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Remember you being so upset about the gal ignoring you and you fretting about the prospect of not getting anyone besides in a WL context? Well, you have “gotten” a new gal and she is a ’normal’ Office Lady - may not be your dream girl, but nevertheless it is a start. Let’s see where you can go from here okay?
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You were also upset about the rep points you have in this forum. Now look … you have almost overtaken me.
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You thought that you can never overcome your cravings for ciggies and alcohol. Now you have gone days (or is it weeks?) without alcohol and managed to cut down rather drastically on yur cigerette consumption.
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You are also more in control with your spending decisions and are now in a postion to offer me partial re-payment. This coming from a desperate situation?
- I have relieved CG (ex PRC waitress) of my patronage. I find that I am beginning to get irritated with her constant demands to see/meet me despite knowing my hectic business schedule. I am also bored with her. This boredom is exacerbated by the fact that I am engaged with several new prospecgt that I want to bring into my patronage (initial novelty always seems more compelling).
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Paeng, my Thai Mistress, will no longer be classified as a Mistress in the context of this thread as I do not support her monetarily anymore. (Our spa business is doing rather well). She is now my business partner cum FB. Or given the rather intimate times we share recently, could even be said to be my girl friend. (Note that despite this change of status, I will not accept any nonsense and curtail my freedom in order to indulge her. Indulgence on my part has to be wholly voluntary on my part i.e. I want to indulge her and NOT because of any emotional blackmails or amorphous ‘sense’ of obligation on what constitutes a boyfriend role should be).
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I am still in contact with XH (my hybrid gf-mistress). As to be expected, she is badgering me to send her money so that she can come to SIN again. (Note that she couched it in terms that she misses you so much and other sweet wayangs. She made it seem like the fairy tale beast longing/pining for beauty when she is absent.
- With the blessings of Mistress Brotherhood, I sampled Xin2. (Got more to share on their latest projects).
- M, my FB went back to Vietnam. I think she has passed her “beautician” exam and will be looking for slightly longer stay in Singapore with an “S” pass. I have met M’s sister (whom I was supposed to introduce to Bro Warbird). She is pretty although on a short side. My hunch of her bearing her sister’s genetics in the mammary department is correct. She is well endowed despite being in a small package. Only drawback with her is that her command of Chinese and English is very poor. Verbal communication is a challenge.
Got a few bros here asking me about my personal views on keeping mistress (when they are married).
It would be disingenous and hypocritical of me if I pontificated otherwise. Also note that I personally do not face this “ethical dilemma” as I am not married presently.
Anyway, my two cents on
Mistressing within a Marriage
In all, I personally find that Patron based mistressing is the best and most efficient compromise to preserve marital monogamy while satisfying a man’s primal urge for polygamous relationships. (ST is the best option if only sex is involved as it provides variety without endangering the marriage too much. Extra Marital Affairs and other GF based relationships are the most destructive of the lot!).
Patron based mistressing means that you must be in control of yourself (especially of your own emotions) and the BY relationship itself at all times.
In fact Patron based mistressing is a method adopted by essentially polygamous creatures like Hua, Terrence & Mike in the context of being happily ensconce in a monogamous ‘marital bliss’. If you see them in public, you would not know that these avuncular men who are apparently so close and intimate with his family can have many gals on the side!
One caveat though, they each all have literally hundreds of gals by way of “practical experience” so emotional control over themselves & their mistress is very easy for them - which may not be necessarily true in the case of other bros.
(As an aside, Hua & Mike and even Jus father’s have more than one wife. I am sure many younger readers may also have granddads with more then one wife as well. It is only with ascension of the “western conceptual lens” and the advent of the Women’s Charter that made monogamy seem ’the natural order’ of things here.)
Just as there are a large number of man that thrive in a monogamous relationships; there are an equal number of men who lead lives of ‘quiet desperation’ and then sublimate their philandering instinct in order to preserve their marriage. (I, for one know how destructive a broken marriage can be, and this coming from a person without children!).
Also some men just want the experience of a BY relationship – a one off – to assuage this quiet desperation, while others want the ‘polygamous experience’ on a regular basis.
Whatever the motivations however, when you want to ‘steal eat’, best make sure that you are in control at all times. Be empowered in all your dealings with the other party/parties.
