Are you writing down my story? How come i sense that that’s my childhood….
Although in a guy’s position…
TS dun worry! we all have our pasts, as long as your know the road ahead would be good. just curious, what happened to that tattoo which bore your ex’s name? did you get it remove?
awaits for more sharing from you
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bigmannow
It’s all in the past… many ppl did stupid things when young (inexperienced in life) but most important is to learn and realise these stupid things and not do them again when u are older.
Yes! I have learn my lesson and will never let these things ever happened again in my life.
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Lubber.duckie
Yup…totally agree with what bro bigmannow.
Everyone has a past…even saints commit mistakes….learn to let go of the past, or you will not be happy even when you grow old.
What’s important now is to focus on your life with your husband now and future.
I am still trying very very hard to forget everything that happened in the past but all “thanxs” to my tattoos that brings back my memories at times.
Some readers or if I m not wrong should be “samsters” here ask what tattoos I have and did my dar asked abt it?
Yes of course he asked me abt it. My reply was that ah mei (my real sis) intend to have tattoos and afraid later mummy scolded therefore pulled me along. I lied that I got the tattoos just before I met him.
My tattoos: butterflies, fireball and tribals.
I never wear barebacks and tubes again after I got to know dar.
I think its very common to spot girls having tattoos with butterflies and tribal…As for fireball, maybe u might want to consider covering up the fireball by adding some designs to ‘beautify’ it…I think your concern is not to have anymore tattoos…but since u already have tattoo that reminds you of the past…why not just cover it up…
just my two cents worth…
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Originally Posted by
Lubber.duckie
I think its very common to spot girls having tattoos with butterflies and tribal…As for fireball, maybe u might want to consider covering up the fireball by adding some designs to ‘beautify’ it…I think your concern is not to have anymore tattoos…but since u already have tattoo that reminds you of the past…why not just cover it up…
just my two cents worth…
As for now, I am just hoping that technology allows me to remove my tattoos without any pain and scars. Anyway, thanxs for ur suggestion.
You got the second right move.
Get the tattoo remove even if it pains you.
The tattoo is a reminder of the past which you want to forget.
No need to keep it.
Hi sis,
After reading your story, I can feel that it will be hard for you to recall and write down your bad memories but at the same time this might be your only way you can think of in order to relieve yourself. Pls feel free to share here but if you feels uncomfortable to elaborate literally then its fine not to do so. You will have my full support and understanding.
God bless you.
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Originally Posted by
qwerty66
You got the second right move.
Get the tattoo remove even if it pains you.
The tattoo is a reminder of the past which you want to forget.
No need to keep it.
Can laser off the tattoos but scars still remain. I saw before and it look awful.
If u do not want to remove the tattoos, in a way, they serve as a reminder of what can happen if those past mistakes are repeated… ppl need reminders from time to time in life cos temptations and stress lead ppl to make the same mistakes again..