Mistress

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Originally Posted by

yinyang

Mind boggles, how do you juggle so many balls? Your outlook planner must be chock-a-block with events ….Not in you guys super league, but this thread makes more than a interesting read. So many life giving experiences (or lessons?)……..

Nothing further from truth. Acid test is contingent on one’s situation (or predicament!). Just like my (hybrid?) side dish case

Love to hear the story about your side dish bro Yinyang.

Okay with regards to the “juggle many balls comment, I’ll take the little innuendo bait and reply as per expected: …. “but its basically only two balls I juggle -mine!”

Anyway, I have to correct this perpection that my schedule is chock-a-block with sexual dalliances. On the contary, its actually rather quite underwhelming with regards to libidinous activities presently - especially if I narrow it down to Singapore only,

To wit:

1. CG in the throes of breakup. From now till the complete break, it a chore to ensure that she is alright. Certainly no sex or any sentimentality here as it would be counter productive to her ‘grieving’ and letting go process.

2. Xin2 nd XH are both in China. This rules out any corpulatory enjoyment with any of these fine lasses. Nothing is decided with regards to whether I want to extend my patronage to XH or to start with Xin2 presently. (I prefer Xin2 over XH at the time of writing.)

3. M will be back in Singapore only next month (or I might do a quick trip to HCM City if not too busy). Hopefully she will come with several interested damsels willing to be mistresses in tow.

In the spirit of generousity, I may open up the offer here (espcially if I take up with Xin2). Of course only those with quality are considered as viable options (in accordance to my sense of aesthetics and criteria - which may differ from yours).

Thus in the here and now, M is literally “out of touch”.

4. As for Paeng, I will mostly likely go to BKK next week to visit her.

This leaves me effectively only with my Singapore GF, who the workaholic that she is, probably can only spen nights with me.

But as can be guessed, I will not just passively wait out this ’lull’ period(unless I consciously decide to chill out and take a respite - by choice). Ipso facto, I will endeavour to create options and choice for myself. It is precisely during this lull period that I ‘replenish’ my stocks (or indulge in the occasional FL)!

In my personal opinion, at any one time there should be three to four gal on standby for your booty call. My personal Optimal number of gals is three to four at any one time - already landed, not in pursuit. Any less does not have sufficient variety and is vulnerable to schedule conflicts. Any thing more than three or four, I will be too stretched.

What this means is that I too will be on the hunt/pwowl during the present period?

If I find anyone better than XH or Xin2, I will ‘cast’ them aside for the newer flavour(s).

(As so wonderfully narrated by Bro DYBJ earlier, please note that this attitude of constantly on the hunt for better deals/options is widely practiced by most WL; if they find a better patron or bf, they will dump you unceremoniously).

Bro DYBJ (or should I say Mr. Austin … how on earth does this moniker come about?), Sir LD, Bro Warbird, Lady Latex Dolly (I am sure she will be reading this thread), bro Fishcer, bro marc 5, Your Excellency MM LKY,

I read with great delight your little romps and adventures. Sorry that I was unable to join in the fun the last evening/night. Woke up so dam late - must have practically slept at least 14 hours - and subsequently feel so lethargic to go out cheonging.

Anyway reading DYBJ’s narrative about 珍珍 certainly piqued my interest in her. Feel like I just gotta meet her in person. (Will not be joining in the queue of ‘suitors’ so no threat from me whatsoever!)

What is it about hotly demanded gal that is so attractive and compelling? Is it the challenge factor that so engages us? (There is a psychological reasoning behind this phenomenon)

For the moment, I prefer HH timings as I want to indulge my Singapore GF who has been exceedingly patient with me. Pity that after his ‘virgin’ HH session I might get to see Mr. Austin, I would dearly love to meet him again - even in a non KTV context!.

If there is any outtings in the pipeline, could you please extend an invitation to me. I especially really wanna meet up Bro Warbird before he goes back to Gothom City!

Thanks ya all!