But first and most importantly remember to take care of your own self first. Be certain that you can handle KC trap, the copious tears & emotional blackmail threats, mistress machinations etc … in short
be empowered
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PS: I will deal with many of the mistress’ machination(s) here. I have seen & experience a lot. And unless some new tricks are presented, I can probably see through the intriugues and present a probable effective solution.
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ansonsohna
…… I have thinking abt the issue of being w a gal i dun find attractive. wat is yur opinion? u tink love & lust can be 培养 one or not? can u ‘do it’ with gal u don’t find attractive? can lust develop frm initially don’t find sexy?
(BTW, I am 又丑又陋 - ugly & low station. So unless I make more $ for mistress, its ‘settling’ for what I can get. Don’t know abt other bros but for me; sometimes even during ST/FL, I many times I got no ‘Love Wayang’ only the fucking).
Bro Justime: I read tis thread to motivate me to make more $$. Aspiration & inspiration. I know tat my now salary not enuff, so tinking hard of sideline biz (legal ones lah!) to supplement my ’laoyah’ pay. i want to have the experience of BY one day. Hopefully sooner rather than later.
Hi Bro anson, I have tracked your postings in this forum and have noted the progress you made. Well done!
Now that you have made some critical breakthoughs, there is a tendency to “settle”. You are NOT to settle at this point. Have you not seen how far you can go?
Continue with little exercises I gave you and remember my little talk about understanding the “Rules of Engagement”.
Well you can and did succeed. Some reference points -
How’s that for quick progress? Do you still think you need to settle after seeing how far you have come barely over one month ago?
As “homework” for you, do you still have the ST/FL contact which treated you coldly? Apply some of my steps I taught you on engaging a WL and see if the same still holds true.
As a social experiment: In order to demonstrate that money can fuel or faciliate “love wayangs”, pay the “cold fish” an additional $50 over the present quoted rate. Add these words for extra potency: say to Cold Fish that she has made such a deep impression in your heart and mind that you want to know her better & that the extra $50 tip is simply a token gesture of what your appreciation of her services. Your Chinese is so much better than mine so I leave it to you to craft the actual words!
Now after applying these two steps, see if you still get the cold fish treatment in your next visit. Session on me if it is!
In fact, you can use the money that you insist on paying me back on this experiment. (Please note that you must take care of your own personal situation first before spending this money!).
So Bro Anson, well done on yur first tentative steps towards empowerment. What I like about you is your humilty, your desire and the fact that you are willing to take action to alleviate your situation despite your discomfort…. And the initial results are encouraging is it not?
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warbird
……. I admire ur detached nonchalant attitude.
Your approach to the issue of unfaithfulness is very level-headed n pragmatic.
I agree that it’s not difficult to tell if a gal is lying by carefully observing her nonverbal cues n body language, hahaha.
OK, if I know my BAO-ee 偷吃 n If I’m already bored w/ her, I’ll just dump her by breaking off all ctc. No explanations necessary. If I still enjoy her pussy, I’ll alter the terms in my favor, fxxk her until I’m bored, then dump her.
BTW, thx to u n bro DYBJ, I hv improved my negotiating skill. When a gal wants a long-term commitment, I’ll now say YES, IF certain conditions r met…such as if she gives me complete satisfaction, if she is always available, if she doesn’t eat outside, if…hehehe. There is a big IF I wont tell her: If I dun get bored w/ her. I’m gradually becoming an overconfident n unflappable bastard.
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This is great. Absolutely great! What took me literally years to learn, you condensed it within months. So happy for you bro!
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warbird
……. I admire ur detached nonchalant attitude.
Your approach to the issue of unfaithfulness is very level-headed n pragmatic.
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kurosaki ichigo
…… To cut the long story short, I dumped her after a few months of pleasure. It was nice while it lasted. Could have been better if it went on longer.
Justime’s motto is true and stands the test —> Be nonchalantly detached… I’ve used it before and the girl just comes crawling back to you even though she has her own tricks trying to ensnare you
I find that being detached to outcome serve you best. You just focus on the process itself and let corollary/consequence/result follow its own course. You will be surprised that the results will mostly align itself to your desires if you simply take care of the process, the “here & the now” so to speak.
Speaking of “the now”, let me borrow a quote from Bro Warbird’s post on his ‘Picking Up gals outside KTV’ thread (- good complementary material to this thread may I add) which I find very erudite.
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warbird
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Why am I trying so many gals at the same time? I enjoy the game NOW.
