Knowledge w/ focused action is power!
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
lucky low
hi bros, great contributions, keep it alive
Bro lucky low,
You make my day!
Cheers!
Bro WB
……………………………..
Good afternoon!
I hv just finished the Introduction of Sex-ploytation (published in 1999) n I already love it! The author n I think alike!!
I hv to go out now but I like to post it here:
Introduction
Twenty-five years ago, a remarkable book was published entitled The Manipulated Man.
Its author was Esther Vilar, an Argentinian-born physician and psychologist, who had
emigrated from her native Buenos Aires to West Germany. From the vantage point of
such rich cultural experience, Vilar was in a unique position to cast a critical eye on the
social milieu of the 1960’s and 70’s; and because she had managed to disencumber herself
from the hypocrisy so natural to her gender, she was free to unleash her intelligence as a
ruthlessly honest critic of male/female relationships.
Although it was only a slim volume, The Manipulated Man nevertheless packed the
wallop of a hand grenade. Vilar’s crucial thesis was that women, by manipulating men
with sex, have conditioned them to respond like Pavlov’s dogs, to be shackled into a
lifetime of subservience and slavery for the fulfillment of female desires. It was a coldblooded
manipulation, indeed. To Vilar, the typical American housewife was nothing
more than a parasitic prostitute living off the bounty of her husband’s hard labor,
mercilessly goading him to make more money so that she could enjoy the finer things in
life without any expenditure of effort on her part. In her words: “Women live an animal
existence. They like eating, drinking, sleeping-even sex, providing there is nothing to do
and no real effort is required of them.”
Extreme though her conclusions appeared to be, nevertheless Vilar had hit her target dead
center. Predictably enough, the book touched off a furor of controversy and female rage
(it was vilified as a textbook of misogyny). Women’s age-old scam of trading sex for
food and shelter, so long whitewashed by tacit societal approval, had been suddenly
spotlighted under the stark glare of public scrutiny. Women protested; Vilar was
condemned as a traitor to her gender; copies of the book were confiscated and burned by
threatened wives and girlfriends. The female con game had been at last exposed, and the
truth burned like the slash of a knife.
The late 60’s and early 70’s was an era of abrupt and tumultuous cultural change, and
Vilar might have thought she had touched a nerve in younger readers. Giddily
empowered by a reckless interpretation of the new fad of feminism, women began to
burn their bras and to clamor for better jobs and pay equal to their male counterparts. The
invention of the birth control pill freed them to experiment with sex, to enjoy its pleasures
without fear of pregnancy. The sort of women Vilar had been castigating-housewives
idling away their afternoons lunching with girlfriends and withholding sex until their
husbands bought them a bigger diamond ring or a fur coat-suddenly seemed hopelessly
passé. An unstoppable tide of liberation seemed to have turned.
Yesterday’s whores would hand down their burnt-out torches of greed to an enlightened generation of women
who treasured men as partners in life, not meal tickets. Sex had become a celebration, no
longer a tool to extort money from men. A new age had begun.
But such optimistic hopes were short-lived. This “new age” died a quick and pitiless
death, a squirming victim sacrificed on the altar of female greed. As business boomed
and diversified in the late 70’s and early 80’s, and baby-boomer men prospered, the fires
of avarice began once again to blaze up fiercely in female hearts.
The mercenary opportunities of their gender nagged insistently at these young revolutionaries, and their
mothers’ words haunted them with timeworn advice: why should men buy the cow if they
can have the milk for free? Ironically the equal rights movement, with its emphasis on
individual freedom and gender parity, had somehow spawned an evil twin sister. Fueled
by an all encompassing anger and avarice, a renegade self-serving feminism had spun off
the old one, a greed-ridden parody of a noble ideal. It sanctioned women to become even
more selfish and demanding of men than their mothers had been. Now they wanted their
cake and eat it, too: while they marched for equal rights and equal pay, they still expected
men to take care of their needs, and they still offered the bait of their bodies to plunder
male wallets. Feminism didn’t free the ordinary woman; it simply gave blunt franchise to
her greed.