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Originally Posted by

warbird

Hi bro justime,

Ths for sharing ur personal strategies. Having 3-4 gals on call 24/7, ready for ur carnal desire, is a wonderful idea. But r all these gals being BAO-ed by u at the same time? It might be more than I need as I’m not young n virile like u. Currently, I hv two relatively young BAO-ees (aged 21 n 22) n I’m completely satiated. My didi is already struggling even w/ the help of Cialis, hehehe.

To outright BY all 3-4 girls simultaneously is way beyond my budget. If you read my post, at any one point of time, it is two girls under patronage at any one time if outright BY.

Sometimes it’s the solitary BY – when it is premium 10K and above category. To stretch my dollar, I usually have to the hybrid arrangement (GF-Mistress) to make up the numbers and/or have FB and GF to supplement in order to make up the three to four numbers.

Admittedly I do have quite a high libido. To preserve virility, I do take supplements as per my earlier post. And there are occasions too that I enlist Cialis’ help.

Like you, age too is also catching up on me. Obviously I do not entertain all 3-4 every night. Therefore times I just indulge in TLC without doing the ‘jiggy’ in attendant. On average, I think I do cover at least twice in a week with every of my gals ~ give or take.

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Originally Posted by

warbird

….. We had quite a colourful grp the other nite.

I dubbed my dear bro DYBJ the moniker to his initial protestation. Why the nick? He is unique, playful, mysterious n unpredictable, global in that he is always on the move, from Asia to Europe, the Americas…hehehe. Above all, he has the big MOJO. He is the International Man of Mystery aka Austin Powers!!

He has also been very generous in giving me his honest n frank advice.

I must add that I hv also benefited greatly from ur posts n personal advice. I thank my lucky star to be able to call YOU n Mr. Austin my frens.

BTW, I dun hv much time left n would like to meet up w/ u soon.

Wished I was there the other nite. Loved a spot of drama.

So our dear bro DYBJ is also hirsute like Mr. Austin? (Physiognomy cues for libidinous persons: Hairy forearms for gals and hairy backs for males?) : )

Know from your posts you will be back in Nov (hope to introduce you to M and Viet prospects then) but when will you be leaving this month?

Hi bobochan, …. (again taking the innuendo bait), that’s one hellava cute pussy picture that you post here!

Anyway, thank for your support. Please do feel free to post your views / perspective / stories here (especially if you are of the gender that your nick alludes to). Looking forward to your contributions bobo!

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Originally Posted by

warbird

…..Having two BAO-ees at the same time may be necessary as one of them may hv 大姨妈 for 4-5 days.

I prefer to hv a longer-term RS w/ one n the 2nd one for shorter periods of 1-4 wks. The problem w/ longer-term RS is that the gal may want at least half the monthly allowance even when I’m in Gotham City. Tell her NO?

I hv not had the good fortune of seeing Mr. Austin’s bare chest. But one thing is certain: He has long lost his British accent!!

Gals w/ hairy forearms hv strong libido? One Fujian gal I know well has hirsute forearms but although she enjoys sex she doesn’t seem to need it at all.

Perhaps the fault is w/ me.

I may delay my departure a bit n will return, hopefully, in early in Dec.

Pls PM or SMS me when u can meet.

Hi Bro Warbird, was looking forward for a nice respite in SEP when I just got word of a monumental (pardon my French) F**K up that requires me to go overseas for a spot of troubleshooting. Not sure when I can be back.

If I miss you this time round, Dec will defintely be good. BTW, M has just gotten her beautician diploma and will be trying for S-pass to work here. (Here’s wishing her all the best!)

Loved your ‘Mr. Austin’ comment. Conjuring Bro DYBJ image in my mind’s eye against your comment I can’t help but smile.

Never viewed from the 大姨妈 angle. Now that you mentioned it, valid and good point (although there can be other non bleeding orifices that can be considered).

Guess the idea of paying retainer when you are away is contingent on whether you want to continue with her and the the sum involved vis-a-vis your personal budget.