As a student of Zen Buddhism, I try to live in the perpetual present moment, which is the ONLY reality. I dun agonise over my past, which doesn’t exist AND I dun worry abt the future, which is also nonexistent, hahaha. I do learn from my past n plan for the future, but spending less than 1% of my time doing that though, unlike the majority of people who r preoccupied w/ their past n future which dun even exist…
Live every present moment well ur life will turn out fine.
Just my humble 2 cents. If some bros hv dissenting views, pls share w/ us here. And give ur reasons though.
Show me where ur past is. To me, there r ur current memories of the past, which r nothing more than biochemical reactions occurring in ur brain at the present moment.!
Let me share /recommend an amazing piece of work by one of my fave authors:
‘Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience’, by Mihaly Csíkszentmihályi.
(Click on the link, it will take you ‘wikipedia’ which summarizes very well the main purport of his work.)
And by the way, if you adhere to the prinicples of “Flow” with regards to sex … copious juices will flow, and you will be seen as a stud.
Good nite. Enjoy your read and be illuminated!
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warbird
…..BTW, supposing u hv 2 BAO-ees who dun know each other, would u try to bring them together to do 双飞?
If the answer is yes, would u change CD when going from one pussy to the other?
hi bro warbird, I have indeed done so. Twice - with different sets of gals. “Shuangfei” session between my mistresses is probably about six seven times in total.
Its probably quite fun if you can pull it off well. I must admit here that I did not do so well with regards to the execution bit.
These are some negatives that you need to take note off.
In general before you embark on such any ménage à trois activities, you must know the characters of your mistresses. One obvious corollary is that Jealousy (I guess it a natural phenomenon as it concerns their ricebowl) will rear its ugly head.
QQ (a singer in a recently renovated KTV) & ZE were both under my patronage about three years ago. I brought them together for some “shuangfei” fun. What happens on the ground is really quite different from my expectations. My ‘porno’ based perspective were literally thrown quite asunder when both girls do not react well in terms of lesbianic interactions. Yes, there are several pleasurable elements such as one licking the shaft while the other covers the testes (or gives you a nice ass rim), the different array of new positions that avail to you - missionary while administering cunninglingus is nice ..
It is the aftermath that concerns me. QQ & ZE will invariably ask about each other. They would try to dig out information on how much I pay the other party (I gave ZE more). Every little gift or tokens was met with comments such as whether the other gets similar gifts. The simmering jealousy is palpable & it somehow detracts a little from each respective individual Love Wayangs.
To be fair, both frankly they tried to conceal this aspect, but I was quite sensitive to the nuance. There seem to be an ‘invisible presence’ of the other party. Gradually, because of that, a feeling of ennui (or “sian”) with both of them crept in, the writing is on the wall with the relationship.
This being said, I know that ‘shuangfei’ can successfully executed. Mike & Hua have many orgy sessions with their mistress. In fact I partook in several of the debauchery sessions, including a particularly memorable one whereby we simulated a Roman orgy with the use of white bed sheets. Its eight gals and three guys with sex toys!
What sets my ‘brothers’ and me apart is that, they are able to ignore & dislodge the ‘simmering’ vestige of jealousy & rivalry between their mistress. They are able to set aside this behavioural quirks. For me, I just cannot ignore the underlying nuances of the inevitable unhappiness & jealousy of my mistress.
The reason why Mike & Hua is able to successfully handle this is probably them being more focused on the sexual dimension whereas I sometimes do place importance on the ‘relationship & interaction’ element (the ‘sweet wayangs’). In this regard, I got to give props to them, they can allow their mistress to be ‘shared’. I, on the other hand, still cannot do so until today.
And in response to your questions, yes, its a “common condom”. Initially, its a change & replacement with every new position & gal, but later the same one is used for both girls.
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DO_YOU_BJ
Wow boss Justime, didn’t know you also got singers
When you go HFJ, can jio me?
Me wanna eye open open to c u in action
I don’t have many singers under my patronage. Only three (one dancer amongst them but I classify her under the singer category as they got their work permit for only six months at a time) in my entire life.
Anyway for singers, I have to 100% defer to you as I am quite a greenhorn here. Don’t know how to extract maximum value for money in their context!
Why I tend to shy away from singers is because their situation does not lend easily to what I want from my BY in terms of flexibilty of time (to accomodate mine).