But the future promised an even blacker forecast. By the mid 80’s, female arrogance had
spread like a virulent cancer, and women had begun to assess men not as equals, but as
inferiors. A woman’s version of equal rights had turned into “pay for me-and pay a lotwithout
question”. I am woman, you owe me. The cute conniving of their mothers had
had its day; coldly trading the use of her body for big money had become a woman’s
business. Instead of “if it feels good, do it”, now it was “if it feels good, sell it”. Make
cash, not love.
Whoredom was back, and this time with a vengeance.
In comparison to this unbounded greed, Vilar’s women seemed like schoolgirls making
cow-eyes at Daddy to con him out of extra allowance. At least her housewives were more
honest prostitutes, selling themselves within the context of the social norm, more or less
under the aegis of societal blessing. But these new whores had emerged as the most
flagrant of hypocrites, parading themselves as emancipated, yet still insisting on cash for
sex, then refusing to admit the reality of their prostitution.
This is an incendiary book. It takes up where Esther Vilar left off twenty-five years ago.
The primary targets of its criticisms are single and divorced women, since they are the
most egregious offenders in regarding mate selection and dating as a whore-john
relationship.
In these times of rampant inflation and rising housing costs, economic
realities force many married women to go to work-kicking and screaming against their
will, of course-in order to help support a family. Still, quite a few women live off the hard
work of their husbands, contributing nothing to the marriage but high bills and an
occasional lay. At these prostitutes this book is aimed as well.
Male readers will applaud the conclusions of Sex-Ploytation, and will cheer that at long
last someone has found the courage to rip the mask off female duplicity to ransom men,
emancipating them from their chains of frustration and sexual slavery.
Female readers will doubtless be outraged. Some will predictably rant and rave that the book is “antiwoman”;
others, threatened by the exposure of their manipulations, will bury their heads
in the sands of disbelief and denial. But truth is truth; it exists independent of wishful
thinking. All of us are guilty of egoistic provincialism; all of us rigorously defend the
battlements of our illusions.
Women are especially skilled in such fantasies, preferring
magical thinking over naked reality. They are herd creatures, naively following whatever
direction society leads them. Seemingly incapable of independent thought, they troop
along the path of least resistance, entranced by a kind of hypnosis which allows them to
disavow any responsibility for their actions.
It takes far less effort to warm the bed of a millionaire than to earn a million dollars yourself. It is much less expensive to pretend to
be a tragic victim of a “male-dominated” society than to pay for your own dinner.
Even though, like The Manipulated Man, this book is sure to be denounced as misogynist
literature, it has no interest in hating women or in female-bashing. It is not motivated by
anger or bitterness, or even cynicism. To come to such a conclusion is, as above, to
follow a path of least resistance. It is, rather, a book of uncensored observations of human
behavior, and so is not an agenda-ridden manifesto, as is so typical of anti-male literature.
The conclusions written here may be inflammatory, perhaps even menacing, but they are
culled from real life and real experience, and therefore cannot be denied nor disproved.
The true purpose of this book is not to despise women, but to shine a harsh light on their
mercenary behavior, and to expose this behavior to uncompromising scrutiny.
With any luck, this book will inspire social change; at worst it will push a little farther along the
trail blazed by Esther Vilar two-and a-half decades ago.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
I will always avoid SG gals like the plague.
They are born and bred in SG so they know their way in SG and they know where you stay…………………
In the beginning, they will always tell you they don’t mind being the one on the side, and they treat you like a king.
Used to have one SG gal who was head over heels for me. Cooks for me, serves me, de-shell prawns for me, have the wildest sex, swallow all my cum without flinching……………….
But alas, she wanted more and she turned very jealous and spiteful…
So, if you are not single, then don’t touch SG gals… but its just my bad experience…
Bro FA,
Tks for sharing.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
I am sure, if it wasn’t an act, this gal comes from a very close knit well brought up traditional family.
My wife also like tat. Even until today. Go makan, will take tissue clean my face when I perspire etc
This type, NEVER LET GO must keep for LIFE! They will do everything & anything to keep you HAPPY be it sexual or not
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Moral of the story. If u wanna shit, dun shit in ur own backyard la keke
Mr. Chairman,
Tks for ur post.
It’s very difficult to find a wife like that, especially one who could live in peace w/ ur mistresses.