It should be obvious that regardless whether you indulge her financially during your absence or not, you still run the risk of your BY being unfaithful.

In essence, can you stomach the idea of subsidising her while she is having her own fun and/or looking at better prospect in your absence?

Let’s face it, having some kind of hold/control on her by using the financial nexus is certainly stronger than none at all when it comes to continuing where you left off upon your return. Your ‘generousity’ will have some currency when you continue with her after the period of your absence. You can even leverage on this spirit of generousity by getting her to indulge your whims.

However, you alone must determine the value and worth of this hold (which may be quite tenuous).

If you don’t mind paying for an ASSet that you will not be using and the associated risk of her playing behind your back in your absence (almost an inevitable, ineluctable certainty), you can do so.

For me personally, only those rarest of gems do I extend financial support in my absence. I cannot speak for your BY as I have not interacted with them.

As an example, I do not give XH any financial support when she is in China. Although she is pretty sweet (and tender too), she is not irreplaceably unique. Yes, airfare etc to get her here is way within my budget, but in spite of this, I still intentionally delay giving her this money.

I want to play the field and audition (casting couch?) new talents this month. I see No point in paying for her to come here and then not do anything and/or leaving her alone with her own devices.

Yes, only when I cannot find an XH equivilant (better yet, a superior specimen) while playing the field, will I then give the airfare for her to come here.

(XH ’lazy’ ways during her stinct in Singapore and general dependancy on my financial support during the last trip means that she does not have the wherewithal to come here just like that.)

Yes, admittedly I run the risk of losing her - a likely proposition. My hold on her currently is KC (which is very tenuous at best). Given the materialistic orientation, any generous patron or Robert wannabe who indulges XH at this point of time can easily ursurp her from me. However, because I have set myself up with nice options, I don’t feel the pressure or need indulge her. That’s why its always good to have options and choice. Choice not only in the form of gal prospect but also in the range of action that you want to take.

Having choices available precludes the scarcity mentality and frees you from being needy.

And it is one of the surest way to empower yourself!

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Originally Posted by

ansonsohna

….just curious bro, what are yur thots abt the fierce singapore gal hitting her bf lampar?

Hi Bro Anson, I think I know which incident you are referring to.

(Can you post a link so that all readers would be on the same page? Thanks Bro)

I actually have got lots of things that I want to expatiate on with regards to this.

1. Right off the bat, I wonder if most readers here made the connection that this incident is germane to the very concepts that we talk about in this “Mistress” thread. If the newspapers are to be believed, the victim is director in an International Property firm and that the shrew in question is ex-staff whom he financially supports for close to a year.

It should be bladdy obvious that the guy is not empowered in the relationship whatsoever despite him providing financial support.

Like you, I will not pass judgment or cast aspersions on his masculinity without knowing the full context of the case. Sometimes it takes inordinate courage to ‘turn the other cheek’ especially in public! The prima facie understanding however suggests a man literally succumbing to a very fierce woman that he emasculates himself (a very unattractive proposition to most women and so dam disempowering that I cringe!).

2. Just to let you in the know, I had planned to do a Masterstroke on “Taming of the Shrew”. Sometimes we find ourselves very attracted to the feisty lasses who are given to ‘physical violence’. The control aspect of this shrew is obviously different vis-à-vis a more submissive one (e.g. Xin2). You certainly need to apply different strokes to shrews in order to control her.

Just a little foretaste of what of what the strategy involves:

a) As a person who also desires to be high up in the dominance / alpha scale (to paraphrase Bro Warbird’s terminology), it will be difficult to share the same position in the totem pole with a shrew over time, despite how much control you have over her at the outset. You must be prepared to let the shrew go if she becomes increasingly domineering or given to physical abuse.

b) Tease out her deepest insecurities and use it to manipulate her.

c) Manipulate her inner circle…and have a hold over them.

d) Now this is extremely controversial - How to apply the right type of verbal & physical violence if need arises without it becoming assault and battery.