You are absolutely right that in singers, you can easily control her movement(s) and whom she is seeing. It is the best possible BY prospect for those whose time is relatively flexible and/or whose timing dovetails nicely with a singers work schedule.
The opposite side of the coin is that a singer is also governed by the same constraint when it comes to seeing/entertaining me. I hate the notion of buying time for singers to accompany me as I don’t want the entertainment establishment to earn this additional income from me. Afterall, I am already paying her equal to what she is drawing (monthly target of $6, 000 to $8, 000if I remember correctly).
Another reason why singers is not suitable in my personal context is that they must ‘work’ everyday of the week. For me I like my BY’s schedule to fit into mine which can be rather erratic. And finally because they are on work permit, they cannot accompany me on my overseas travel if I so desire. (Bladdy company safekeep their passport!).
As an anecdote, I remembered that with QQ, I have to pay $1600 for two days to the joint* in order to take her off work. And on the second day was the onset of QQ’s menses (da-yi-ma / yue-jing). $800 blow job!
(For those who want to save money, the MC trick does not really work as in entails massive inconvenience. In a fit of ‘cheapo-ness’, I ever tried the MC trick to get my mistress off work on the cheap. Learnt that most HFjoints accept only hospital MC (not even government polyclinic ones). In this case, despite not succeeding with the MC ruse, I do agree with the establishment rules on this. If so easy allow MC, sure open to abuse!)
Finally bro DYBJ, if you have sort of a hybraid mistress-gf going with a singer, you will sometimes need to accompany her to buy ‘xiu’ dresses. Bet you probably went shopping at CP for ‘stage dresses’ at some point!
Can tell you which shops are good if you need to bring your singer BY/gf for stage dress shopping ….
Will jio you go Kabuki soon. Haven’t been there since they renovated!
All information at the above post is based on the ‘old’ Kabuki under the old management. Except for a veteran still very hot ang-pai (who continues to ply her trade at the newly renovated premise) & an occasional mummy that I utilise, the new Kabuki scene may be an unfamiliar terrain to me as far as comprehensive understanding in the Rules of Engagement is concerned!
Good reason for a revisit soon!
Excellent comments bro! (Particularly like the email style of point by point reply).
Like to state at the outset that I respect your preference to BY singers vis-a-vis normal KTV. It offers so many advantages as you so eloquantly pointed out in your earlier post. In fact, I would even venture to say that BY a singer is overall a better proposition.
Why I tend to shy away from singers is because their situation does not lend easily to what I want from my BY in terms of flexibilty of time (to accomodate mine).
Yeah, if timing clash, really no point liao, but then again, aren’t all these bitches operating at the same timezone?????
For me there is one significant difference: a KTV gal can follow me home immediately half way during work or simply choosing not go to work at all without the need to incur hefty 买场 fees ($150 booking fee vs $800 买场). Do note that in the Havelock Road KTV, there is some penalty for KTV if they absent from work however.
All in all, a normal KTV gal generally has got more control of her time vis-a-vis a singer.
This however
may not
be advantageous to you, but for my particular context & preference, it is an important consideration
……The opposite side of the coin is that a singer is also governed by the same constraint when it comes to seeing/entertaining me. I hate the notion of buying time for singers to accompany me as I don’t want the entertainment establishment to earn this additional income from me. Afterall, I am already paying her equal to what she is drawing (monthly target of $6, 000 to $8, 000if I remember correctly).
Ah bro, this is where ur terms flaw….doesnt mean you BY xxx amount, that does not include 买场, nego from the start so such unfavourable times could be avoided
Guess I should have been clearer & more thorough in my elaboration. We all know that a singer’s target is to achieve $6,000 in ‘flower’ sales in order for her to earn her basic salary that the company pays her - anything below this target, the company deducts from this target. We also know that to 买场 cost about $800 per nite.
When I proposed to QQ, my “allowance” to her is $6,000 per month. This includes the time when I take her for the nite, i.e. she doesn’t work. 买场 money is to come out from this $6,000. To be fair to her, I set a maximum of four times per month (or about once weekly). Anything above that I ’top up’. I can actually squeeze more from her, but I did not want to do so.
Anyway, during the early throes of the relationship, when the novelty factor and desire is strongest, I called out at least three times a week. Hence the ’top up’ is needed.
BTW, I only sparodically hang flowers, just a token $100 occasionally in QQ case!