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
Yes yes! I learnt my lesson liao! That was 10 years ago! LOL
Bro,
We shouldn’t stereotype any group as it may or may not be true. Also, every girl is different…
Cheers!
………………………………………….. ……….
Good morning!
“How to Pick the Right wife” is written by an Ang Moh n I happen to agree w/ him 100%. But it’s just me n many bros may hv very different views on the marriage institution n they may look for very different qualities in an ideal wife. That is great because one man’s meat is another man’s poison. You hv my sincerest blessings!
Another important topic which is of great interest to many bros n some women is whether safe penis enlargement is possible. I’ll cite a couple of articles from reputed medical institutions in Gotham country. For now, I just want to say that a man definitely doesn’t need a larger than average penis to give women the most intense PVOs.
Lastly, a few minutes ago I obtained a copy of Sex-Ploytation, How Women Use Their Bodies to Extort Money from Men, by Matthew Fitzgerald. I’m going to read it n give my report.
Even w/o reading it, I believe these ‘women’ should include legal wives who are actually the biggest offenders. But knowing that women actually crave great sex much more than men can be used to prevent this extortion hahaha. Knowledge w/ focused action is power!
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
lucky low
hi bros, great contributions, keep it alive
Bro lucky low,
You make my day!
Cheers!
Bro WB
……………………………..
Good afternoon!
I hv just finished the Introduction of Sex-ploytation (published in 1999) n I already love it! The author n I think alike!!
I hv to go out now but I like to post it here:
Introduction
Twenty-five years ago, a remarkable book was published entitled The Manipulated Man.
Its author was Esther Vilar, an Argentinian-born physician and psychologist, who had
emigrated from her native Buenos Aires to West Germany. From the vantage point of
such rich cultural experience, Vilar was in a unique position to cast a critical eye on the
social milieu of the 1960’s and 70’s; and because she had managed to disencumber herself
from the hypocrisy so natural to her gender, she was free to unleash her intelligence as a
ruthlessly honest critic of male/female relationships.
Although it was only a slim volume, The Manipulated Man nevertheless packed the
wallop of a hand grenade. Vilar’s crucial thesis was that women, by manipulating men
with sex, have conditioned them to respond like Pavlov’s dogs, to be shackled into a
lifetime of subservience and slavery for the fulfillment of female desires. It was a coldblooded
manipulation, indeed. To Vilar, the typical American housewife was nothing
more than a parasitic prostitute living off the bounty of her husband’s hard labor,
mercilessly goading him to make more money so that she could enjoy the finer things in
life without any expenditure of effort on her part. In her words: “Women live an animal
existence. They like eating, drinking, sleeping-even sex, providing there is nothing to do
and no real effort is required of them.”
Extreme though her conclusions appeared to be, nevertheless Vilar had hit her target dead
center. Predictably enough, the book touched off a furor of controversy and female rage
(it was vilified as a textbook of misogyny). Women’s age-old scam of trading sex for
food and shelter, so long whitewashed by tacit societal approval, had been suddenly
spotlighted under the stark glare of public scrutiny. Women protested; Vilar was
condemned as a traitor to her gender; copies of the book were confiscated and burned by
threatened wives and girlfriends. The female con game had been at last exposed, and the
truth burned like the slash of a knife.
The late 60’s and early 70’s was an era of abrupt and tumultuous cultural change, and
Vilar might have thought she had touched a nerve in younger readers. Giddily
empowered by a reckless interpretation of the new fad of feminism, women began to
burn their bras and to clamor for better jobs and pay equal to their male counterparts. The
invention of the birth control pill freed them to experiment with sex, to enjoy its pleasures
without fear of pregnancy. The sort of women Vilar had been castigating-housewives
idling away their afternoons lunching with girlfriends and withholding sex until their
husbands bought them a bigger diamond ring or a fur coat-suddenly seemed hopelessly
passé. An unstoppable tide of liberation seemed to have turned.
Yesterday’s whores would hand down their burnt-out torches of greed to an enlightened generation of women
who treasured men as partners in life, not meal tickets. Sex had become a celebration, no
longer a tool to extort money from men. A new age had begun.