(People who familiar with me will know that I hardly lose my cool even in the most heated circumstances. I am very even tempered and my assertiveness is understated. It is a quality that Hua, Mike and Terrence admire about me.)

So it is very uncomfortable for me to elaborate the violence aspect. But like it or not, women with fiery tempers and a penchant for violence exists. Not all are sugar and spice. That’s reality! What is also reality is that some of us may also be very attracted to such feisty lass (Hua has a penchant for fiery babes – must be the challenge of taming of shrews that attracts him).

What I will only say now is:

Do NOT be manipulated on the amorphous notion of what constitutes a gentleman. Refer Sean Connery’s bond on how he treats woman. A ‘caveman’ approach to shrews when selectively used can be the most effective modus operandi.

A man’s morphological advantage should not be just to tolerate/endure the physical abuse a feisty woman metes out; it must also be used to subdue her and to gain the physical upper hand.

So back to the case of the shrew with the shoe: while walking away is certainly a good option, it is not the only course of action. It is perhaps the right approach when you want to diffuse the attention from public eyes.

For this shoe wielding warrior, you must wrestle and dislodge the shoe from her, throwing it far away from her and then pushing her off and simply drive away - leaving her stranded. Alternatively, you carry her shoes with you (after wrestling it from her) as you drive off, leaving her barefoot and stranded.

For those with extreme sangfroid, after driving off, make a deliberate halt, reverse the car to be beside her and then throw a ten /twenty note (with the instruction to “take a cab”. Drive away calmly despite the inevitable protestations and profanities!

3. I will only pass a cursory remark here at this point in time (maybe readers like take this up and generate some discussion on this if interested) to say that prominent and successful Chinese business personalities are derisive over the Singaporean male over how they treat their women. They claimed that the Singaporean male is practically emasculated (actually eunuchs – among the more polite terminology). My protestations that we simply like to pamper our women and are imbued with the western notions of chivalry are met with derisive laughter.

I have to sadly agree to a large extent on their observations. I have yet to see a WL manipulate or display such conniving attitude when serving a successful Chinese Businessman patron. They simply will not tolerate any nonsense – it is always the “my way or the highway” (plus the occasional serving of violence as interest).

Hua and his Chinese associates are really “old” school. If any women dare to even slap him, they will retaliate – and hard! Sometimes even a display of an attitude of petulance earns a WL tight slap. I have witnessed this first hand on at least two occasions when with Hua’s associates, much to my disquiet!

I have a lot of anecdotes on the feisty women / shrew but I shall wait till later to share when it comes to the “Taming of the Shrew” masterstroke.

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Originally Posted by

warbird

As for paying an allowance to my first BAO-ee while I’m absent for 2-3 months, I hv not decided yet. We hv had a long, complicated n checkered RS. Even if I dun pay her a retainer, she will still come back if she is in a financial bind, as she has done in the past.

She has seen me w/ other chio gals n she knows that I dun really need her pussy anymore. That is the reason she voluntarily lowers her demands n we r back together.

hmmm… a very quick question if I may, have you ‘analysed’ the reasons why she have such a hold on you?

Devil’s Advocate time: Why not move on to newer pastures - especially given that there are baggages (“long, complicated n checkered RS”) involved and that you have many new prospects in line?

Your response to the above may give you a cue/clue to your Achilles’ heel in your emotional make up when it comes to dealing with women.

Not sure if you have read /applied NLP techniques when it comes to seducing women. If you are familiar with the concepts, do you know what modality that she is operating on when interacting with you?

Hi Bro Warbird, pardon me for usurping material from the “Picking Up Gals Outside KTV” thread. I thought it expedient to string together how NLP principles can be applicable in the KTV context. It is like a ‘model answer’ in praxis and is anchored in real life.

May I point out that Bro Warbird approach to his prospect is one of playfulness and discovery. He is NOT overly stressed on overcome per se (although he obviously wishes it to be favourable to himself).