………I like my BY’s schedule to fit into mine which can be rather erratic. And finally because they are on work permit, they cannot accompany me on my overseas travel if I so desire. (Bladdy company safekeep their passport!).
Wrong bro, you can tell the company that you’re bringing her wif you to where ever for a fuck trip for how long, its actually very common. Guess you are pretty green in this area where singers r concerned
In my case, I already arranged for QQ to stay at my love nest rather than company’s accomodation. The company gave me face by allowing QQ this arrangement. This subseuqently created a mini controversy as after QQ’s precedent, several other singers also decide to strike out on her own. (Company provided accomodation is actually a friend of the boss, the establishment do earn/charge accomodation fees for the singers).
In addition, I also manage to take her out many times for ‘quickies’ without any fines due to my regular patronage at the establishment.
I don’t know that I can bring a singer out for days on end without incurring a 买场 fee for everyday that she is absent from work. You are right, there are indeed several things that I still gotta learn from you here with regards to BY a singer! Any tips to share with this regard?
…….. Learnt that most HFjoints accept only hospital MC (not even government polyclinic ones). In this case, despite not succeeding with the MC ruse, I do agree with the establishment rules on this. If so easy allow MC, sure open to abuse!)
Sorry, this kinda things i dun do one, other people know damn sia suay man
What to do… sometimes the scrooge / parsimonious feeling surfaces involuntarily!
but mitigating factor is that this idea is mooted by QQ herself here. She feels that saving my money is as if saving her money. “As If” is the operative word here.
….. Bet you probably went shopping at CP for ‘stage dresses’ at some point!
Tks bro but believe it or not, i dun accompany them for anything, we only meet when i say so.
Totally back and call
I do indulge them. However, its always part of reward or as inducement for something I want. There is always strings attached. “My string!” (inuendo)
For the first time I bought QQ her two stage dress (which is cheaper than you think), I insisted & get bj in car as I drive all the way after her work to East Coast Park - with the requisite swallow. And then order her to bathe me Thai style when we get back at my Love Nest. Zhong Guo mei, despite my best training efforts, still lag behind the Thais (genetic?) in body massage baths I feel.
Also, sex act once done is taken for granted. Everytime I feel like public sex, I now expect & get it from QQ subsequently. More than the worth for the price of the stage dress & my time accompanying her in my persoal reckoning.
Will jio you go Kabuki soon. Haven’t been there since they renovated!
Will do
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Yup, must be done before Bro Warbird’s departure. Sometime in Sep I believe?
Just like to drop by to say a quick hello to all readers. Sorry for not contributing recently but I am rather busy lately with acquisitions: mostly in the business sense! But I do have some exciting news to share with regards to my non business acquisition which is germane to this thread. This I will share very soon.
I have followed the discussions in this thread and “Picking up Outside KTV” thread despite not showing up by way of postings. Thoroughly enjoyed the discussions and sharing of stories and strategies. In particular, the reality dimension in the application of various mistressing stratagems. Will add my ‘two cents’ to these in a bit.
[QUOTE=Fishcer;4061610]U r really moving up the ladder very very fast…./QUOTE]
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marc5
……some techniques I sometime used to “sian” PRC babes beside cold hard cash….But bro Master warbird is much skillful la…
Agree with you there bro Fisher and bro marc, Bro Warbird has indeed, with great alacrity, climbed up the mistress evolutionary ladder. He is now perched at least two rungs above me!
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warbird
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We hv not heard from TS bro justime for some time. I’m beginning to miss his wise words n insights.
I hv recently come to realize that to attract a bevy of chio SYTs, first n foremost, I must improve my perceived rating on the Male Dominance Scale………
A much easier n equally effective method, although it will take much longer, is to use words n language to induce strong emotional responses. Telling her creative n funny jokes is a good start. Then follow up w/ some BS stories using descriptive n vivid terms, repeat n expand…get her neuro hormonal transmitters flowing freely…use ur voice as a DRUG n you will arouse her sexually w/o her realizing what is happening… Carpet bomb her w/ these WORDS n STORIES. Repeat w/ some variations, again n again. Evoke “Meta-feelings,” or emotions abt emotions, and emotions abt
emotions abt emotions. You will become the hero in a romance novel…HER romance novel.
Miss you too Bro!
The strategies you described are Neuro-linguistic Programing based strategies. It is generally effective and forms the bulwark of most Success coaching paradigm today (such as Anthony Robbins and even Adam Khoo / Barny Wee locally).