But such optimistic hopes were short-lived. This “new age” died a quick and pitiless
death, a squirming victim sacrificed on the altar of female greed. As business boomed
and diversified in the late 70’s and early 80’s, and baby-boomer men prospered, the fires
of avarice began once again to blaze up fiercely in female hearts.
The mercenary opportunities of their gender nagged insistently at these young revolutionaries, and their
mothers’ words haunted them with timeworn advice: why should men buy the cow if they
can have the milk for free? Ironically the equal rights movement, with its emphasis on
individual freedom and gender parity, had somehow spawned an evil twin sister. Fueled
by an all encompassing anger and avarice, a renegade self-serving feminism had spun off
the old one, a greed-ridden parody of a noble ideal. It sanctioned women to become even
more selfish and demanding of men than their mothers had been. Now they wanted their
cake and eat it, too: while they marched for equal rights and equal pay, they still expected
men to take care of their needs, and they still offered the bait of their bodies to plunder
male wallets. Feminism didn’t free the ordinary woman; it simply gave blunt franchise to
her greed.
But the future promised an even blacker forecast. By the mid 80’s, female arrogance had
spread like a virulent cancer, and women had begun to assess men not as equals, but as
inferiors. A woman’s version of equal rights had turned into “pay for me-and pay a lotwithout
question”. I am woman, you owe me. The cute conniving of their mothers had
had its day; coldly trading the use of her body for big money had become a woman’s
business. Instead of “if it feels good, do it”, now it was “if it feels good, sell it”. Make
cash, not love.
Whoredom was back, and this time with a vengeance.
In comparison to this unbounded greed, Vilar’s women seemed like schoolgirls making
cow-eyes at Daddy to con him out of extra allowance. At least her housewives were more
honest prostitutes, selling themselves within the context of the social norm, more or less
under the aegis of societal blessing. But these new whores had emerged as the most
flagrant of hypocrites, parading themselves as emancipated, yet still insisting on cash for
sex, then refusing to admit the reality of their prostitution.
This is an incendiary book. It takes up where Esther Vilar left off twenty-five years ago.
The primary targets of its criticisms are single and divorced women, since they are the
most egregious offenders in regarding mate selection and dating as a whore-john
relationship.
In these times of rampant inflation and rising housing costs, economic
realities force many married women to go to work-kicking and screaming against their
will, of course-in order to help support a family. Still, quite a few women live off the hard
work of their husbands, contributing nothing to the marriage but high bills and an
occasional lay. At these prostitutes this book is aimed as well.
Male readers will applaud the conclusions of Sex-Ploytation, and will cheer that at long
last someone has found the courage to rip the mask off female duplicity to ransom men,
emancipating them from their chains of frustration and sexual slavery.
Female readers will doubtless be outraged. Some will predictably rant and rave that the book is “antiwoman”;
others, threatened by the exposure of their manipulations, will bury their heads
in the sands of disbelief and denial. But truth is truth; it exists independent of wishful
thinking. All of us are guilty of egoistic provincialism; all of us rigorously defend the
battlements of our illusions.
Women are especially skilled in such fantasies, preferring
magical thinking over naked reality. They are herd creatures, naively following whatever
direction society leads them. Seemingly incapable of independent thought, they troop
along the path of least resistance, entranced by a kind of hypnosis which allows them to
disavow any responsibility for their actions.
It takes far less effort to warm the bed of a millionaire than to earn a million dollars yourself. It is much less expensive to pretend to
be a tragic victim of a “male-dominated” society than to pay for your own dinner.
Even though, like The Manipulated Man, this book is sure to be denounced as misogynist
literature, it has no interest in hating women or in female-bashing. It is not motivated by
anger or bitterness, or even cynicism. To come to such a conclusion is, as above, to
follow a path of least resistance. It is, rather, a book of uncensored observations of human
behavior, and so is not an agenda-ridden manifesto, as is so typical of anti-male literature.
The conclusions written here may be inflammatory, perhaps even menacing, but they are
culled from real life and real experience, and therefore cannot be denied nor disproved.
The true purpose of this book is not to despise women, but to shine a harsh light on their
mercenary behavior, and to expose this behavior to uncompromising scrutiny.
With any luck, this book will inspire social change; at worst it will push a little farther along the
trail blazed by Esther Vilar two-and a-half decades ago.