I would also like to underscore that an important aspect of his apparent progression in the art of mistressing and interaction with gals in general rise not only from diligence in imbibing psychological principles but also rooted in praxis – hardcore (definitely an innuendo here) practical experience in the trenches so to speak.

For people who are not familiar with NLP whatsoever, let me give an encapsulated treatise on it. Essentially people respond to three ways:

a) visual (sight/vision/seeing)

b) auditory (aural)

c) kinesthetic (touch/action/movement).

Basically if you communicate to them in their preferred way (also called modality), the chances of you establishing rapport is very strong. And good rapport engenders an intensification of feelings for you. It will also make your prospect more susceptible to suggestion. (I actually got my first anal sex using the NLP principles!)

Here, I present to you Bro Warbird’s real life application of NLP in the art of mistressing:

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Originally Posted by

warbird

Met a song bird (not a singer) last nite at DC HH. She is a 20 yo (born 1989) student of hotel management at a major school. I picked her from many gals outside the rooms primarily bcos she is 170 cm w/o shoes n quite chio. She has rather big boobs n nice ass for a tall gal. Wt abt 52 kg. She was born in Suzhou but grew up in SH.

………. She has been in the nite scene for only 1 month.

I was pleasantly surprised that she could speak American-accented English!! And her singing of both Chinese n English songs was fantastic!! She is very articulate n has a very charming voice. She sang most of my favourite songs well.

Her dominant sensory representation is clearly AUDITORY n so I tried to build rapport using primarily auditory words. And I did my best to speak slower n w/ deeper voice n try to vary my tone….

I’m looking forward to meeting her soon. My mission is to deepen my rapport w/ her…and try to use words to evoke her emotional responses n arouse her…it will be a fun journey for me, regardless of the outcome

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Originally Posted by

warbird

Booked her (let’s called her SS) to sit w/ me last nite. I salivated over her proportionate figure n long beautiful legs. She got meat in all the right places. BTW, she is 53, not 52 kg. We conversed in English 90% of the time. I deepened my rapport w/ her by using auditory words, listening to her n her singing…praising her sweet voice, etc. She was unhappy that I dun sing ….So I recited some famous Chinese poems to her. Wow! She was most impressed w/ my command of English n Mandarin Chinese. I also told her my former n current profession/business n that I hv doctorate degrees from top US universities, hehehe.

When the time was right, I popped the question.

Warbird: Is any man taking care of u?

SS: What do u mean?

Warbird: Do u hv a BF or some man who is BY-ing u?

SS: No, not now.

Warbird: U had one before?

SS: Yeah, I had a SGP BF for 2 months, not an exchange n I didn’t ask for any money. But he paid my rental ($800 monthly) n some living expenses.

Warbird: What happened to him?

SS: The first month was good. He treated me very well (I guess she means that he made love to her many times a wk) for one month, then he was seeing me less n less often. Then he avoided my calls. He got bored w/ me.

Warbird: Wat a fool. Unlike him, I believe in long-term RS (a little harmless lie). BTW, How old is he n is he married?

SS: He is 35 n single. Since our breakup, I came to work here 1 month ago.

Warbird: I like u n want to BY u.

SS (looked a bit shy n embarrassed): I never thought of being BAO-ed by a man.

Warbird: U r financially secure?

SS: My parents pay for my tuition n living expenses. I’m here to earn some extra pocket money.

Warbird: OK, I’ll treat u very well (I hope I dun need to fxxk her everyday to qualify) n u sing my favorite songs everyday. I’ll give u 6K a month…

SS: No no, that is way too much!! (first time a PRC MM says I’m paying too much!!).

Warbird: Yeah, too much. Sounds too much like an exchange. All right then, I’ll pay u only 4K a month.

SS (nodding her head): Hmmmm…

I then embraced her n kissed her. Later I squeezed her boobs, which were soft n quite a handful. When she stood up, I held her very tight w/ my body n my two hands were checking out her butt which was very fleshy n very firm (at least 35 plus).