Do know that aspects of NLP has been modified to “speed seduction” techniques and have spawned a sub genre in the fine art of “buaya-ing”.
Although, many seduction technique authors do mention cultural variables, it is often cursory and not substantive. There is also a slightly ‘western’ slant (which still useful given that humans beings are mostly the same everywhere). Also do know however, that seduction techniques espoused by these authors need fine tuning – more so if applied in the KTV scene.
BTW, some local wannabe publish the art of seduction in the Singapore context, but it is so steeped in political correctness that I laughed outright. One of the funniest piece of “fiction” (too divorced from real life to classify as self help or non fiction) that I have read in ages! I am only concerned with what works – not sounds good and ’looks like it might work’ theoretical abstractions!
A quick advice – like my strategies outlined in this thread, always determine its efficacy against your personal context. If NLP does not resonate or work for you, use other strategies that do. There is no one universal success tool. You can and should borrow techniques from the giants of success technologies (none bigger than the NLP in my personal opinion); experiment (and adapt if need be) to see what works for you in the context of your real life. Also be aware that everything is in a state of flux. What you read here may work now, but may not be so effective two years down the road. Remember: Litmus test precepts against the success as it pertains to your personal life.
Little anecdote about NLP and me: I have met Milton Erikson, an instrumental member of the NLP movement as well as a successful psychiatrist known for his ability to help the most difficult patients change their destructive behaviour. Many adherent/followers there revered him (much like Steve Jobs) and conferred him such God-like status that I am slightly taken aback when I attended one such gathering. (Such is the power of hype). To me, his lectures and works while very good, is not exactly mind blowing! And Milton is not exactly a very compelling speaker as well.
Gotta end here for now … (sorry for keeping you a little more in a suspense mode before I divulge my little non business acquisition).
Cheers everyone & keep em discussion going!
Tried to sleep but unable to do so as my mind is still quite active. Thought is best to post a little something while awaiting Morpheus’ (Greek God of Dreams – not the Matrix Trilogy character) visit.
So many developments in the BY – Mistress front that I don’t know where to start, so I shall take the most expedient route and begin with a summary of the ‘old’ story before narrating the later development.
An update on the “old”:
CG is not taking the news very well. And I have to expand considerable effort to help her see through this. As a generalization, the problem with taking in non KTV WL is that they are more emotionally vulnerable / fragile. Monetary inducement(s) consideration constitutes a lesser percentage of their overall schema in accepting you as a Patron.
Bros, you must learn to inure yourself against these Sweet Wayang trappings and not concern yourself whether it is borne out of genuineness of not. If not, you will be vulnarable to exploitation!)
Terrence basically moved on and decided not take Xin2 as his mistress anymore. (Ladies wanting to land a Patron take note: while playing hard to get can flame an interest in a man, playing too hard to get may backfire especially if the man has multiple options and hates the bother of a sustained chase).
Yes, Xin2 skin is everything I imagined it to be. Fair and nicely textured like fine silk. What’s more exciting is that Xin2 is willing to play the submissive in any S&M role you suggest (Mike’s training?). We bought a gag ball (from a sex shop in SIN), gagged her like a horse’s bit and rode her doggy fashion as I slapped her ass. Red palm marks against white skin of her butt is highly erotic. To make it all very incongruous (and ultimately sexy) is Xin2 looked so demure (like classic fragile porcelain Chinese beauty), yet allows or even suggest to be saddled and straddled this way.
Don’t want to give an elaborate narration of the sexploits at this point of time as it may ruin my prospect of sleep. I still get a hard on thinking about it!
Anyway, bottom line is that she is now proposing to be my mistress at $4, 000 a month but she is allowed to work. She will skip work anytime I choose in order to indulge me. Xin2 is also currently in China to visit her family. I am supposed to give her an answer in two weeks when my schedule is a little less daunting!. In my context, very few PRC takes initiative or can be sexually adventurous to the extent that she is. I am sorely tempted to say yes at this point in time!
Now come the exciting part. M will be talking to her friends to see if anyone of them is interested in becoming mistress. They are mainly beauticians (and even one virgin I am told). My criteria to them is that they have to be below 22 years old and must not work in entertainment joints heretofore. At the time of writing, there is already one interested party.
Sorry guys got to end here … sleepy already. Stay tuned…….