I could hv her cunt last nite w/o paying. It would be a feat for an old chi pek. Unfortunately, my battery was so low n needed recharge for at least 2 days.

I told SS we would start our new RS when my Fujian GF (whom she met the day before) returns to China in less than a wk.

We agreed to meet again very soon.

……

Many gals may say they want a young, tall n handsome man. But a man’s perceived rating on the Dominance Male Scale is the sole determinant of his attractiveness to women, at the subconscious level (where it really counts). They can’t help it, hehehe.

The other factor is how one uses words n body language to establish rapport n trust n seduce her…knowing her dominant sensory representation system is a vital 1st step.

Not all KTV gals will do ST, though most of them will like to be BAO-ed by the right man at the right price.

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Originally Posted by

warbird

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I like to thank all esteemed bros n experts here for contributing ur strategies n sharing ur pickup n BY stories w/ all of us. These case studies need not be limited to KTV gals n may include any gal as long as she has a real pussy. FRs on ladyboys n transvestites/transexuals r not welcome.

I’ll update my onging saga w/ SS who is providing a good case study on some of the strategies I hv expounded.

Even though I met her less than 4 days ago n I hv not consummated the RS, we r fast becoming soul mates.

She initiated the many SMSes to me beginning yesterday AM. She gave her QQ no n password to me. She then emailed her pics n then we spoke on the phone for a long time. I was the one who terminated the call.

Perhaps my strategies hv been too successful on her. Since I recognized within the first hr of meeting her last Thu, while she was still sitting w/ my young fren, that she is extremely auditory, I hv become MR. AUDITORY. I also slow down everything including my movements, speech, eating, etc. I hv used my voice as an hypnotic DRUG.

I also know that a gal like SS will judge my attractiveness as a man based SOLELY on my voice n how auditory my words r. Even my perceived rating on the Male Dominance Scale is of secondary importance……

Her father is very musical n auditory as well. Her given Chinese name is rhythm/waves!! Like her dad, she is obsessed w/ voice, sounds n spoken words.

To date, she has not said a single no to anything I want or ask of her. And she has fulfilled promptly everything she has promised. As u recall, I offered her 6k a month to be my GF. She declined saying I was paying way too much!! So reluctantly, I offered her 4k a month n she gladly accepted it. She will NOT work at all. She wants to be w/ me as much as possible outside her school hrs.

I must confess that I hv never had such perfect rapport, such intimacy, such harmony in sharing n free flowing n exchange of my words, thoughts, feelings, emotions, aspirations, etc w/ another human being as I hv w/ SS. I even told her that she looks n sounds very dear n familiar as if I hv met her before, perhaps in past lives, dreams or fantasies or during meditations!!

Frankly, I’m having such a wonderful time w/ her that I want the current journey to continue as it is, indefinitely. I’m worried that this current state of perfect bliss n euphoria may end, at least for me, when I taste her pussy in 3-4 days.

My other mission is of course to field test the validity of the assumptions, beliefs n strategies expounded by some ANG Mo gurus on RS n love. Whether by executing some of these operations, an old chi ko pek can make a chio SYT FALL in love w/ him, as these gurus hv reiterated n reassured. Just like scientists designing n building a nuclear weapon, they will never know if it will actually work unless n until they conduct a real test (the big explosion!)

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Originally Posted by

ansonsohna

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here’s to all of us making steady improvements in love, life & money making ability.

Hi bro anson, I have been reading thru some of your posts and come away impressed. You are indeed making amazing progress (hey even in this forum your rep points have improved significantly. I distinctly remembered that your points were a measly ten when we last met up and that you were so upset when you got zapped from this low base. Well, even in this forum (as in real life), understanding of “Rules of Engagement” certainly helped didn’t it?.

Now let’s enumerate your progress since we last met up:

1. You have tasted what it is like to negotiate with WL in your experience with EE. The most important thing here is that you are able to state what you want in the transaction (instead of passively hoping or assuming that the other party will take your interest into consideration). This is important in many negotiation scenarios.

2. You have actively sought out and dated instead of merely passively waiting for chance encounters. Like any skill, meeting and asking a gal out requires an element of practice and some basic strategizing.

Don’t know whether you have found the gal of your dreams or not, but the most important thing is that you have been creating choices and opportunity for yourself. (For some people, you may later realize that the elusive gal of your dreams is someone you already know/knew- it just takes a situation and context whereby you have that epiphany (“aha moment”) that the gal you know is actually the dream gal that you have been coveting.

3. The practice sessions on collecting rejections did you a world of good I reckon. It thickens you skin (“ego protection”) and inures you against a non favorable reaction over time.

I think you are now more emotionally equipped to handle ‘rejections’ vis-a-vis the last time we met.

If you think back, I am sure that you will feel nonplussed on the fact that you actually feel so affected with the gal who played ‘hot and cold’ in retrospect. You were needy then – and seriously short of options. That is why every positive and negative act of hers gets an amplified response in you.

“Options and choice gives you freedom and will empower you. At the very least you can decide on a course of action (rather than being a passive reactant of circumstance).”

4. I noticed that you have cheonged in New Beijing and that you have offered to repay me my “Loan” (it’s a gift btw). This suggests to me that your financial situation is improving.

Timely Reminder just in case you forget my adage: do NOT ever get into debt to indulge in vices. Debts incurred must always have a “positive return” when you clear it.

5. You didn’t post much about your work situation. I hope you have imbibed my little treatise on ‘gentle’ assertiveness (powerful paradox used by the most powerful people of all time including founders of major religions) when handling difficult / bullying colleagues.

6. Your ONS adventure is good (and hilarious). I think you are beginning to appreciate that there are certain dynamics in every interactive situations. From your narrative, you seem to be able to generally apply certain NLP principles. Continue doing what you have done.

(NLP talk for those interested):

Note that by being conscious of communication patterns that are favoured by a person, you are already one step ahead. Your Beer Aunty is an aural person, she likes to “hear” when communicating. Match her speed of talking, repeat some of the phrases she uses, and subtly mirror her gesticulations - it will get you some rapport with her.

Not sure if you deliberately apply this technique or just stumble upon it. Whatever it is, well done and congrats on achieving this milestone!

I would also like to call to reader’s attention here is that (again extrapolating from anson’s narrative) bro ansonsohna confident demeanor when dealing with her. This is a very attractive trait in a male.

Forget NLP and whatever Masterstrokes - just remember to be appear confident (not cocky) when dealing with people. Act out “confidence” if need be (even if inside you is quivering).

Anyway, do continue with your field trips (and get experience engaging people). You now have an awareness of communication patterns (however vague or subtle). Just continue to be aware of it and try to occasionally ‘identify’ what these patterns are. Whether this person is a visual person, a aurel person or kinesthetic person.

Sorry for the abrupt ending to this post as I got to attend to some matters.

Meanwhile bro ansonsohna, you have my congratulations on your stellar progress in the personal development front.

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Rejuvenation

bro can elaborate on this?

hi bro rejuvenation, just got back from a particularly challenging situation business wise. As such, will later elaborate this principle (maybe bro ansonsohna would like to try his hand?) as I do not want to delve into the profound at this moment.

“Levity-wise” my gals on hand are only my Singapore & Thai (Paeng) gf. One is perpetually busy and the other is ‘faraway’ in the LOS. No any other mistress or BY presently. Still receiving the occasional SMS from CG (ex PRC waitress) but looks like she is getting along fine without me (and my patronage) ….

So with this little down time mistressing wise and generally starting with a “clean slate” (although I may BY Xin2 later depending on whether I can find someone suitable), esteemed bros like warbird, dybj, ldh etc … have all superseded me and left me trailing in their wake.

And to bring a little romantic dalliance and Joie de vivre in my life (romance does really sweeten the quality of your life – best fountain of youth available), I will be in a ‘hunting-courting’ mode during this period of relative lull.

BTW, I do enjoy the chase/pursuit aspects of courtship/mistressing in itself. Ipso facto, you can expect me to trawl the Nite-club and KTV scene these couple of days in search of interesting prospects. I will also be looking into regular gals (including Singaporeans into the mix) for my next would be mistress.

Remember, whatever the outcome, whether I am able to find some interesting prospect or not – I will NOT obsess over the outcome. I will just treat the chase as an intrinsically enjoyable and fun activity in itself.

And since I don’t have to maintain any BY currently, I can do an outright BY and not the budget version i.e. the mistress need not work save her being a ‘sex-cretary’ to me!

Cheers … hope to have some nice story to share. Also will continue expatiating on some of the concepts talked here soon!

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Moria

good 1, thanks for sharing

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Portgas

wat a great post. pls keep it coming

hi Portgas & Morio, thanks for kind words. Appreciate it.

Sorry for the sub-plot in this thread for now, but I shall enumerate the litany of activities since I got back home and then generate two salient points of discussions. It will relate this to overarching principle of being empowered and creating choice for your self I promise.

Since I got back, I have covered the following in the span of five days:

1. DC (met up with several bros here, among them Bro Warbird, Bro DYBJ, Bro Loving Dickhead, Bro LKY etc ……. Enjoyed myself immensely. Thanks for your company guys!)

2. Club Jade (Nice short outing with Bro Warbird again. Always enjoyed his company. Anyway the place and talent here is a write-off - although what is nice about this outing is that I get to meet another batch of samsters.)

3. Amani (some gems but in general WL mostly MILFY and not in line with my sense of aesthetics)

4. Club Infinitude (don’t go too late on a Fri, not many choice as most of the A list gals will be booked by then.)

5. Las Vegas (overall standard not too hot vis-a-vis my last visit although I did meet an ‘old’ friend from Kabuki (PRC English speaking lass - now S’pore PR)

6. BS (Girls are very competitive and aggressive - but I do like it - feels like a rock star being mobbed. Sat with 10 girls, or more appropriately, I tipped 10 gals. Gave a little $10 note as a ‘red’ card to this particularly determined MIFY WL who clung on to me for the longest of time despite my refusal. It is a place that I intend to re-visit soon)

7. LG (an obscure Hanging Flower Joint. I met that elusive gal H that I was mentioning to Bro Warbird. H is one girl that had thus far refused to accept SGD 18, 000 to be BY. Now that I have interacted with her, unlikely that H is a “closet lesbian” or suffers from dyspareunia as suggested by Bro Warbird as reasons for her refusal. Will share with you an interesting story about H.

Also at LG, I met a singer who is probably one of best singers ever at a HFJ. And she is NEW – third day working there and apparently has formal training).

8. Attended two F1 rocks concerts on Friday & Saturday with Sin gf on both nites. Caught a little ZZ Top (we came late), No doubt & Beyonce (dam - missed Black Eye Pea as I came late again). Anyway, seeing Gwen Stephanie’s nicely sculptured bod make me covet the ‘well tone’ body type. I shall seek it out at the next KTV joint I visit.

9. Easy 50, a joint at TP which is celebrating an anniversay there last week. Good music and operates on a “push/buy drinks system with low gal playability. BTW, I got a dancer here as my “gf” less than a year ago. Still in communication with her although she is back in China. (Generally difficult to administer BY here as many ah pek here do throw money to indulge the girls).

10. Serviced SIN gf & an old flame cum FB.

For my SIN GF, there is a heavy dose of Love wayangs with my SIN gf. Got to say that she is as good as Paeng, my Thai gf in her little own way. I sense a potential ‘emotional conflict’ percolating if I indeed have to choose one at the end of the day.

Oh dear, looking back at the past five days, I see the hedonistic lifestyle, the profligate and prodigal pursuit of women, the sheer wantonness of it all ….. but I LOVE IT!